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View Poll Results: if you had the chance to get pregnant would you?
yes 897 38.37%
no 1,039 44.44%
maybe 307 13.13%
can't decide 95 4.06%
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Old 11-27-2007, 12:28 AM
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Well, he better not take too long, before my eggs get all stale and whatnot.
hahaha, thats 2 funny..


I would wait until he gets out, I would want him to be there each month with me...
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Old 12-13-2007, 06:57 PM
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We're both 32 and he still has 10 years. We've talked about it, and at this point we plan on wanting to wait...because we don't want to put a child through that, and because he wants to be a part of it all. But...we also have both recognized that the fact is, time may be an issue...people are having babies later in life now, including my own mother. So it's not out of the question, but we'll see how we feel about it in the years to come. We may change our minds. Either way, we'll put a lot of thought into it and I'd rather wait as long as possible.
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Old 12-13-2007, 07:09 PM
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I would defintely want him with me, so I would wait. It won't be too long before he is out and we are only 30. So I would prefer to wait.

I want him to be there so I can send him out for ice cream in the middle of the night and rub my feet!
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Old 12-13-2007, 10:52 PM
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Wait until he gets out. I'm not putting myself in the position to raise a child on my own. More importantly he would not be able to see the child until he/she was 18 because the only way they'd allow him to see them is if we proved it was his child then they'd know we screwed while he was in and bad things would come of that.
Now if he was in their for life I still don't think I would do it but I can't say for 100% because i'm not in the situation.
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Old 12-13-2007, 11:02 PM
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yeah...most definitely....
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Old 12-14-2007, 03:07 AM
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Oh No, i dont think so mabey if he was there for life but we have 2 and thats good.
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Old 12-14-2007, 05:19 AM
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No. I thought I was pregnant before he wnt in and that scared me enough. I will wait it out. I know I could not handle it alone, and he would miss it.
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Old 12-14-2007, 05:44 AM
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It would be a headline if I did...post menopause and tubes tied...and I think my cherry has grown back anyway!!
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I don't think I would in my situation, cause we already have five beautiful children together, one a heavenly angel above and four earth angels. But if we had no children together and were much younger, it would be a definite maybe. But than again, there are other options to consider, work, who can watch the baby, and it would be tough. I struggle now, raising my kids alone, with no outside help, no government help, etc. Its all on me, but I know its not forever and that is what keeps me going.
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Old 12-14-2007, 10:29 AM
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Because I don't want to go through this prison mess on my own, there is no way I'd bring a baby into it and then put THE BOTH OF US through it. No thank you -- I see the pregnant girls and the newborns on the visit -- yall can have that because it is not for me. What's for me is he's got to not only tell me he wants to be home but he's got to SHOW me he wants to be home. Because he can't show me that inside, that baby making stuff would have to wait until he's shown me.

A baby is more than a cute trinket to me -- a baby is more serious than marriage and marriage is VERY SERIOUS to me.
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Old 12-16-2007, 08:29 PM
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no but he does want at least 3. I should a few you girls to have some
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NO WAY! I have already raised one child by myself and I dont want to do it again. We were together almost 2 years before he went in. I was pregnant with his son, but I lost baby Alex at 16 weeks. That almost killed me emotionally. So I really dont want to ever be pregnant again, especially alone and pregnant. If something happened to another baby they would have to put me in the psych ward.
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I would get pregnant if we had the chance to concieve while he was locked up. That would mean that we would be given the chance to do the naughty at some point. LOL And by the time he got out, we would be starting the unltrasound stage.....that would be so neat. We have been trying to start our own family for awhile now. So hopefully when he gets out, we won't have any problems. I can't wait!!!!
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Old 12-19-2007, 08:13 PM
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I love my king but I cant do that. I am having a hard enough time being a single mother out here trying to raise a male child. It's hard out here without him. I couldn't imagine doing this all by myself once again.
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Old 12-19-2007, 08:39 PM
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I dont see how I could! Illinois sucks, they dont have boneyard or nuthin'! Stupid Illinois laws!!! LOL!
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this is a really hard question to answer...i think i would rather wait!! If i didnt have the option to wait and this was the guy i planned on spending the rest of my life with than ya..but be prepared to raise a kid alone...if your up for that then good luck!!
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If we had the opportunity then I would I want his Baby!
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No I think that would be very dumb and very unfair to our child. Have you ever seen a child that is removed from a visit. All they do is cry cry cry why would I do that to my child...
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If he had life then iwould defineitely do it, but since he doesnt were waitin til he gets out
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I wouldn't want to do that while he is in prison. I would want him to be there for every special moment.
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My Boyfriend Got 18 Yrs Im Only 19yrs Old He Is 20 Weve Been Together For 4 Yrs And I Dont Care What No One Says Im Going To Marrie Him And Have His Baby... Who Cares What N E One Thinks Go With What Both Of You Guys Have Planned Just Like I Am!!!!!... No One Else Is Going To Live Up Your Relationship...
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my answer would most definatly be NO!!...i'm a single mother of two and thats hard enough i couldnt imagine adding another baby in the mix..plus i think its hard enough for my man to be in there knowing that i'm out here i know it would hurt him even more to know that he was also missing out on his baby growing up (the two that i have arnt his..its a long story )..so yea for sure i wouldnt do that to either of us
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