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Old 04-19-2008, 06:11 PM
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Heck no...I cant even stand to think of another guy touching me. He is the only one i want...He wouldn't agree to it either
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Old 04-19-2008, 06:59 PM
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i want no one else. i look at it as "why waste time with someone who means nothing? i already have the best guy....and all good things must wait." so im waiting for him. no other guy deserves me.
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Old 04-19-2008, 07:20 PM
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in my eyes having a "sex buddy" whether he said it was okay or not would be cheating and I don't and won't do that to the man I love.
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Old 04-20-2008, 08:12 PM
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The way I see it I wanna wait for the shear fact that it will be the most beautiful thing ever when he finally gets out and we both havent done anything in so long that it'll be like having sex for the first time.
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Old 04-20-2008, 08:16 PM
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no its not alright to have sex buddies would that mean he would get a free fukk pass when he gets out heck no
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Old 04-20-2008, 11:40 PM
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No, I'm waiting for my Boo..............
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Old 04-21-2008, 06:47 AM
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No slipping and sliding down this way i love my papi :love:
way to much, we been together 16yrs and our love life is still on fire we both still young,ain't nothing or no one coming between this HOT DUO


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Old 04-21-2008, 10:43 AM
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If u need a sex buddy...what do u need ur man for? No we both would NEVER go for something like this!!!
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Old 04-21-2008, 12:31 PM
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No sex buddy here.

My husband would be devastated. And I'm supposed to be his strength, not the one who hurts him most.
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Old 04-22-2008, 06:13 PM
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I would never cheat on him! I will wait for him no matter what! He is my true love!
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Im waiting for my man but we have discussed it and he says that if I need to he would find someone for me...
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Old 04-22-2008, 07:56 PM
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Oh HELL no!! TJ always ends his letter with PBG (please be good). Although he tells me all the time I am grown and I can do what I please cause he would never find out. He woudl find ot cause I would tell him, but that ain't happening!! I'm loyal and faithful to a "T" and I'm in this for the long haul!!! So, no sex for me and I kinda like that... until he comes home and then it is so on!!!!
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Old 04-22-2008, 08:01 PM
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Oh HELL no!! TJ always ends his letter with PBG (please be good). Although he tells me all the time I am grown and I can do what I please cause he would never find out. He woudl find ot cause I would tell him, but that ain't happening!! I'm loyal and faithful to a "T" and I'm in this for the long haul!!! So, no sex for me and I kinda like that... until he comes home and then it is so on!!!!

I heard that!!! I cant wait for my baby to come home...
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Old 04-23-2008, 12:31 AM
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HELL NO!!!! I'm sorry but to me sex is about love and only love. I will never make love to any other man but my own. Because I love him and I would NEVER disrespect him like that. No one elses touch could ever make me feel the way his does, and if you think someone else can then I don't think you really love the one you're with anyway. Sorry, just my honest opinion.
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Old 04-23-2008, 01:14 AM
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My Boo knows that I would never do that... he tells me to tell Sancho what's up, but my boo knows that no other man can have my time... besides if your get that horny to cheat on your TRUE love, shit buy you a freakin toy till he comes home
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Old 11-23-2008, 05:38 PM
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i have a sex buddy is a girl to me is not cheatin neither to my bf when he did time the first time it was 2 yrs i couldn wait so i had girl sex buddies always im not bi but if my man is locked in thats the only thing that i can do he said only girls he enjoys it when he was out after being in the 1 time he actually enjoyed watching me with my sex buddies (all girls) so is pleasure for me and him
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Old 11-24-2008, 10:21 AM
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OH MAN!! HELL NO!! i would NEVER have a sex buddy, & there would be no where in hell he would agree for me to have a "buddy". im waiting here faithfully, i dont ever want to let him down.
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Old 11-24-2008, 10:57 AM
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Sex Buddy allll day! LOL
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Old 11-24-2008, 11:02 AM
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I'm good for now. He's always told me he never expected me to wait for him, however... we've only done two short bids, I'm okay with that. As I always say, I wouldn't be able to answer this question if it was a long term bid or if he was a lifer.
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Old 11-24-2008, 02:05 PM
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My man would never okay it, I would never ask, nor would I do it. The wait is well worth it to me.
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Old 11-24-2008, 04:48 PM
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NO! I feel you're either in or you're out also, doin a girl to me is the same as doin a guy you're still having a connection with someone OTHER than your man.
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Old 11-24-2008, 04:50 PM
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Yup! I have a sex buddy. It's a woman...(i was bi before he went in so it's not cuz he went to prison...LOL) She knows my situation and she's understanding. Shes bi also. She's so cool that when he was in county she'd come to my visits with him so we could give him a "show" or she'd be over my place when he called and she would oblige me in "satisfying" him with a phone "show". She knows I'm getting married and she is actually going to be our witness. He appreciates her being there for me. And she knows that my heart belongs to him and only him. It's a good arrangement.

It is a lil sumthing like this lol
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Old 11-28-2008, 02:55 AM
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I am waiting faithfully. I am taking vows very soon that I respect to the fullest. I personally do not enjoy casual sex. I need feelings and passion behind it. I am not thrilled with the idea that you are with me because you are turned on by what you see and nothing more. There is SO much more to me than my body and only L deserves my body. He earned all of me by giving me love, honor, respect, compassion, understanding, and more. Settling for less(another man) would be selling myself short. I am so much better than that.
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Old 11-28-2008, 03:26 AM
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I love my husband with all my heart and I would never disrespect him like that.
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Old 11-28-2008, 04:12 AM
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There is no way I would have a sex buddy. My husband and I have been married for 28 years and I love him with all my heart and then some. He is my world.
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