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View Poll Results: Do u ever feel like u can't stand by your commitment 2 stand by your inmate forever?
Never, That's my answer and I'm sticking to it!!! 925 46.13%
Sometimes I feel my life is on hold but then I know he's/she's worth the wait 794 39.60%
Sometimes I do wonder what the heck I'm doing 351 17.51%
Always, I wish I never committed to him 7 0.35%
Always, I'm only in for the kids 8 0.40%
Always 10 0.50%
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Old 11-15-2012, 11:48 AM
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I have never thought that i couldnt wait for him.. He made me happy and he still makes me happy while he is in.. He is my world as we are his.. He makes this family complete and I stay with him cuz i love him unconditionally as he does us.

This is exactly how I feel. People think I'm crazy when I say he still makes me completely happy even though he is locked up. I couldn't ask for someone better for myself or my daughter. And I love him unconditionally as he loves us. Committment not a problem here. I have no problem being 100% faithful to my fiance while he is away. Whether it end up being 6 months or 3 years or turning into 5 years I will patiently wait for him to come home.
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This is exactly how I feel. People think I'm crazy when I say he still makes me completely happy even though he is locked up. I couldn't ask for someone better for myself or my daughter. And I love him unconditionally as he loves us. Committment not a problem here. I have no problem being 100% faithful to my fiance while he is away. Whether it end up being 6 months or 3 years or turning into 5 years I will patiently wait for him to come home.
I am on the same boat.... it feels good to know I am not the only one that is in the same situation. I LOVE my man, today ,tomorrow for always......
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Old 12-28-2012, 02:17 AM
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There are times when I feel overwhelmed and lonely but I love him so much that I would never think of cheating on him or not sticking it out. Luckily for me we only have 108 days left so I am feeling good. anxious but good.
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I'm a girl who never really had a relationship, so much as "liked" guys who weren't good 4 me. when i met my baby and we became bffs 7yrs ago and then got seperated(because he chose the wrong path), i FELL FOR HIM, AS HE FELL FOR ME. we had a feeling that the other had feelings, but we never admitted it. i found out he was in jail in jan '12, wrote to him, and we began our friendship AGAIN, eventually falling in love again.he apologized for leaving me and that he didn't want me around the bad things he was involved in.he explained his past at the time, that he kept from me.
He's changed and doing better and went to DOC in Oct '12. I feel like God has reunited us for a reason, and my man has helped me believe in God again. There are so many "reasons & meant to be" why we ended up together again. We r not together in person and we can only talk, visit, & write, but it's ALL WE HAVE and I can't/won't imagine life w/o each other. It's meant 2 be as far as we feel, and I was the 1 who said i'd wait-he didn't want me to, wanted better for me........but i mean what i say and say what i mean. God willing we get thru and win appeals so he gets time cut in half. If not, he'll be doing around 8yrs....and u know what? I'M GOING STRONG!! I LOVE MY FIANCE'....IT'S HIM OR NO 1. NO 1 MAKES ME FEEL LIKE HE DOES OR EVER HAS. every day we grow stronger and fall more in love.....it's just rough right now til he comes home to me.
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Blessings I think you have the courage to make it! I met my hubby 27 yrs ago MWI. I changed and went forward but we split and he was out 45 days and then back. I feel if we had been together he maybe home today. There will be bumps but when it's real it's real! Blessings
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Each day is a struggle. Its still unclear as to what we are hopefully in this next letter I will know <3
But regardless he is my best friend and first true love.
People make stupid choices but that does not mean he isn't who over always known.
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Never! I gave him my word I was standing by him. I'm a rider and I'll never go back on my word to him. I was standing by him through all his ups and downs. His good and his very bad day's. I'm still here and waiting for him to come home soon.
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My committment to him was I'll see him through this until he walks out of those gates. What might happen once he's in the free world who knows. None of us has a crystal ball. So one day at a time, no promises, no marriage and no sitting on packed boxes.

I'm loyal but I'm no idiot
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Never. He's been my best friend since 1994 and when my late husband became terminally ill, I knew that I would never enter the dating world again, but I would marry my best friend next.
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What does commitment mean to everyone?
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What does commitment mean to everyone?

Staying with her despite everything.
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What does commitment mean to everyone?
Commitment to me means standing by him in both good or bad. Making him feel love trust and safe like he does to me. It also means that I am faithful as is he. It part of the foundation in our relationship
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Just the other day on the phone my fiance said to me again if could hold on one more year of this he has been in for almost 5 months. I told him that from day one that I was beside him �� % through this and forever. Our love grows stronger as the days go by the visits can't come quick enough. The phone calls in the morning and through out the day keep us going. And I asked him to promise me never to ask me that question again. We're two of a kind and we work good together.
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