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View Poll Results: Do u ever feel like u can't stand by your commitment 2 stand by your inmate forever?
Never, That's my answer and I'm sticking to it!!! 925 46.13%
Sometimes I feel my life is on hold but then I know he's/she's worth the wait 794 39.60%
Sometimes I do wonder what the heck I'm doing 351 17.51%
Always, I wish I never committed to him 7 0.35%
Always, I'm only in for the kids 8 0.40%
Always 10 0.50%
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Old 05-30-2006, 10:58 PM
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Honestly, my husband has been in for almost a year, and he could potentially do a lot more years. This past year has not been bad for me. Of course, I get depressed from time to time, but during this year I have never once thought about leaving him. I know that he needs me, more for emotional support than anything. I would never hurt him like that. He could possibly do 9 more years. I can't honestly say my feelings won't change during those years. But I don't ever plan on leaving him. He is my heart. He makes me complete
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I never ever regret the choice that I made. I will wait as long as it takes for my husband to come back home to his family. I love that man so much and I want to show him just that by waiting for him. He is well worth the wait!
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Old 05-31-2006, 08:34 PM
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He just went in 6 days ago and we have at least over 5 years to go... I am worried about my life I guess because I love him so much and I know my heart can never go on even if I wanted it to. I guess I'm a little angry too because I feel so much pain...more than I've known most of my life. I miss him and sometimes I already feel like I can't go on. I guess you can say I am devistated and I don't know what to do. i know all I can do is wait...and hope... and pray... and if somebody comes my way I just need to remember how much I love him. Even if I WANTED to get into another relationship... once he got out I would drop anyone in a heartbeat to be with him. I guess I'm worried about loosing but it's only because I, myself am hurt so bad from this. I don't know how to stop being so sad....I'm afraid this is going to kill me...
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Old 05-31-2006, 10:02 PM
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the only time i question my commitment to him is when i let myself think about how long we have until he comes home. i do have 12 yrs invested into this relationship, 10 of those yrs are marriage. i vowed till death do us part so by god i will do all i can to make this work
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Old 06-09-2006, 06:04 AM
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I do what I do now but, Matt knows I'll be right there waiting when he comes home. })i({ Trisha
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Old 06-14-2006, 05:35 PM
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Now I don't feel as though I can't stand by him because I know I can. 8 years ago while he was locked up I walked away from him to do my own thing. He got out 2 years after that and ended up doing something he wasn't suppose to be. I don't blame myself for him being back in prison but sometimes I think if maybe I would have stuck by him last time he wouldn't be where he is now. So no I have no plans of leaving him now or ever.
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Old 06-14-2006, 09:19 PM
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I don't feel like I've put my life on hold, I am still living it. He is the most important thing in my life, I'd wait on him an eternity if I had to. Thankfully it won't be that long...
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Old 06-14-2006, 09:40 PM
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I knew he was the man I was going to marry before any of this ever happend, so how could this change that. He's it for me, he's my heart. I'm not saying it is easy, God knows its not, but I know that there isn't another man on this earth for me.
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Old 06-24-2006, 07:47 PM
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I didn't know he was the man I was gonna marry before this happened but I do know it now. Yea!!!
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Old 06-24-2006, 09:04 PM
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dont get me wrong i love my man to death and would wait til the end of time for him but every now and then i do feel like my life is on hold mostly when i see my friends doing couple stuff and knowing that i have to wait over a year to do those things again can be hard at times.
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Old 06-25-2006, 04:10 PM
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My husband and I have been together for 27 years (almost 16 married), so the thought of leaving him has not even crossed my mind.
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Old 06-25-2006, 11:18 PM
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My husband keeps me satisfied! He's worth! Its not the quantity of time its the quality!
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Old 06-29-2006, 06:00 PM
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I wouldn't change this decision for the world. I love him more than anything. But it does get hard sometimes. Recently, I have been having a hard time. But never once do I regret my decision to stay. He is not perfect and I am not perfect, but loving a person and being in a relationship is saying that no matter what we are staying together. No matter what, whether we are physically together or not.
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I Feel That If You Truly Love Your Man And He Loves You, That You Would Wait For How Ever Long It Takes. As For Me My Man Doesn't Have That Long 1-5 Years, But Even If He Had 11 To 55 I Would Wait, But As For My Man He Would Tell Me To Go On With My Life But I Couldn't
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Old 07-02-2006, 03:07 PM
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We go hard for our men, keep voting ladies...
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Old 07-03-2006, 08:34 PM
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I have always said that once I get married I would be faithful and do my best to keep my husband happy. My husband is very happy with me and it's very important to have a good trust issue and honest as well. Now that I'm married, I still feel the same way. I am so happy with my husband that cheating on him doesn't cross my mind. People asks if I can wait 5 yrs to have sex again and I tell them yes. A relationship/marriage is not about sex, it's about making your spouse happy emotionally and mentally regardless of the ups and downs you may have. I knew what I was up against once I got married and it doesn't bother me. I love him to death and he is worth the wait. With God's help, all thing are possible.
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i voted that sometimes i feel like i'm putting my life on hold, but he's worth it. i do wonder HOW i will make it, but i never wonder IF i will make it because i know our love is stronger than time, stronger than the distance, stronger than the dumb correctionals system!!!
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Sure our lives are on hold. We are serving time right along with them. My heart goes out to everyone that is faithfully waiting. Many for much more time than I am. It will be 2 years for us. This is our common bond. It takes Love and Loyalty. I will wait for however long it takes.
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Staying with him through this has never been a question...
I love him very much & very uncondionally!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is a great man & being in there for a little bit changes NOTHING
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Have I ever thought that I wasn't strong enough? Yes! have I ever felt that this was more pain than it was worth? Yes! have I ever thought about leaving the man that I promised to love unconditionally for the rest of my life. the one that makes me and my life complete? Hell no!
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I like many others have my bad days.. But I love him and I don't want any other.. I am here for the long haul.....
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i would trade places with him if i could just so he did not have to go through this. he is the soulmate i have been searching for my whole life. i can look at a picture or around the room and my life is all about him and always will be.
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