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View Poll Results: How many pounds have you put on?
5-10 lbs. 165 11.80%
10-20 lbs. 211 15.09%
20-plus 284 20.31%
I actually lost weight 509 36.41%
I weigh the same as when I met him 229 16.38%
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Old 12-18-2007, 04:17 PM
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i lost alotta weight last time he was in...this time i gained alot!
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Old 12-18-2007, 10:27 PM
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ive gained a few pounds myself. It would be fun to have a weight loss post with pounds lost, tips, and recipies?!
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Old 12-29-2007, 06:31 AM
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I tried but nobody went to the threads...i thought it would be fun too
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Old 12-29-2007, 04:20 PM
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lol i gained 10 but its because i had stopped my routine of four miles a day everyday and mountain biking for two hours..i got back on it just walking im too lazy to run now at least 3-4 miles..but its something i go to the gym so instead of the park cause its cold..
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Old 12-29-2007, 09:06 PM
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Since my husband has been gone i have gain a few pounds, but her lately i have be activly trying to get weight off. Though i have only lost 12 lbs as of 12/17/07, i feel better. As for him all he can say is "just don't lose the breast" and "don't lose the butt" and my respond to that is "what butt, never had it never will". He just love me. When i try to hide my belly with cover he snatches it off, I have never felt more comfortable with a man. I know his love is truly unconditional.
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Old 12-30-2007, 04:47 PM
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I've gained about 10 lbs in the past 5 years, but hubby hasn't really noticed (or if he has, he hasn't said anything) because I carry it well, I just need to tone up a little. He says I'll always be sexy to him no matter what, but that if I ever start to get excessively big, he's dragging me to the gym with him or buying me a Boflex. LOL
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Old 12-30-2007, 05:01 PM
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ok i have gained 61 lbs since adam 1st got arrested i plan on losing 45 lbs of them hopefully before he gets home........ i start tuesday....oh to answer the question he thinks its sexy i dont i feel completely uncomfortable.... wish me luck.....
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Old 01-02-2008, 02:03 PM
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Trough all stress and all, lost 32 lbs only 110lbs is the weight when it was 142 lbs, stress can really help by losing weight but is not funny
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Old 01-04-2008, 11:43 PM
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well at first i lost like five pounds then i gained about fifteen, he didtn even notice the differnce really but before he gets otu i do wanna lose at least thirty pounds i got five mo months i jus gotta get to an focus
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I gain weight but he like it, and we can work it off when he get home
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Old 01-10-2008, 10:46 PM
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just had a baby so i gained 20 plus but im trying to get if off... any suggestions? my hubby makes jokes all the time about it, but he's a big man too and he dosen't have an excuse like i do LOL
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Old 01-11-2008, 09:41 AM
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I went to the doctor the other day, due to the fact that I got my hunnie's cold when I went to visit him over the holidays and I have dropped 12 lbs. since the last time I went to the doctor which was last month for my routine check up. It was great news and I felt so good about it, although, I don't know where the weight loss came from b/c I have been eating like a pregnant woman...lol. I did change up a few things though, I don't eat past 7pm anymore & I have been walking everyday for the past month. I guess every little bit of exercise really does make a difference.
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Old 01-11-2008, 08:25 PM
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i gained about 20 pounds but my baby loves it! I HATE IT! But im working on it... I started going to the gym... Andy says he likes how i look thick.
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Old 01-12-2008, 07:57 PM
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its 08...what are we going to do?????????
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About 16 weeks ago, I started losing weight, and have lost 33lbs thus far. And have went down almost 3 pant sizes. I haven't told him, he has no idea that I go to the gym 4 to 5 times a week now and when I'm not there I do my Leslie Sansone 5 mile walk dvd. I am waiting to surprise him, when I see him in April, when I head down there for his trial. I am excited and terrified all at the same time!
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Old 01-21-2008, 10:29 PM
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did anyone sign up for the 50 million pound challenge by Dr Ian...we should start a team....let me know!!!!!
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Old 01-22-2008, 12:16 AM
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I have gained a bit since he first went in and from having our baby. I am like 2 sizes over what I was when I met him but I was 4 sizes over it! Last summer I trained to run a half marathon and I lost 40 pounds. Then I got really sick and had to stop training. I was sick for 5 weeks and then he went back in. I have only gained back 5 pounds but I want to get back on track again. I was taking Alli and that seemed to help the weight drop a lot faster. I like to walk or jog outdoors but it has been snowing so much and cold so that makes it hard. I am too poor to go to the gym and I have a two year old I raise by myself so I don't have a ton of options!
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Old 01-22-2008, 12:40 PM
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Since we met in 2005, I have gained 30lbs The loneliness gets to me and it seems my only friend sometimes is food.
BUT I've started dieting since he is due to come home late this year!
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Old 01-22-2008, 03:29 PM
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When he went in I had been trying to lose weight, at least 20 lbs. Since he's been in , only two months, I think I've gained at least 5 or 8. He doesnt care as long as I'm happy with myself, but I'm not. He's fit and in shape so it makes me uncomfortable that Im not. I wont get to go see him until march or april so I 'hope' to have lost some weight by then to surprise him.
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i haven't exactly gained because i was pregnant when he went in but after i had my little guy, i lost some and then put on 5-10 lbs. i told him about it, complain, and he's seen it in pictures & visitation but he still thinks i'm beautiful. some days i don't know how.. but he does
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Old 02-05-2008, 11:21 AM
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Well I have never been a slim woman, so he knows that and knows what to expect. I weight about the same now as I did when I met him. After our visit, I fluctuated (sp?) a bit on my weight, but am now back on my Slim-Fast diet and it works for me. I have lost 19 pounds since the 2nd week of December. Once the weather gets nice (and it's getting there NOW) - I plan to walk each morning before work, like I used to - best of luck to us all, whether you need to lose, tone up or even add a few pounds! But to answer the other part of the question someone had mentioned... yeah he finds me sexy. (Sometimes I don't know why!) But he doesn't have a problem with how I look. I do though and that's why I'm making a change for the better, for a healthier me!
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Old 02-05-2008, 11:23 AM
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OH yeah, and my next visit looks like it'll be in June and that's when we plan to marry - so I hope to drop some weight by then to surprise him. I don't think he'll mind either way - if I stay the same as I was when I saw him last or if I lose. I just think I'll feel a lot more confident if I lose some! I have 4 months or so to drop some weight. I'd like to lose at least 30 but I know I'll have to get to exercising to make it really come off!

As for him, he's usually a solid 180 at 6 ft, which is a nice size in my opinion. He has told me recently that he's put on some weight and he's up to like 205. I don't mind though - I like having something to hold onto when I hug him. I couldn't ever date a real skinny man - I guess since I'm a big girl, it would make me feel even worse if my man was all skin and bones. Ha. I'm happy with the size he is, though. No complaints here!
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I lost way too much weight since he's been gone... sad, but I cant fix it. Im trying but I still didnt get used to being bymyself and eating without him. its been over a year and everyone is worried for my health, but cannt do much about it... I tried my best not to get sick... but....
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I used to say "I'd rather be fat free than drug free" but not any more. I was looking older by the day. I've put on about 20lbs, and I look about 5 years younger than I did when he went in - that was November 8th. We were using when he went in and we've vowed to stay away from that crap. I'm happier and healthier and now exercising and eating all organic and taking my walks & vitamins. He hasn't said a word about the weight, he wouldn't. He loves me no matter what.... but I'm not going to push the envelope! haha I'm going to look just as good - probably better because I'll be healthy - when he gets home.
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Old 02-07-2008, 01:27 PM
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Ive actually lost a lot of weight since my man left..at least 50lbs..he left sept 16 2007 and i saw him for the first time dec 22 2007...he thought i was on drugs because i had lost so much weight and he thought i looked terrible. since he said that i've been trying to gain some weight back but its hard! mostly i've just stopped losing weight and ive been the same for the past like 3 weeks.
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