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View Poll Results: if you had the chance to get pregnant would you?
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Old 05-22-2005, 09:43 AM
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If I was financially able to afford it(I mean really financially fit), I would love to have his child, and my man is a lifer, but I already am raising three alone and its hard, and I am strapped for money as it, so I would say no right now. But I'd love to have him home and be there for me and the kids and if we could afford a biological child together I would love it. But it is not feasible and would be very unfair to all involved.
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Old 05-22-2005, 11:48 AM
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I am sorry but I would not get pregnant while my fiance is in prison. I feel as though you violated your body and let another man enter into a place where your husband/boyfriend or shall I say "soulmate" should only enter.
I think that people are talking about if they could get pregnant by their men in prison, not by some other guy. At least thats what I thought
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I Would Not Get Pregnant By My Honey While He Is In There! Like I Said Its Not Fair To Him Or The Baby! I Was Not With Him While I Got Pregnant So I Do Not Think That I Violated My Body, I Decided To Try To Work Things Out With My Honey When Things Didnt Work Out With My Babys Dad!
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NO. I don't want children anyway.
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No way, I wouldnt want to go through another pregnancy alone, morning sickness alone was a toughy when being by myself, I just couldnt do it, now when he comes home that will be a different story.
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I am sorry but I would not get pregnant while my fiance is in prison. I feel as though you violated your body and let another man enter into a place where your husband/boyfriend or shall I say "soulmate" should only enter.

LadyGandy, it will be with my man....who said anything else about another man???
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Old 05-22-2005, 08:30 PM
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NO! My husband and I don't have any children together, but we've both got 4yr old daughters. Even though there's nothing I can do to make my daughter real father be part of her life, I still feel guilty for "depriving" her of that family setting. To purposely bring a child into this world knowing daddy wouldn't be around, HECK NO. Financially and emotionally it will be hard on you, not to mention what your child will go through without daddy.

Maybe if he were coming home within a few years, I can see someone chosing to do so, but if he was a lifer that's not fair for that baby.
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no way.

the "lifer" situation does throw a curve into but I am still saying, NO.
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Athough it is impossible for me to have another child I would give anything to have Steve's ... oh well no matter how much time he has left I would do it if I could and I am a single mother of two teenagers right now and sometimes it nearly kills me lol but other times I wouldn't trade it for the world *and that is most of the time honestly*
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It's funny because my boyfriend and I were joking about that at our visit yesterday. Personally, being 23, I am not ready for that type of commitment. It would be too hard for me to deal with a pregnancy alone. I can't even support myself! I couldn't even imagine the stress involved with being a single mom.

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Been there, done that, wrote the book. I want to focus on my husband coming home, securing employment and enjoying one another for a bit. I am not totally cancelling out the thought of a child, but I wont be sad if it doesnt happen. My son is 12, so I am not in any rush to start over again with an infant. Feel me?

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I would say if the oppertunity presented itself Yes I would get pregnant. My husband is a lifer that is 15 years into his sentence. I have two children that are not his but I want another child. I can provide for my child on my own. I am a very intelligent young woman who is a college graduate with a good paying job. I don't see the big deal. My child will have all the love and support in the world.
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I don't think I could ever do this again! I found out I was pregnant a few weeks after he went in. He missed the whole pregnancy and he is going to miss the birth this month. I wish he could of been here!
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Heck NO!!! I am sorry but I would hate to go through the birth of our child, raising him/her and everything else all by myself until he got out. Somethings are worth waiting for and that is one thing I believe is worth the wait. I hear the "biological clock" thing but I think anything like that is worth doing right! A child would mean the world to Patrick but not being there for all of it would kill both of us. He only has a little over 3 years so I am going to vote "no"
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I'd have to vote yes. We lost a baby a few months before Coy went in and though we tried, I didn't get pregnant again before he left. I have a 20 yr old and 17 yr old and he has a 15 yr old that he didn't get to know until about a year ago. we're hoping he gets to come home in time to try again but since i'm 42, the clock's ticking LOUDLY . So if there was a way that we could get pregnant now, i would.
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Hell & no!
I don't have any...I don't want any. Since I'm not independently wealthy, I'd still have to work, which means the child would spend all day at a babysitter's. What's the point then?
My hubby has a 5 1/2-year-old son, and would have liked to have had a child with me. But, he's neutered, and I'm too old.
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NOOOOOOOOO! I was pregnant when he left and now I am raising our son alone! I believe it was gods intention for us to receive this miracle when we did, BUT, it is soooooo hard, emotionally, financially and did I mention emotionally???? Our son will be 4 going on 5 when Dad gets home....it's too hard on him, so I would never do it again..But thank God for my miracle, he is my strength and the highlight of my life!
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Yes because carrying my husband child would be a precious gift...We don't have any children together and I can't wait to start...
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that's funny I found this post. me and John's grandma were talking about this she want's me to do artificial insemination if we can well I think I would do it but only the last 1 year in a half to 2 I owuld consider since he got 10 years I wouldn't do it in the beginning I would wait until towards the end of his sentence. If we can do it I know his grandma is going to be excited! so we will see when the time gets here
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