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View Poll Results: Would you take his punishment for him?
I'd take a beating if it meant he could get out sooner! 31 25.83%
I'd let him take a beating to get out sooner. 24 20.00%
I'd do his time for him. 4 3.33%
He did the crime, he's gotta do the time. 61 50.83%
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Old 01-31-2009, 02:58 PM
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Yup, I would take a beating for him to get out sooner. He would never let me, mind you, that is just how he is. And I love him for that too.
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Old 01-31-2009, 03:17 PM
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Are we talking about flesh tearing off of my back kinda beating? or just a good hard spankin? Look i feel like God has a plan and he needed this time to grow realize what he has and get some clean time under his belt. My faith is in the lord and he more then i knows what he needs to make him a happier healthier man
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I know I posted a weird question, what can I say, I'm a bit twisted. I still say I'd take a beating to get him out sooner. I can see why most of you wouldn't though. My guy would never allow me to go through with that though. he gets upset if I so much as accidently scratch myself. Nor would I allow him to take a beating. But he's been in there long enough, the time just doesn't fit the crime.
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Old 01-31-2009, 03:24 PM
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I would be willing to do whatever it took, but he wouldn't let me. If he could take a beating, I know he'd do it in a heartbeat. As far as doing his time for him, not a chance in hell. He did the crime and he's paying for it. I'm a mom and I couldn't leave my child to do time for someone else's crime.

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no i can't say i would take the lashings for him. however i would leave it up to him if he would take the lashings or not. but knowing my man he would. so once he did best please i would be there to help ease that pain and clean those wombs. like any good woman should. ladies lets remember these are choices that they made, not us. they fixed this plate now they have to eat ALL of it. we should be there with the Rolaids. Ya feel me?
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There's no way I would do his time for him. If I had a young child in prison, I'd do it for him or her in a heart beat.
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Old 01-31-2009, 05:40 PM
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I would offer but it would be pointless He would never let me do it... his words "I would fight the devil himself to make sure you never do time or feel this pain" but I think he would take lashings to come home as long as i promised to be his home nurse and make it feel better. s far as doing the time for him well i dont think that would make it better we would still be apart and by the time i got out he would have our kids so spoiled it would take forever to get them acting right again lol
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I cant say I would do the time since I dont think I am strong enough for that but if I could get him out sooner I would certainly take a beating for him. There is not much that I wouldnt do for him.
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I would take a beating if meant him coming home sooner. I know that he wouldn' t want me to though. As for me doing the time I wouldn't b/c I believe god put him there to give hima reality check. He let the street life take over him, being in there takes that out of the equation. He's told me he doesn' t want to go back and I truly believe that. We have baby #3 on the way and he will be out just in time for that. That also put him in check, it would kill him if he missed it.
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[quote=KCRgirl1031;4387943]cant be captain-save-a-felon forever....quote]

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sorry...that didnt work. i was trying to quote KCRgirl. she said you can't be Captain save-a-felon forever
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ok so heres my opinion i probably would take some lashes if that meant he could get out early....i know he wouldnt want me to but i as well wouldnt want him to get the lashing....we rarley think of ourselves & just think of each other....as for doing time for him NO. i did that once for an ex & let me tell you BIG mistake. he messed up so he can fix his problems. i will stick by his side & do the time WITH him as i am now but i would not do his time for him. dont get me wrong i love him with all my heart but obiviously this is what it took for him to realize he was doing something wrong & that it wasnt ok.
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no i wouldn't i didn't do anything wrong he did even if i did it he would be back in jail some stranger causing physical harm to his wife will defintly not sit well
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No i wouldn't as many others has stated I have child out here that needs me. But also for the fact that he wouldn't want me to take anything for him, as well as by me taking his punishment for him what does he learn from that?
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No I wouldnt take his time because I have a son besides, he wouldnt let me anyway.
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I luv my munkey with ALL my heart and I want him home but...I didn't do anything wrong! He did what he felt like he had to do, so now the law is doing what they feel like they have to do. It costs to be the boss...so no beatings (he wouldn't let me take em anyway, he might though). No doing his bid...because if I did, we'd STILL be apart. It's hard but hey he has to learn a lesson.
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Of course I want him to get out but he did the crime and I definitely ain't doing his time!
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Look i feel like God has a plan and he needed this time to grow realize what he has and get some clean time under his belt. My faith is in the lord and he more then i knows what he needs to make him a happier healthier man
I agree. When my husband was convicted, I went to the Lord in prayer and said I would accept whatever God choose to give him (14 years, with 9mos. left). I have to believe that God knows what is best and I do not.

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I really love my husband and i would take alot for him but he was dumb enough to go out and not listen to reason. It's his mistake and needs to learn from it.
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as much as i love him, he's gotta step up and be a man. take responsibility for his actions. the love i have for him will always be there to support him. and as much as i could say i would do this time for him, i know deep down inside he needs to face his problems.
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This is a very easy question for me..........there would be noway I could do either one!!!!!
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I took the wrap for my daughters dad back in 1999 - he was on a CYA parole and I was afraid of losing everything we worked for so I told police EVERYTHING in my house belongs to ME - all while my now ex husband was trying to be the man and say it was all his.... he was facing some charges I had NO IDEA about - so there my lame a** goes to jail - so yes I have done the time for my man, but I wouldnt do it again - NO WAY!
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I think he's got it easy... He can chill and do his art, and just relax most days... I'm the one out here working my ass off trying to keep everything together for us so he has a home to come home to!!! He left me in an impossible situation. I'd rather be in there and let him take care of everything out here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I think he's got it easy... He can chill and do his art, and just relax most days... I'm the one out here working my ass off trying to keep everything together for us so he has a home to come home to!!! He left me in an impossible situation. I'd rather be in there and let him take care of everything out here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I say the same thing sometimes. I read everyones replys and everyones saying he did the crime he should pay the time. Well my man didnt do the crime. He's one of the innocent men locked up. He was only guilty of trying to help someone like he's always doing. He puts everyone else before himself. I believe he would take a beating if he could get out early. I'm gonna ask him this question and see what he says he would do.

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heck no he did the deed now he has plenty of time to think about it. although when he was thinking about going to trial he was trying to convience me to perjure myself so he could get out, wasn't happening got a reputation, a kid, and well i didn't do anything wrong so why am i going to lie and take the chance of county time.......Was able to get his time reduced from 25 to 2 to 4 thank god......
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