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View Poll Results: if you had the chance to get pregnant would you?
yes 897 38.37%
no 1,039 44.44%
maybe 307 13.13%
can't decide 95 4.06%
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Old 04-12-2008, 02:23 AM
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HELL NO!!! I want the both of us to experience the pregnancy together.....Especially cause I'm not a mommy yet.
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No! Before he went to jail we had actually tried to get pregnant, and when i got my period i was relieved to know i wasn't because i would have been 6 months pregnant when he got out and since we are planning to get pregnant when he gets out, i want him there for every part of my pregnancy - not just the last 3 months. Not to mention, i had a miscarriage in April '07 at 10 weeks pregnant and even with him there for support i was a mess. If i was to have to handle another loss without him there, would be shattering.

I wouldn't purporesly get pregnant while he was in there. He is only in there for another 5 months so therefore i can wait till October to start trying to get pregnant again.
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Old 04-14-2008, 01:06 AM
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i whole heartedly agree. but if it happens, things do happen 4 a reason.
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No! Before he went to jail we had actually tried to get pregnant, and when i got my period i was relieved to know i wasn't because i would have been 6 months pregnant when he got out and since we are planning to get pregnant when he gets out, i want him there for every part of my pregnancy - not just the last 3 months. Not to mention, i had a miscarriage in April '07 at 10 weeks pregnant and even with him there for support i was a mess. If i was to have to handle another loss without him there, would be shattering.

I wouldn't purporesly get pregnant while he was in there. He is only in there for another 5 months so therefore i can wait till October to start trying to get pregnant again.
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Old 04-14-2008, 08:46 AM
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i said yes...i am 31 and no kids...he has two...they probably won't take care of me when i get old...i am not their mother...and they remind me...i know there is no guarantee that my child will but i will take my chance with my own blood...he will be home soon...DON"T LET HIM GET TO A CAMP....ITS ON!!!!!!
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Old 04-14-2008, 08:56 AM
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I said no because we just had a daughter, she was a week old when he went in, We do plan on having another child when he is out, but I would not want to go through being pregnant on my own, but I definetly understand everyone who said yes, and their reasons.
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my man is a lifer and there is no way I would have a kid while he is in prison He has a young daughter from another girl and I see how hard it is on her she only gets to see her daddy every other weekend when her grandma(his Mom has custody) takes her to see him. I can't imagine doing the kid thing without him.
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Old 04-14-2008, 03:02 PM
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Uhhh...wouldn't getting pregant while your MAN is in prison be...uhh...CHEATING!!!! I'm thinking no to getting pregnant while my husband's locked up. I can wait.
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i would love to but i have to say no because he has a daughter that he never has seem because of her mother and his past in prison anyway so i want him home to be there for everypart of it.
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nope....i do not not want to go thru the process by myself...i know he wants to experience it too and be there every step of the way...its kind of hard to be there from a jail cell
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and the only reason i say maybe is because i would need to take any opportunity to get pregnant that i can, since the doctors have told me i don't get to have anymore children (i have a one year old daughter) but I know my boyfriend wants to be a part of everything about me, including the pregnancy of his own child... i'm praying the doctors change their minds...
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No way! I am already raising our boys alone the last few years. I would not want to bring a child in the world knowing that he would never have a chance to have a real bond w/ his father. His father would never be at games, or recitals. No Christmas mornings. My boys miss that now, and thankfully he will be out soon to enjoy it before they reach their adult years. But no no no...
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Yes I would. I have a 4 year old and a 7 years old and my husband will be out in december. If I had a chance to go and try to get pregnant I would in a heart beat. If he was a lifer I would not.
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YES!!!! my baby is not a lifer in fact he's only going to be in there for a couple months. So he would be out by the time the baby was due. Id be more then happy to get prego while he was in there.
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WELL, we've done alot of TIME, and no baby, now that he's on his way home and my clock is ticking . I think we can do it at the end of his bid, because he wants to be there. so our next trailor we will be getting started
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def not!

i don't want to go through pregnancy alone... then raising the baby alone... noooo way. i'll wait the 3 years to have a baby.
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Old 04-17-2008, 08:08 PM
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im really glad i found this thread because me and my fiance have been talking about this. im 25 have no kids he has a daughter which since we got married his x wont allow him to see. i want kids but dont wanna do it alone he wants to have another but wants to be there for everything which he has 10 years left. by that time i will be 35 he will be 37 and to be honest i dont wanna be an older mother. he tells me whatever i want its up to me. and then i got a letter today which brought me to tears because he got back onto the child issue and said that maybe hes holding me back from life. ive been by his side faithfully for 5 years now and we tossed around the idea of getting married in the past 5 years and just recently put in our application to get married. Yes i am goin to marry him Yes he is in my future but im really confused about the child thing.
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I'm counting on it, hoping one of these family visits pay off
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we would if we could...and I would do it without him because it would never be without him - only a little far away from him but never without him. He lost his daughter because of his sentence and he will never get out of prison alive...but that doesnt mean that he wouldnt be there for us, for his kid...he would be the best daddy of all.
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and yes...in a heartbeat.

be thankful for contact visits, conjugal visits...we will never have that nor a baby.
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DEF NOT! I wouldn't be able to do that alone!
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There is no way I personally could do that.
There was a possibility I was pregnant when he went in and just thinking about it broke both of our hearts. I am young, I can wait until he gets out!
If he was a lifer I might consider it!
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would i do it again no way because i actually already did i have his 3 kids they are all teenagers now and i raised them 13 years on my own it is hard when you are non stop going to family state and church to help you out becuase no matter where you work you need 2 incomes kids are expensive and it is hard all the emotional stuff you need someone you can talk to anyway no way would i go through that or put my kids through it again on purpose..
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I will not get pregnant while he's inside. It would be unfair for him to be excluded from the entire experience.

If he was doing life, well, I don't think that I would be with him. I just wouldn't be able to cope with that situation. I'm in awe of those who can.
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