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View Poll Results: Do u ever feel like u can't stand by your commitment 2 stand by your inmate forever?
Never, That's my answer and I'm sticking to it!!! 925 46.13%
Sometimes I feel my life is on hold but then I know he's/she's worth the wait 794 39.60%
Sometimes I do wonder what the heck I'm doing 351 17.51%
Always, I wish I never committed to him 7 0.35%
Always, I'm only in for the kids 8 0.40%
Always 10 0.50%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 2005. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 08-09-2006, 10:50 PM
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I hate to say it but him being locked up has really been good for our relationship. We know each other as if we grew up in the same household together. I am 100% commited. He's all I need to get by. No pain no gain
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Old 08-10-2006, 11:29 AM
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I am secure enough in our relationship that I have no doubts about my ability to wait for him.....we're meant to be together, that's our bottom line. I willingly wait for him because my heart won't let me do anything else.
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Old 08-10-2006, 11:48 AM
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Well, Chris should be out a year from today. That is his ERD. I will absolutely wait for him. One thing that makes it easier is knowing that he is doing his best (not getting in trouble, working, being a unti rep for the warden's council) to come home to me. He is committed, as am I.

He's Home, and life is going wonderfully!!
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Old 08-10-2006, 08:08 PM
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I Am 100% Faithful To My Husband As Well As My Marriage...i Had A Choice To Make The Commitment That I Did And I Chose Yes Which Means No Cheating...pinky Promise
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Old 08-24-2006, 08:07 PM
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Default Just venting...

When I decided to make the commitment to Max, I just saw stars in my eyes. Now I see it's time to work. I'm not going anywhere, I'm not tempted by other men, hell I'm not even lonely BUT....walking away from visits and heading into week after week of handling affairs for us on my own, it's serious. I am missing him more and more as we become closer. I am starting to see a different emotion in me when I leave him on Saturdays. I hate this sh#t.
Emerg. Issues #4
Hoping 4 Parole #1
Loving my inmate #112
Loving my knucklehead #14
Keeping Me 1st #1

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Old 09-07-2006, 08:28 AM
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i dont think i will ever doubt waiting for him...but with him only being locked up since july i dont know...i may at some point but i love him and will always be there for him.
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Old 09-16-2006, 08:33 PM
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Hmmmm......I love that there are many choices. Life is certainly not black and white and neither are my feelings.
I love my man. Period. I know he loves me. We've gone through hell together.....celebrated amazing things together....and now we're doing this ride together.
I have time when I am really frustrated with all of it and wonder what it would be like to just step away. However, I feel that way about the majority of things in my life....work, school, my family and on and on the list goes. I think that's one of those things for me. With maturity and (a teeny bit of age) comes a wee bit of wisdom. I know what the grass is like on the other side of the fence.
Hell........I've had time in my life when I ran and jumped over that fence with all of my heart and energy, rolled around it, enjoyed the hell out of it, and then realized....damn it's just grass and not only is it just grass. There are some crusty dry spots over yonder and some dog poop up on the hill.
So......when something is worth it. It's just worth it. I don't doubt that I will have days when the fence looks jumpable again......but I will remember the crusty spots and the dog poop.
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Old 09-17-2006, 01:08 AM
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I think that this has been some of the best times in our

He grew up alot which is what he needed

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Old 11-01-2006, 10:07 PM
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He is the love of my life and will be forever...i will never stop waiting for his homecoming.
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Old 11-03-2006, 10:22 AM
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There is nothing to really think about.. I am married, to my husband, who is in prison right now.. I don't try and minimize it.. This is what it is..
He has given me no reason not to stand by his side, or not to be loyal..
So, this is where I will be, until....
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Old 11-03-2006, 02:33 PM
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I love my man and will wait for as long as it takes.
:love:Loving My Man Forever!:love:
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Old 11-03-2006, 06:12 PM
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It took me 10 years to find the love of my life... had you asked me ten years ago the answer would have been no i cant do this...ten years later i have matured and that was when my love for this man came to the forefront. Everything was in place for us to be together...I know without a doubt that my life doesnt work without him in it. So i will wait as long as i have to for my man to make parole. He loves me and I love him and truly that is all that really matters in the long run.
His secret weapon... is me and our heavenly father!!! With us both he won't ever be alone!

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Old 11-27-2006, 09:59 PM
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We made a commitment "till death do we part" and that's a lifetime!
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Old 11-29-2006, 10:43 AM
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You lady's are alot stronger than me. I have thought about leaving, but I never do. I just pray that he is the man I need him to be when he comes home. I am going to die if I waited all this time for nothing.
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Old 11-29-2006, 11:21 AM
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I'm committed as a friend fo sure, sexually i'm committed to myself because i dont feel like getting into another relationship so therefor still committed to him, mentally and emotionally i play games and are committed to puttin him through them for payback. i'm committed to him for the sake of our children. But committed to him for a future husband/wifey relationship i cant see that far in the future yet.
Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved. Helen Keller
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Old 11-30-2006, 09:58 PM
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Default That's like asking "Could my body survive Without my Heart?"

Michael and I love each other very very much. That's a big part of what love is all about - STANDING BY EACH OTHER FOREVER !

Sometimes I wonder if people who say they're in love really know what love means if they are not willing to be in it for the long haul. FOREVER !!!!!

What happened to the real meaning of "Being in Love?"
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Old 12-03-2006, 11:29 PM
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I would stand by my husband until the end. That is what marriage is for, the good times and the bad.
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Old 12-05-2006, 10:35 AM
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I never imagined myself in this type of situation, I always considered myself very high maintenance in the "sex departement." When we had initially started corresponding, I told him I was not in it for a relationship, only friendship, little did I know what God had in store for us. It's been the best emotional experience I've ever had, although it is hard for my daughter who has become attached to him too, she's 5. She doesn't understand that Daddy D just "can't come home with us." I just try to make the best of the situation, nad if he has to serve the rest of his 14 year sentence, then so be it, I'm in for the long haul. I definately think he's my soulmate.
"Meeting you with fate, becoming your friend was a choice and falling in love with you was beyond my control."
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Old 12-09-2006, 10:13 PM
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When I met my husband, he was at the beginning of a possible 15 yr bid. It hasn't stopped us from falling in love and staying in love. Sure, there are days when I wonder if I will survive without breaking,but there is an end coming into sight. He is my husband and my best friend...still,always.
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Old 12-10-2006, 11:55 AM
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Originally Posted by Wtg2SmileAgain
. . . I'm wondering how you keep your head up and if you ever waiver in your commitment.
For me I h ave two themes that keep my head up, waiver-free.

1. Chivalry -- commitment falls under chivalry.

2. Loving and living as best I can "the Word" because everything else falls under that.
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Old 12-10-2006, 11:31 PM
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NEVER i know that my long wait is gonna be worth it in the end.... Sometimes there are pricesses to pay for love. To those of you that said you always do then why are you? Tell him now beforehe comes home!!!!!
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Old 12-11-2006, 11:37 AM
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I will wait for him till the end of time ...... he is my other half of my heart and you need your whole heart to go on.

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Old 12-13-2006, 07:50 PM
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Yeah sometime you feel like is it worth it? the letters, the visits, the phone calls, packages? Being lonely, thinking about the memories that you have and the new ones yet to come. Then tell you they love you and your heart skips a beat.Wanting them home and working, being a good father,son husband or soon to be husband. You reread the letters again,and again. Take a deep breath and pray hoping you'll have the strength to go on one more day without them.Yeah, your in it for the long haul.
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only as of recently i've wondered what the hell i got into
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Old 01-20-2007, 03:25 AM
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I will always stand by my man no matter. It would be till the end
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