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Old 03-17-2010, 12:16 AM
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Unhappy They added more time to his sentence!

I just need to get this out. I am SO upset. As most of you know..honey was supposed to be released in May ...and now because of something SO CRAZY..it had been pushed back another month. Not only is it pushed back another month..he was transferred to yet ANOTHER place

I know a lot of you are saying.."another month?!" and that you'd kill for just another month...but for me. I'm heartbroken. I had my hopes so high for this..and it all came crashing down...His release was supposed to be in March...Then it got pushed to May..and Now June.

I could understand if he did something wrong. But (without getting too much into his personal business) he didn't do anything wrong! I'm so furious. The system is so unjust..and if i had any kind of money..i would have a lawyer fighting this. This is just beyond ridiculous

I have so much going on right now..that i just really need him here. For emotional comfort. I was really banking on him being home in a little less than two months...and now..we just had to tack on another 30 days. I'm so tired...I'm emotionally drained.

I'm trying so hard to be optimistic about this..and seeing the bright side. I'm trying to keep his spirits up..and i dont know how because of how upset I am...

I'm sorry if this upsets anyone who has a lot longer to go...I'm just feeling really bummed out..and let down. I needed the vent.


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Old 03-17-2010, 12:40 AM
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Awww I'm so sorry Boo Boo

I can feel how disappointed you are.

But honey, dont let it get to you so much okay? Otherwise THEY win.

It's only One Month. Four Weeks. Thirty Days extra!

And hey now he's coming home roughly the same time as my J - we can countdown together
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Old 03-17-2010, 01:12 AM
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I am sorry that his date was pushed back.

You are right though... I did think "30 days???? is that is?" It is wrong of me to think that way... envious. My fiance will die in prison... and I am not too big a person to admit when I am envious of someone.
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Old 03-17-2010, 06:50 AM
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Oh Boo...

Cheer up, girl! I know you're down currently and I really can understand that this must feel as if you were going through hell right now!

But be strong! Don't give up! THEY WON'T WIN! And your honey will be home soon! You have fought so long - even the last few yards you'll leave behind now!
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Old 03-17-2010, 06:53 AM
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aww girl,i'm sooo sorry......This road can be so stress filled,i know!!our men are so worth it but some days are so hard.I'm here for you.feel free to pm me if you need to vent some more!!
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((((((((boo)))))))

I suppose if you look at it that you can make him cute little cards for 30 more days???
(yeah, I know. Lame attempt at trying for a bright side)
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sorry to hear about it , keep your head up, and just be there for him as well. Just remember that he will be home soon. I can understand how its hard for you as an extra day added to the day your loved one was coming home is like a lifetime , let alone 30 more days
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I sorry to hear that I will keep u in my prayers. Keep your head up.
Good luck I will keep u in my prays..
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I feel for you, my baby's T.E. date is may 18th, but he's still in county jail and with parole and all, it's not gonna work out on time..

But he always says: They can't keep me here forever..
And that's the truth, your man will come home to you some day.
I know how you feel and that nothing can make you feel better now, but it is what it is, nothing you can do about it..
Just accept it and be happy it's only a month and not another year
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aww. I'm so sorry! What a disappointment. I hate it when the DOC gets our hopes up and then disappoints.
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You are right though... I did think "30 days???? is that is?" It is wrong of me to think that way... envious. My fiance will die in prison... and I am not too big a person to admit when I am envious of someone.
I'm sorry. I don't mean to make anyone feel that way. Its just... i'm going through a mountain full of things at home..and well..this is just the icing on the cake.

It doesn't help that last night..i attempted to do research on the facility..and some guy was murdered in his sleep two days after getting there

I may seem like a crybaby right now..but it really does suck when you have your heart set on something...i know ive done this for pretty much 2 years now...so im getting antsy..you know? I'm just feelin the effects of issues at home..and im just needing him

Again, im sorry..i, in no way want to make anyone feel "envious"..or anything of that nature!
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But honey, dont let it get to you so much okay? Otherwise THEY win.

It's only One Month. Four Weeks. Thirty Days extra!

And hey now he's coming home roughly the same time as my J - we can countdown together

I guess i NEED to look at it that way. We've made it this long..i don't doubt for one minute we'd make it the extra thirty days...Its just.. disappointing...

I look forward to counting down with you. Thank you.


Thank you for all the support everyone...
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aww girl dont worry at least your man is coming home and is coming home to you...
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Old 03-17-2010, 09:46 AM
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i'm sorry girl but don't worry the extra 30 days will NOT break you guys, you've come REALLY far!!! & i would be upset too if i was you. every month feels like forever in this, but you can do it!
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I was upset when they added 8 days to my husbands sentence, so I can relate. Every moment apart hurts, and I can only imagine the frustration of counting on one time, and then having it pushed back several times. The good news is, there is still that light at the end of the tunnel.
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Sorry to hear about the extra time Boo Boo. I know it can be hard when you get your hopes up for something just to get let down. I'm going through the same thing right now. But just continue to take it one day at a time. He will be home soon. There is a reason for everything but I hope you guys win. Take Care
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aw sweetie I wish you didn't feel like you had to apologize for your very REAL and very IMPORTANT feelings. They are yours and you are entitled to them. I absolutely understand that there are many, many people in here that may have to wait years and years and maybe even forever for their man to come home but that doesn't make your pain that your man is not coming home when you thought, any less. Every extra day that ANY of us are separated from the ones we love is PAINFUL!! I am sorry this keeps happening to you both but it WILL be over soon and you will both be even stronger for it and even HAPPIER when the day finally comes that you are FREE together!!!
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Awww, Honey, I am so sorry they pushed back his release date another 30 days. Every day that is added is very stressful, but you are almost there. Keep your head up high and take it one day at a time. It will be June before you know it, and he will be home in your arms again!! There is light at the end of the tunnel.
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Awww, I take it this may be why u had a bad feeling the other day huh?
Atleast ur gettun ur bae back.
Tell urself "3 more months aint shit" You've been so strong already, 3 months aint shit, thats what my Bae been telling me to say "Baby, say it with me 5 months aint shit" lol, it does help, for real!

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Sorry girly but you know what? Just when you think you're at the end of your rope you'll dig up even more energy, courage and determination to go on. The madness WILL end, don't forget that!
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Nooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats terrible!!!!! Crap, Im so sorry booo booooo You are one tough cookie girl, you and him will make it through this!!!!! I promise Efffffffffffffff the DOC! They suck!!!! Dont let them get you down!! I misssssssss youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu xoxoxoxoxo
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BooBoo, I am so sorry to hear this. I know how discouraging this must make you feel. It will only make you stronger. Each day that passes will be a day closer to when he can come home to you and you can both move forward. Be strong, you can do it. Hugs, sweetie, lots and lots of hugs your way!
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Sorry BooBoo! When you get down to the wire on something like this, even an extra day makes you crazy...
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