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View Poll Results: How much more could u endure?
None 24 19.20%
1-2 more years 18 14.40%
3-5 more years 15 12.00%
Doesnt matter, thats my soulmate, Ill wait for life 68 54.40%
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Old 06-25-2011, 09:21 PM
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I'd say we're all on the same ocean, not the same boat. And I'll agree that that may very well have been what she meant.
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Old 06-25-2011, 09:23 PM
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Im sick a F***kn waitin mann..But Iam ...I got 5 more to go...After this 1 I aynt .... And there best nott be another bitt either...Cause I honestly dont think Id make it...11 years is enough to mess you up mann...


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So your saying you been WAITIN for him for 11 years.
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Old 06-25-2011, 09:25 PM
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My dad is a lifer and i kno my mom and him love each other dearly. My brother is his junior, we are jus like him and look just like him, she has nothin bad to say about my dad. its been 18 years so far and she still has her moments where shes mad at god. My dad never let my mom lift a finger. My whole family talks so good about him. Everyone feels like he has endured the worst kind of injustice. I always feel lucky to have his last name. When i marry Im not even changing it. Theres no doubt that he was the love of her life. But she married my stepdad this year, hes been in our live for about 10 years. Him and my dad are great friends now. He supports my dad (hes been in prison for a while too so he undertsands). He never lets my dad go without. My dad is happy that he has been able to step in as a father for us. Especially when we are in the years that will make or break us. He loves him. Hes happy for my mother that she can have happiness and the support she needs for her and his kids. My step dad is a great father, He will never replace my father and has no intentions to, but as a young girl growing up i needed him and my brother needed him also. He is a great man. My mom, my dad and my stepdad are all bestfriends. My step dad even has a savings account for him so that when he gets out he will be ok. Matter of fact, when i talked to my stepdad today he reminded me about something i had to do for my dad and gave me a message from him.

My mom never looked for anyone, but she never closed herself off from the opportunity. and if u ask me, I would never ask my mom to sacrifice the happiness she has found now to wait for my dad and my dad wouldnt either. HIs release date in 2020.
R u saying after 2 years you are going to leave if he's not home??
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Old 06-25-2011, 09:26 PM
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My man's out date is 2034. Despite his sentence, I chose to stay. Will I make it? God only knows.

Had he received more time, I would've walked. Sure, I would be his friend but that's it.
DID U SAY 2034? it's only 2011, so do u think ull make it? I don't thunk I will it's just too much. I thought I could but I don't think so.
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Old 06-25-2011, 09:47 PM
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My husbands out date is in 2023, I cont to wait patiently every day. He is truly my soul mate therefore I will be here until the end.
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I am like you I took a vow before God for better or worse. I will be here for my husband the whole time.I pray that this time will help him become a better person for our family.
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I'd say we're all on the same ocean, not the same boat. And I'll agree that that may very well have been what she meant.
I was definitely not laughing at you. Slow down mama.
My man is in til 2024. I think thats pretty stand up of you.
I actually mentioned your post to him on the phone tonight. I was like thats holdin on tight. Even he was like wow. In a good way.
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Old 06-26-2011, 12:11 AM
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I knew the amount of time three years ago and we have two more to go soo my decison has always been the same to stay with him during his time. He is worth every year i have waited.
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I would always say "if you're not home by this date then I can't do this anymore." Just me being selfish..but still those dates would come and go so much I would never leave. Something kept telling me to stay and I'm glad I put my childish ways aside because now here we are wit only 3 more months to go and we have a love so strong. He is definitely worth waiting for. I never once felt obligated to stay I just did simply because I wanted to. So I feel like even if he got 20 years or even life, Id be fussin but id still be right here. That's my heart, no one can live wit out their heart so no matter where he is in the world as long he is alive and well...I'm just fine <3
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Wow!!!! I thought our 15 year sentence was hardcore... Ya'll are total troopers.... I would wait untill forever for himm though... I tell him all the time that my heart beats in his chest....
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Being that Im only 23 and i wanna have kids, even though weve been together for a while b4 this, if he had more time than what he has now, i think I would jus be his friend and move on with my life.

Dd you all feel the same or different?
Yes I have. By the graces of god he has come from a 13 year plea deal to a 3 & 1/2 year deal. I'm 24 and I kept saying to myself that I could stick out the time when it was initially 13. It gives me time to get my life together. My heart was saying that, not my brain!.... I really want kids too. So I'm happy that his time had been reduced, took a big weight off my shoulders!
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He is my man, my best friend, my soulmate, my companion, my other half, the one who understands me and the person I love most in this world (beside my kids)...........there is no way I won´t wait. We got 6 yrs left att least, maybe much more.......and when he gets out I will pick him at the gate.
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i love mi husband this is the hardest thing we been through together but i know its made both of us grow and stronger so if he got more time i know i wud be there he's my bestfriend i cod love nobody eles tha way i love him and i strongly believe he would do the same for me.
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Mine is a lifer and no my decision to stand by him has not changed and will not change. GOD willing he does make it home, and if that is not GOD's plan, nope I am not leaving. We were both young when this started out, well younger lol, he has been gone for 14 years and we are about to be 37. We met at 12 and I knew then he was going to be my husband and I was right! Definitely some times are harder than others, and this is not an easy path to take, but I know there is no other man I would take it with.
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My mans out date is 2022 but his appeal Is in the courts. He could be home 3-4 years. He's already told me that if ever I can't do this to be upfront with him. I'm gonna stay with this man because it's not easy for me to have a man who accepts me for me, I can be myself with cause I'm far from perfect and I have a lot of flaws but this man doesn't see em. He loves me and would fight/die for me. I'm gonna ride this out with him. I love him and that's what a person does if they truly loves someone they never abandon them.
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My fiance has till 2013 and sometimes i feel like i was too young to already have done 3 years but i was with him since the end of my elemrntary year till now am currently 17 by the time he gets out ill be 19 i always told him i would ride it out with him but with no family support to visit or anything i feel very lost in 3 years i have visited 3 times the last time i went he proposed and i guess that is what give me the stength too ride this time with him faithfully.
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R u saying after 2 years you are going to leave if he's not home??
no.... his max date is 2016, i can do that. but if it was more than like 2018, then i wouldnt abandon him but i couldnt commit myself to it. I wouldnt be out lookin for someone. I would still be there for him and love him but I would leave my options open. I still have a life i need to live and he would never ask me to. he would never. hes not even askin for 2016.
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Omg luvndee I am feeling what you say my husband Max year is 2033 and I love him and married him for richer or poor etc.. And this is the worst n I'm staying I don't care wHat goes on though out there will be times when I wNt to say the he'll with it all but I will never leAve him astray dead ass. I love my husband n u can't put a length or time on love
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well i got 4 yrs left still and my husband down for 9 yrs but b4 i married him he was just my friend though...& thats rite THIS IS DA WORSE OF OUR MARRIAGE!!! but im here to the end of his journey!!! til his home with me & kids
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I entered the relationship with my boyfriend whilst he was incarcerated. Originally, all I was doing was just being someone he could call or write too. I didn't expect much more from it whatsoever. It took me by surprise when I realised I had feelings for him and finding out he did too. He's friends with my cousins and refers to my aunty as his own mum. They encouraged I visited my now boyfriend just to lift his spirits. Love works in mysterious ways because I never pictured myself to be in this situation. His out date is 2026. I'm currently 18 and despite my age/long wait, regardless of negative feedback I seem to get from others, it's all about making me a stronger person and for him that's what I want to be. Wether I'm with him upon his release I won't know until it happens but for now, I day take by day and it truly works for us. Us ladies have more faith in our men than they have in themselves and sometimes people can't understand that simply because our circumstances are "out of the ordinary". At the end of the day our happiness is important and we know how to achieve that
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WOW!!! girl u are sooo young & as u said love works in mysteries way....
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Wow u are young which really don't say different but I agree with Wat u & princess says.. It's crazy how love works. I just endure in all me & my hubby has because I'm happy he's living although prison isn't that far from death so he say.. But I consider myself lucky to have someone that I love & loves me back for who I am.. And he strongly respects our vows & so do I
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Wow u are young which really don't say different but I agree with Wat u & princess says.. It's crazy how love works. I just endure in all me & my hubby has because I'm happy he's living although prison isn't that far from death so he say.. But I consider myself lucky to have someone that I love & loves me back for who I am.. And he strongly respects our vows & so do I
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Wow u are young which really don't say different but I agree with Wat u & princess says.. It's crazy how love works. I just endure in all me & my hubby has because I'm happy he's living although prison isn't that far from death so he say.. But I consider myself lucky to have someone that I love & loves me back for who I am.. And he strongly respects our vows & so do I
Me being young or the girl who wrote this thread? If you meant me, I know haha. My boyfriend is the one of the youngest in his prison (he's 20). What you said about your husband was so sweet.
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