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View Poll Results: Did you agree to have the sex buddy?
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Old 11-28-2008, 08:29 AM
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OH HECK NO! HES NOT GOIN FOR THAT! THATS NOT EVEN AN OPTION! THERES NO WAY EVER THAT HE WOULD EVEN CONSIDER GIVING ME THAT OPTION! I LOVE HIM AND I WOULD NEVER CONSIDER THAT EITHER! I LOVE HIM AND IM FAITHFUL TO HIM IN EVERY WAY AND WILL CONTINUE TO BE SO!
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I just do not have the time or the patience.And I am in love and it is just easier to deal with toys then add someone else into the mix.
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Old 11-29-2008, 12:33 PM
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Old 12-03-2008, 09:53 PM
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I have to say No.

When he first went in we were not together. Yes, I dated ect in that time. But let's face it None of them came anywhere near measuring up to the standard he set. No one else will ever be able to measure up. We are engaged now and I'm liable to dismember any guy that hits on me now. No other guy deserves me.
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Old 12-04-2008, 10:50 AM
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LOL I can just imagine bringing this up to him...a sex buddy...he would flip...and I'd do the same if we switched positions! No sex buddy for me...just a purple rabbit ;-)
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Old 12-04-2008, 03:08 PM
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Absolutely No...neither of us would be having any of that business!!
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Old 12-04-2008, 03:11 PM
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My husband has 3 years and i'm waiting for him only..hands down no questions about it...
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Old 12-04-2008, 04:09 PM
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I'm curious about the women who have someone doing hard time...in my opinion, that may mean 5 or more years...what do you do...my husband said I could...I have...but I don't do it frequently and I feel bad afterwards...he's looking at 18 more years...that's a long time...any advice?
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I'm faithful and will stay faithful. It's only been 5 years so far, but I have my ways of dealing. Alone.

As my username indicates - we're doing life (3 strikes law).

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Old 12-06-2008, 04:12 PM
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He would NEVER agree to that. NEVER. I know some of his buddies tell their girls, do you while Im here, but when I get out, Im coming for whats mine. My man would kill me if he thought I was breaking our vows. Maybe it's cause we are married, but I am waiting. Its hard, real hard, and we have a long road ahead of us, but I am waiting.
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Old 12-06-2008, 04:15 PM
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I'm curious about the women who have someone doing hard time...in my opinion, that may mean 5 or more years...what do you do...my husband said I could...I have...but I don't do it frequently and I feel bad afterwards...he's looking at 18 more years...that's a long time...any advice?
My man did 4 years, and I waited. It is tough. Real tough. If you feel you need to, then you take care of you. If your man is ok with it, then just dont tell him, and dont catch feelings for no one. I mean, i guess if you can keep it purely physical, then do what you gotta do. You do have a long time, and you need to do what is best for you. Don't worry about anyone other than you.
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He would NEVER in a million years say it was ok...and I wouldnt want to even if he did...the thought of another man touching me turns my stomach!!!
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im waiting. I want to wait for me baby. Plus, he aint having that. Even if i wanted to there is no way in the world he would go for it.
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Old 12-07-2008, 12:33 AM
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LOL I can just imagine bringing this up to him...a sex buddy...he would flip...and I'd do the same if we switched positions! No sex buddy for me...just a purple rabbit ;-)
LOL no kidding mine would flip out too. I feel that if you're not going to be faithful (even if he tells you that you can have a "sex buddy") then what's the point in even pretending you're together. If you're gonna be with other people male or female then you should just leave at "we'll see what happens when you get out" cause I don't think it feel to good or be good for a relationship. Knowing that your other half is out screwin around with other people. That's just my opinion
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Old 12-07-2008, 12:55 AM
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No sex buddy here...and my man ould NEVER approve he would flip his shit if i were to mention that. I wouldnt want to anyways. I take my relationship with my man too seriously i wouldnt want him being with any other female either.
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Old 12-07-2008, 01:44 AM
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My Malik would think I was crazy if I brought this up to him...he doesn't want ne male having my attention but him...lol He tried to act like he didn't care if I just went out with other guys, in a letter once...but then turned around and said that he was lying...he would mind...lol But I wouldn't even want to go down that road....ladies we all know with sex comes emotions...especially for us. So nah...I wouldn't want to do ne thing to hurt my sweetie...or mess up what we have. He only has a year left...so I can definitely wait....
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I've never done anything I'm ashamed of and I personally don't believe that sex has a thing one to do with love. I've faithfully loved my husband but have gone to the Holiday Inn without regret. However and I want to be very clear that my husband and I have had generic discussions regarding the sanctity of our marriage and our home and how each of us expects the other to conduct themselves in these situations. My personal belief is that hamsters have sex...it's no big deal and nothing more than basic animal instinct. That being said you better believe I have enough respect for my husband to make damn sure that nobody I do hamster things with is knocking on our front door or calling him on the line to tell him where I was last night. I would consider that a violation of our marriage and our agreements within our marriage. Whatever the basic construction of your particular marriage happens to be is something that both of you have to be comfortable with and I think you have to be true to whatever agreements and promises you've made to one another.

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Old 12-07-2008, 06:24 AM
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my man is on DR... he offered me to do what I wanted as long as I absolutely, no way ever tell him about it... cause he wouldn't be able to handle knowing...
yeah, right!!! I made sure he got the message; I'm with him, and ONLY him, and I'm in it for the long haul, however this plays out!!!

sure... it's not easy... but hey, neither is his life on the inside, right? and why would I do that to him, when I wouldn't if we had a "normal" relationship on the outside?? this is the man I'm marrying... I don't want anybody else.
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this is the first poll that has ever made my blood boil. Some of these post just pi$$ me off and are so dumb. but that's just my opinion
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he told me its ok if i need to get my needs taken care of and that he just wants to know about it.....but i dont think i will be able to have a sex buddy i just want him and thats all 7 more months i think i can make it
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I dont think so, just like if it was the other way around I wouldnt let him have a sex buddy.....oh no way, and I would think he didnt love me if he thought it was ok to sleep with other guys and it was ok with him. yuck!!! I wouldnt want a guy who was ok with that... but thats just my opinion.
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No he has never said it was ok to have a friends with benefits..and I'm fine with that
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He says I can he just asks that I think of him during sex but I don't have the desire to cuz it would just be a let down. No man gets me like he does.
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No, unequivocally, and absolutely not...he would not agree, but even if he did, it is not an option for him for me and especially for us. He has a similar line to bmarleyluv's man, "Baby keep your chin up and your legs closed, this to will pass and it'll be worth the wait"...and I KNOW it will!!!
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My man would so not agree to that, I am waiting, as hard as it gets some days I am waiting, but when the day comes one of us is going to be in trouble.
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