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View Poll Results: if you had the chance to get pregnant would you?
yes 897 38.37%
no 1,039 44.44%
maybe 307 13.13%
can't decide 95 4.06%
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Old 02-29-2008, 03:53 PM
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Didnt plan on it, but I did and I am pregnant now.
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Old 02-29-2008, 03:57 PM
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no i dont think i would. like at all. i would get married with him in prision. thats okay. but having a child by myself without my man there.... NO. i wouldnt and couldnt do that. it really sucks. he really wants to get me pregnant because he wants kids asap! but i dont want to get pregnant and have a baby while he's in jail. i just couldnt!!! i would want him there with me. i am most definitely having kids with him when he gets out... like the first chance we get, but i dont want to actually have his kid when he's not there. i just couldnt.
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Old 02-29-2008, 04:24 PM
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I am pregnant with my man locked up...Didn't mean for it to happen that way it just did. And there is no way that I would want to go through this willingly, my heart breaks thinking of how much time he is going to miss with this one and that he probably won't even hear her first cry.
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Old 03-06-2008, 02:55 PM
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Oh no, I have four now, two girls and two boys, ages 16,13,12,& 6! I'm active duty Navy over 17 years and counting! I'm divorce and my ex-husband (who was also Navy) is deceased. Touvoris has no children (but if you ask him, he'll tell you he has 4,lol). He has never been married, me I'm done having kids and I don't think I ever want to get married again, either!
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Old 03-06-2008, 03:29 PM
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i would depending on how long he was in for... if it was something like a few years, we could both wait, but like 20 or somehting, in a heart beat.
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Old 03-06-2008, 03:42 PM
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not sure, but would rather for him to go through the pregnancy with me alongside me..not behind bars...but we will as soon as he comes home...maybe the very first day!!
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Old 03-07-2008, 09:30 PM
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No i wouldn't. I don't think it's fair to him, me or the baby.
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Old 03-08-2008, 12:23 PM
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maybe..we talked about this so much..and now he brings it up more..so i know he wants one..not sure yet.but maybe..yes...
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Old 03-10-2008, 07:52 PM
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No, I Dont Think So. I Think That Would Be An Experience That We Would Want To Experience Together && It Wouldnt Be Fair For Him To Miss Out On That Joy In Life. It Would Depress Him More I Think If He Had To Miss Out On That Joy.
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Pregnant, no. Since he thinks pregnant women are hot. But I would definetely go for the first few months with a newborn while he was inside....he loves kids but babies up every few hours aren't his thing.....
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I would have his baby today if I could. Thats how much I want to be a part of him. I just love him more that he will ever know. Having a part of him would be just wonderful. Besides he would be an awsome father.
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Old 03-16-2008, 07:44 PM
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NOOOO WAY, I have a 9 year old and it's hard enough without my hubby here. I'd love to get pregers when he's home, but I want him to show me how it's gonna be this time before we even think about bringing a baby to our chaos.
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ABSOLUTELY mind you we have about a year or a little more to go....BUT yes if I got a chance to see him out which who knows I might for about 5 minutes definitely I was with my last husband for 7 years after I had my son and never got pregnant we didnt' use anything so now I worry I might not be able to and hes not getting any younger he will be almost 38 when he gets out I will be almost 35...So yes aside from the fact my mom will be wondering where the hell he is during my pregnancy...she don't know about jail
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while he was still in county I actually found out I was pregnant soon after he was arrested but me and him werent really together at that time because he was in a relationship so I wasn't sure if the baby was his or not and well when I told him he was very shocked and excited at the same time because he thought my son might be his(he doesnt have any kids) though I knew my son wasn't! he was pretty cool about being in his life though and didn't mind it being by another man! My son was born early though and he only lived for two weeks but he supported me a lot when my son died and I think it hurt him just as much as it hurt me and because he wasn't able to comfort me the way he wanted to. Now that we're in an actual relationship I highly doubt I will get pregnant on him! LoL he actually wrote me one time saying "I hope you don't get pregnant again" but he did say if it was to happen he would deal with...haha I think he was just saying that though!!!
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HELL FREAKIN NO!!!! I don't want no weekend daddy for my kids. I need a father who can provide for my babies. NO WAY! I would never do that too myself I don't care how much he wants to have one. He shudda thought about that before he got locked up.
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Mo I wouldnt, I think thats wrong to do. I would wait till he got out or find some way to work it out
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I would have to say NO, I am taking care of our 3 and 5 yr old right now and we have no idea exactly how long he is gonna be away (sentenced to 2 yrs, might get out early), and it is really really really hard right now. Having to find a job and take care of everything is not something I have been doing since we have been together and now I've been thrown into it. After he gets out and I can afford to have the tubal reversed and the other 2 are older then yes...But not right now
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Old 03-31-2008, 04:53 AM
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no way. i'm only 21! and i've only been with my man for a few months. i'm planning on doing a lot before i have kids.....actually i have 200 kids already since i work in a daycare...haha...so....not exactly planning on getting pregnant right now anyway, and he's not supposed to do more than 90 days, from what i understand it's the maximum.
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I would right now. He's only got 8 more months left and would be home in time for the birth and everything. We're antsy to have a child and were before he went in as well. If it was long term? No, I want him here with his son or daughter.
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OK FIRST OF ALL I AM CURIOUS HOW ARE YOU GOING TO GET PREGNANT WITH HIM LOCKED UP, I AM JUST WONDERING AND MAYBE MY MIND IS ON OVER LOAD AND I AM NOT SEEING THE OPTIONS HERE.....SO IF SOMEONE AN FILL ME IN ON THIS THAT WOULD BE GREAT! NOW WOULD I DO THAT IF THE OPTION WAS THIER I WOULD 100% I LOVE KIDS AND KNOWING THAT YOU COULD HAVE A PART OF THAT PERSON WITH YOU FOREVER SHOULD BE YOUR DECISON WITH THE 2 OF YOU
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yep! no doubt about it i would!d we wanted a little squadren and we're going to get one, one way or another. we have one already. i have support thouhg so it will be manageable. not my first choice but you do what you've got to do!
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I have advanced endometriosis, and may not be able to get pregnant when he got out without in-vitro treatments. Despite this, I still wouldn't take up the chance to get pregnant. We want our child, a combination of both of our hearts, souls and blood. If that doesn't work out we'll look at other options together.
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I definetely would, even though he has only 8 months to go I would do it tomorrow if I could!!
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i would. i have a family visit comin up so who knows, it may happen then. he will beout next year anyway. if he were a lifer. i would not get pregnant by anyone else. he is the ONLY one who can breed in my body
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I have enough children, I don't want any more. Besides my husband and I want to have us time when he gets out. :love:
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