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View Poll Results: Do u ever feel like u can't stand by your commitment 2 stand by your inmate forever?
Never, That's my answer and I'm sticking to it!!! 925 46.13%
Sometimes I feel my life is on hold but then I know he's/she's worth the wait 794 39.60%
Sometimes I do wonder what the heck I'm doing 351 17.51%
Always, I wish I never committed to him 7 0.35%
Always, I'm only in for the kids 8 0.40%
Always 10 0.50%
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Old 02-27-2006, 07:48 PM
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I never really doubt why I stay with him, but other aspects like what is its going to be like when he gets home or why God made us go through this. I keep it 100% with my love at all times. I would never leave him we were meant to be together and five little years ain't stopping that.
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Old 02-28-2006, 12:50 PM
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He makes me mad as hell sometimes, but after 20 years, I know that I'll always stand by him. He is my soulmate and my best friend.
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Old 02-28-2006, 07:18 PM
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Ok I am confused as to whether you are talking about them being in for life? Or being with them for life in general? Please explain...
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Old 02-28-2006, 07:57 PM
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I picked "Sometimes I feel my life is on hold but then I know he's/she's worth the wait". Loving someone incarcerated isnt easy but i know without a doubt he is my soulmate and best friend. There is no fight or hardship i wouldnt endure for him. I'm here for him now and for the rest of his life. Great thread!
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He makes me mad as hell sometimes, but after 20 years, I know that I'll always stand by him. He is my soulmate and my best friend.
But hey what can you do I Love him even though he makes me fiery angry sometimes then he makes up for it and so do I. I don't like to argue with him it gets frustrating especially since I don't see him all the time(just every other week) He is amazing and I am Lucky!!! But I know what you mean plus mine is so freaking stubborn at times as well and so am I.

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I love him and would wait for him no matter what...he is my world now and our hearts are one...I am a very lucky woman to have him in my life...
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Old 03-01-2006, 01:07 PM
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There are times this whole thing gets stressful and overwhelming I can admit but he's so worth the wait and I love him soooo much
"always and eternity"
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i have been doing this for 25 years now
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God Bless You Real Good,Bernadette! I haven't been riding with my sweetheart that long, but you are an inspiration to all of us that it can be done. I have found my soulmate and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. He is just so amazing to me, he gives me butterflies
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Old 03-07-2006, 07:12 AM
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Come on ladies, I really want to know where you're at on your committment level. I really want to hear from you!!!! Where you at?
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am not gonna lie shit i had doughts but love iz what takes over somtimes you need to get laid thats if its been like a year you know
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Old 03-07-2006, 12:21 PM
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Never!! I've never questioned it. I'd stand by him through anything...good or bad...till death do us part!
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Old 03-08-2006, 07:29 PM
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i'm here and sticking to my decision...nothing but him could make me change my mind (lol...besides we're stuck together forever anyway :P)!
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Old 03-10-2006, 09:22 PM
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When my man first went in I thought I can do this no problem, 6 months in I wasn't so sure. I hadn't seen him because he was over an hour from me and they did not have weekend visits, I work an eight hour day shift. The facility was in a real cruddy part of the town that it was in and I did not want to go there alone at night and leave my child with a babysitter. So we were starting to drift apart. The court decision was finally over, he was moved much closer to me and we knew what we were facing for time. then I knew that I could do this. I could go and see him just about every day if I wanted and the calls were not as expensive. I never doubted how much he or I loved each other, i just doubted if I had the strength to hold onto it. We talked about it we shared how we felt and it made us like a rock.
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I will wait with him without a doubt, However we have so many plans for our future when he gets home sometimes it feels like my life is on hold, or pause, or I'm going through it in slow motion....
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It's hard waiting and sometimes it doesn't ever seem like it's going to end. But I love him so much and I know the life we had that it's worth the wait. I couldn't imagine trying to move forward without him. My heart wouldn't let me.
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Sometimes I feel like I can't take it but then I'll get a letter or a phone call from him and I know that everything will be o.k he is the only man for me and there is no way that I could ever leave him

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Old 03-12-2006, 10:13 PM
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Well at first it took time really make sure it was worth it, but it didn't take long at all to figure out how in love he made me feel! That I couldn't possibly even begin to imagine what it would be like without him in my life... at all. Theres times when I can't believe that I'm going through this, but then I remember.. He's doing the time, NOT me. I still have freedom, even though the freedom I have doesn't matter, because it's not the same without him. But I will ALWAYS stay with him no matter what it takes or how long!

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Well at first it took time really make sure it was worth it, but it didn't take long at all to figure out how in love he made me feel! That I couldn't possibly even begin to imagine what it would be like without him in my life... at all. Theres times when I can't believe that I'm going through this, but then I remember.. He's doing the time, NOT me. I still have freedom, even though the freedom I have doesn't matter, because it's not the same without him. But I will ALWAYS stay with him no matter what it takes or how long!

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I am committed 100% to my Man as I know he is committed 100% to me!
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Feedback..."Where you at"
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hi ev i don't really no how to answer this.there are times i feel like giving up. but like i say to ev that ask i love him so much that i do what ever it take for us to be happy again. i don't have to wait as long as most of yall. i guess i can be thank for. he should be home in july 13.06 . i was hoping parole wouuld grant him early realease but no. so the wait is on that his birthday also.
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i know Scott is a good man, but there are those days when i don't know if i am making the right choice. i love him and he loves me, too. we have a beautiful family together, thats why i don't see how he could have gotten himself into this position.
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My man and I live as common law husband and wife. We are very committed to one another. BUT there are times when I get down and I resent the fact that he's not here for me.
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Never! It's never crossed my mind and chances are, it won't. I couldn't do that to him. Or us.
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Old 04-02-2006, 09:41 AM
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I love him to much to ever leave him! I will be there for ever no matter what...thats my baby....I can't be without him! We been through it all even though we are young...so why not go through this together to....feel me?
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