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View Poll Results: I call him........
I call him Papi 226 14.52%
I call him Daddy 643 41.32%
I call him BOTH Papi & Daddy 281 18.06%
I would NEVER call him Papi OR Daddy! (YUCK) 406 26.09%
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Old 03-18-2007, 03:45 PM
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What does Chulo mean anyway?
I'm no Spanish expert but this is my understanding:

It is like "cute" or "good-looking"

"mi papi chulo" = "my cute daddy" or "my good-looking daddy"

If anyone knows Spanish very fluently and would like to correct that in some way, please do! But that's how I understand it.
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Old 03-18-2007, 04:02 PM
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Looking at the results of the poll so far weighing heavily in on the "YUCK" answer, I'd say I guess my Latin guy is lucky he got me for a pen pal instead of anyone who might be "disgusted" with using the words, because we both like it A LOT And not only that, but we like me using both Papi AND Daddy, so he's even more lucky in that sense because there were only 3 of us who voted that we say both.
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I suspect that's probably only one of a list of reasons that he's lucky he got ya and thanks for clearing that up, I have a few crumbs of Espanol but that was not one of them
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Charlotte I also voted for both one is just saved for those along time, ,
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The thought of calling someone I have sex with the same name I'd call my father really disturbs me.
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It took me quite awhile to get used to calling my hubby and our sons, "Daddy" but now I say it without thinking. I chalk it up to the culture.
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I have to think there is the overtone of incest or being sub ordinate, and that is very disturbing to me. I know it is a term of endearment; just not for me.
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I have to think there is the overtone of incest or being sub ordinate, and that is very disturbing to me. I know it is a term of endearment; just not for me.
There's no overtone of incest in it for me at all. I don't connect the two in any way (my dad and my Latin guy). My dad is a great dad, he's never done anything bad to me or in front of me or neglected me, so there's no dysfunctional relationship going on here to provoke this in any "incest" way.

I would, however, definitely cop to the fact that there is a bit of a subordination feeling that really turns me on. Or maybe not so much subordination like being a slave, but the feeling of having someone to look up to and trust in. I like the thought of having a big, strong lover man looking out for me and being my protector and that he would only use his strength to benefit and care for me. Of letting myself (in theory/fantasy) be completely vulnerable with him but have faith that he would never abuse that trust of mine in doing it.

It might sound a bit kinky like that (so be it if that is the case) but really, what's so different from that compared to the woman who fantasizes about her "knight in shining armor" finding her and sweeping her off her feet? There's a whole lot of Harlequin romance novels flying off the shelves because of these types of desires in women. Anybody ever heard of Fabio? LOL (although I would say there's no doubt that I would take my Latin guy over Fabio ANY day)

And jayton, I'm not trying to pick on you, I'm just utilizing your words as an opportunity to get these ideas across. You seem like a live and let live kind of person and I don't have any problem with you or your thoughts on this.

Whatever turns you on (or doesn't turn you on) as a consensual adult and isn't harmful to anyone else, I say more power to ya.

I'd also say just my , but I think I already put in, like, a buck-fifty into this discussion, LOL!
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My man wishes me to call him daddy and I dont 'cause it make me uncomfortable BUT to each couple their own, if it works for ya then
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I call him papito, macho or machito
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He sometimes refers to himself as daddy or big poppa but I call him baby boy.
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I am a stone submissive in my lil way. Daddy just does not happen to be my word for it
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daddy? papi? i dont say that ethier..lol..it make me sound like im talking to my father or if i was some prostitute..lol..
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I have called mine both, and do so regularly..I started it by calling him Papi Chulo....then he made a joke about his private part..and I started calling him Daddy D as well...eventually we lost the D..and now it's just Daddy or Papi....I don't see anything wrong with it. My grandparents used to call each other mom and dad.....I think it's a cute term of endearment...to each their own I say!
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If you call your man "Baby" it doesn't make him an infant.

So how does calling him "Daddy" insinuate a father-daughter (or otherwise submissive) relationship???

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Hello Ladies,

Well, I do call my husband Papi or Daddy. But for some reason I don't like Papichulo. He Loves me to call him Daddy. He calls me his Mamas...

Wow, to hear those words come from his lips.... OMG...
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I call man daddy but that started after our son was born and it was more has in reference to getting his attention in front of our son. not as a kinky thing. And he calls me mommy if we are in front of our son. But just talkin to him i call him baby but of the time.. But i i don't think its gross by any means at all.. So those of u that do it has Kinky thing rite on !!!!!!
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Travis calls himself "Papi" I havent called him that yet , but I dont think I would have a problem with it since I have never used it in general conversation or whatever I have a daddy though, and Travis isnt it , lol But yea I will probably end up going with the "Papi" thing Some of these answers are kinda judgemental though I was almost worried about posting then I thought naa everyone has their own opinion

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Big Daddy!! It just sounds so sexy to me. I also call him Babe or Sweetie!
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Me! Me! Me! I call him Daddy & Papi and it drives him crazy! He just melts like butter and I can't wait for him to come home!
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My husband loves when i call him papi and daddy i do to. He is puerto rican and black and he likes freaky talk he don't speak any spanish i do but very little and he wants me to learn so i could talk dirty in spanish but i can't all i ever say is "papi'' lol like the original poster said it makes me weak in the knees too when he ask me ''who's your daddy''? especially when we makin love.......okay i am going to stop i don't want to bust into tears lol
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No I dont call him daddy or papi. I buried my father and that was and will be the only man i call daddy. I dont say papi either. I call him other names. He loves all of my pet names for him. He'll put in a letter or he'll say "daddy needs you to be a good girl". But thats about all. He knows how I feel about my dad, so im sure he aint tripping about it. But he calls me mami or lil ma all the time. Yeah that does something to me(smiles).
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i call my hubby my papi chulo, matter fact i wrote it in the letter i sent out today. my baby got so many nick names i call him, but thats just 1 of them
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Alex wants me to call him Papi or Daddy and I just look at him like he is demented.
It's not a normal thing to do in UK, so it threw me for a while, but I will get used to the idea.
In fact, when he calls tonight I will call him Papi just to hear his reaction.
I think he is hormonal at the moment cos I nearly made him cry yesterday just by paying him a compliment!
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I have never called Richie "daddy."

I think I will call him that the next time he calls!!
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