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View Poll Results: if you had the chance to get pregnant would you?
yes 897 38.37%
no 1,039 44.44%
maybe 307 13.13%
can't decide 95 4.06%
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Old 08-24-2007, 08:41 PM
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most likely no i would not get pregnant while he is away in prison i'd feel much better with him home and me gettin pregnant then!!
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Old 08-27-2007, 09:40 AM
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I would not consider having any more children while Tre' is away I had our daughter 3 months after he was sentenced and she is now 13 months and this has been hard on us both considering I have 3 other children and I was approaching graduation and a full time job I was sick with pnemonia and post partum depression after words, this type of stress I would not reccommend to my worst enemy. I am happily to say things have started to go into a better direction for me but I can truly say I don't see my self having a baby alone every time my baby does somenting new it makes me sad that her daddy is missing out and when my 3 year old is having a bad day he wants to talk to his daddy or go see him and it is hard to explain why you can only talk to your daddy twice a week or go see him every two weeks.
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Old 08-27-2007, 12:13 PM
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I wouldn't. I would want us to be okay first, like have everything in order. I want him to have a steady job first, and have had time to get use to things again. Then we can think about children because i would want him by side every step of the way as a good loving husband and father.
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Old 08-30-2007, 07:44 PM
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Well Im expectinq our son ..i found out i was preqo a month b4 he qot locked up..It broke my heart.but thinqs happen!
Its truely hard on us..he is about to qet out.still he has been away over half of my pregancy. I dont know why anyone would CHOOSE to get pregante by a man that can care for you!

-ur poll to me was sick- && all u woman that voted yes are truely confused! ..put urself in that place && Im sure u wouldnt enjoy it
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Old 10-22-2007, 11:02 AM
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I want to have kids with my fiance, but not while he is in prison. I have enough health issues at this point and its tough enough each day without him. I would want him there through the pregnancy and I know he would want to be there. Also, we need to get financially settled so that we can afford a child. I'm not going to bring a child into this world if we're unable to give him or her the attention, love, and happiness that they deserve.
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Old 10-23-2007, 10:56 PM
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I would have to say no...I just feel it would really be unfair to everyone involved. But, he is coming home in 98 days, so I imagine about a year from now we will be having a baby arrive....hopefully. Not to mention I wouldn't want our child to be uncomfortable with knowing he/she was conceived while daddy was in prison...it will be much better to do the baby dance when he gets home!

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Old 10-24-2007, 04:44 AM
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Yes I would & we've actually talked about this before. My husband is in the FL DOC system & is going to work release soon & he'll be home on the weekends in a few months & I know with all that's backed-up (lol) there will be a bun in the oven & I cannot wait, by the time the baby is born he'll be home! So it'll work out wonderful. He's given me baby fever from talking about another one so much & I cannot wait.
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Old 10-24-2007, 11:14 AM
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Yes, I would! We plan on having more children when he's home. Our mother's have always help out if we needed anything and they both would love us to have another child.
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Old 10-24-2007, 11:28 AM
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At this very moment I would have to say no. Only cuz we just had a baby boy in feb. plus we already have three other boys I have to worry about. as much as I love to make babies with my man Its hard raising them alone. But when he comes home. we'll be working on baby # 5 (going for a girl)
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Old 10-24-2007, 12:02 PM
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I wouldn't plan for it...but if it happen i would be fine with it. Fortunatley in NY they offer trailors so there is a possibilty of me getting pregnant.
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Old 10-24-2007, 10:46 PM
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Old 11-04-2007, 11:52 AM
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No I would not want to have kids go through this, it is hard enough by myself and would want him to be there through the whole process.
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Old 11-04-2007, 01:07 PM
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No, cause I would want him to be there for the birth and everything. Plus I wouldn't want my baby to be born with there father locked up. I rather wait until we get past all of this to start a family.
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Old 11-05-2007, 05:46 PM
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He wants us to have a baby together, but we won't even consider it until he comes home.
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Old 11-07-2007, 03:42 PM
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If he was in for life than maybe but he has about 7 years left and I have 3 kids and he has 3 kids. By the time he gets out I'll be 37 he will be 37 also.
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Old 11-07-2007, 07:37 PM
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WE would love to have a child together. I don't have enough nerve to compromise breaking any rules and it's not worth losing our visitation. By the time he is released (if he serves the full term) the possibility would be slim (given our age). Be it God's will for us one day. Until then, we dream and hope.
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Old 11-07-2007, 07:48 PM
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No. I'm done having children. Me & him have 1 biological & he claims my daughter as his. Plus 3 from his ex wife. Man we almost got the brady bunch. One girl shy. I'm staying 150% faithful to my man.
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Old 11-13-2007, 10:05 PM
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No.. I want my husband to be around when I have kids.. I do not have any yet..
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Old 11-13-2007, 10:09 PM
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HELL NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i am not going to go through the pregnancy alone if i could avoid it. i can wait. my eggs arent going anywhere!
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Old 11-13-2007, 11:21 PM
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If I was pregnant I would deal with it, but I would much rather wait for him to be home and go through the entire experience with me.

Wow that actually brought up all sorts of thoughts and emotions.

I cannot wait for that day -
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Old 11-26-2007, 09:21 PM
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We'll I Put Yes. I have a daughter she will B 5 December 29 I am 24 an he is 26. He is not a Lifer but i will B Comfortable if i can wait till he gets out. He gets out n "2010". He doesn't have n/e kids but i will b greatful 2 give him his 1st thats y i put yes. Raisiein a child by urself is hard work.. He wants 2 marry me on 08 i guess once married we can work on "OUR" Child..
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Old 11-26-2007, 09:26 PM
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I think It would depend on your ages and how long he's In. If I had a husband on the Inside then Yes If thats what we both wanted Id do It and go It alone until he was out. But then Im old haha so there wouldnt be much option.
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Old 11-27-2007, 12:04 AM
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If he has life. I don't think we'd be together anymore.
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Old 11-27-2007, 12:13 AM
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Hmmmm...my Hubby's mom was just asking me about this. He's 29, I'm 24 neither of us has any kids and he has 5 years left. I'll be 29 when he's released. I can wait, but seeing as were in California and they have conjucal visits here, if we were to get pregnant then we'd do the best we could at being parents.
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Old 11-27-2007, 12:22 AM
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Well, he better not take too long, before my eggs get all stale and whatnot.
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