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View Poll Results: I call him........
I call him Papi 227 14.39%
I call him Daddy 652 41.34%
I call him BOTH Papi & Daddy 282 17.88%
I would NEVER call him Papi OR Daddy! (YUCK) 416 26.38%
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Old 07-26-2007, 04:56 AM
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I gotta say that makes me feel uncomfortable to say that, that's a word for my father not a man I'm having sex with. I did it for one ex when I was younger because he wanted me to but it creeped me out!
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Old 07-26-2007, 01:10 PM
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I call my man Daddy! When I met him he had six kids, one of whom is a junior, so I'd call my man his name and Lil' Man would answer! I even spelled it special for him, so it would be an official nickname "Dahdi"! It makes it easier to talk to the kids about him too anyways, instead of saying "your Father", we feel like more of a family.

I think he likes it because he takes such pride in being a Daddy. He is a wonderful father and a wonderful man. The fact that I acknowledge him as a strong man and good provider and teacher (which are things we associate with our Daddys), makes him feel good about himself and about how I see him.

And of course how you say it means something too! DaaaaaHdi, as I smile and make the innocent school girl face, drives him crazy!
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Old 07-26-2007, 01:57 PM
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I just call him by his name, of course sometimes I will throw an occasional butt hole in there!
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Old 07-26-2007, 02:06 PM
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Yea, I call him daddy... and he calls me "little mama". I love him. *faint*
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Old 07-27-2007, 08:20 PM
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Well I actually call him Big Daddy! I know that when he calls and I answer and say how is my Big Daddy today it makes his day
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Old 07-27-2007, 08:41 PM
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I call my husband Papi i am Rican white asain native american italian and blk iwas raised ina blk and latin house hould so calling ur man Papi was what i always new. Plus Papi esspecially if you latina and can say it right will drive a man crazy
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Old 07-28-2007, 10:22 PM
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I use to call him daddy only when he gave me things Id say "AWWW!! Thank You Daddy" or if he look extra fly Id say " Damn daddy you stun'in hard" I try not to use it that much because he already really think he my daddy.
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Old 08-01-2007, 11:05 AM
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Uummm I dunno...Sin has 8 years on me & a big part of our relationship is that our past we're soo hurtful...one being my father took off and never looked back, so because of that I've always been involved w/ men older than me as I needed to feel some sort of security...with him tho' he knows I suffer from "older man syndrome" and need strong male figure (like a dad) but callin' him "daddy" would feel awkward to me...It's hard for me to explain and sometimes I get excited in conversation and say "ooh wee daddy" and I can see him grin from ear to ear..So I guess I can especially if it's in the middle of a session ...that might turn the heat:fb: up a notch...but for me just not ALL the time...
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Old 08-01-2007, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted by meganlea
I, personally, find it disgusting, immature, and disturbing when people call their significant others those names. That's just my two cents...
I agree that Papi stuff is for little girls ..... no offense to anybody!
I call him ...babe, baby or D-Bear!

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Old 08-01-2007, 02:09 PM
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Well my husband always wanted me to call him Papi chulo so when i finally started it would make him so happy and turned on and then one time while make love he said who's your daddy? and inside i wanted to laugh but i told him he was and it was the best orgasum i ever had so it works for me.
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Old 08-01-2007, 07:32 PM
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at first it was kinda a joke because hes 29 and im 20 so i was like yeah ok "daddy" lol but it was such a turn on and it just stuck along with bay.. baby.... and all the other lil ones
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Old 08-05-2007, 12:47 AM
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I Call My Husbad Babe Or Baby. Anthony When Im Mad At Him And Daddy In Bed:d

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Old 08-05-2007, 08:17 AM
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he said i can call him whatever i want to lol!! :P
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Old 08-05-2007, 09:52 AM
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My mans late wife called him Daddy cause I saw it on the back of a photo of her. Its funny but at first I was like "Daddy" what the hell is she talkin about?" Hee Hee... but I don't call him that, it sounds unnatural to me. I stick with baby.
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Old 08-05-2007, 02:32 PM
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i call him both but mostly daddy, when we are in contact visits talking dirty and i start blushing, he will say "whos ur daddy?" of course i say "you are daddy" and we both get turned on.... i guess imma freak too, so dont feel bad!

Originally Posted by CharlotteLoves
I never called my father "Daddy". Ever. I've always only called him "Dad". So, "Daddy" is A-OK for my Latin guy in my eyes.

And yea, MissTara, I believe "Papi" is a cultural thing....... Maybe because Hispanics come from a traditionally patriarchal society? That's my guess. Maybe the Daddy-thing comes from the same, but non-Hispanic, societal reason (male dominance)?

I'm glad I put a "YUCK" choice in the poll for you all........ I'm starting to feel like a freak over here because of you guys! Where are my Papi/Daddy sisters? LOL I need your support so I can feel normal again.
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Old 08-20-2007, 12:35 PM
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i always call my husband daddy or babe it really turns him on when i call him daddy
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Old 09-14-2007, 09:01 AM
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i call him papi all the time , cause he is my daddy always and forever
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Old 10-06-2007, 11:36 PM
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I call him daddy all the time. He loves it, it drives him crazy!!! he is my provider lover protector and best friend for eternity He calls me his baby Girl I love it. I love being his baby Girl I love him

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Old 10-07-2007, 06:08 AM
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I call him "Papi" and his you know what "Big Daddy"
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Old 10-07-2007, 02:04 PM
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Depends on how angry I am LOL No, I do not call him out of his name.. I just can't do it... the words do not flow .. He is my husband and friend not my baby or father. Never have called any man out of their name,it would sicken me.. but it is fine what others do,it just is not my thing.
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He loves it and I dont know why but it is a big turn on for me. I scream it during sex, writ it in letters and say "I love u daddy" on the phone. I just met my real dad for the first time and have been staying with him 4 six months. My man told me to tell him I have a new daddy now! Of course I didnt tell my dad that but I thought it was funny.

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Old 10-07-2007, 08:15 PM
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my baby i usually call BAE but he swears he's every body's dayum daddy so hell, that's daddy now... lol
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Old 10-08-2007, 09:15 AM
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I dont call him Papi or Daddy...Thats what I call my father so its sorta creepy...I call him Soldado (Soldier) and PaPa and he love it.
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Old 10-08-2007, 12:36 PM
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I think Papi doesn't bother me because I didn't grow up Spanish speaking ( though I am part mexican) I've let him know in no uncertain terms that calling him Daddy is OUT!!!! but he is from Puerto Rico, and it is who we ARE... Papi Oso and Mami Osa...Papi Bear and Mami Bear!!!!! Nothing weird about that, especially since we plan to have a BABY Bear!!!!!!
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Old 10-20-2007, 03:25 PM
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I used to call my Costa Rican ex Papi. I called Ant that one time by habit (in the heat of the moment, of course) and he was caught a little off guard. He said he's never had any woman call him that. He's spanish but all his g/f's (including me) have been white. I figured best to keep it in the past along with Mr. Costa Rican.
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