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View Poll Results: if you had the chance to get pregnant would you?
yes 897 38.37%
no 1,039 44.44%
maybe 307 13.13%
can't decide 95 4.06%
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Old 06-26-2007, 01:22 PM
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We have a daughter and I need him here now this little girl drives me crazy
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Old 06-27-2007, 06:17 AM
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I want to so bad cause I dont' have kids and we do want them. He has at least 3 more years to go and yes I would bring the child to see him where ever he is long as the weather isn't bad. He helps me out as much as he can from the other side of the wall. And no I don't send him money. I would have every visit video taped by his/my family member and also tape the birth. so when he would come home he sees everything and yes lots of pictures.
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Old 06-28-2007, 05:23 AM
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Interesting Thread, I would consider it, but my husband said he would want to be there for everything so I imagine he is against it :shurg:
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Old 06-28-2007, 09:12 AM
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Well I got pregnant right before he went away. In many ways I am scared because I will be doing it alone this time (yeap thats right I have three of my own and one of his) but I know in my heart all will be ok! He will be home when the baby is 1.
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Old 07-09-2007, 04:37 AM
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I was 6 weeks pregnant when my husband went to prison in 98. I had 4 kids by a previous marriage. Our son is now 8 and his daddy has 18 months left on his sentence. He hadn't seen him since he was 5. I just got to hard on him.
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Old 07-17-2007, 12:23 AM
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i think when you go thru pregnancy, the whole thing is an experience, not just the birth, and the father helped create that baby, so he should get to experience all of it...like the first kick..and jus seeing ur belly get bigger..
obviously, in some cases, it just cant be that the father gets to be there 100% of the pregnancy, but i do believe that those 9 months are a special time too
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Old 07-17-2007, 12:25 AM
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but i voted maybe, because if something happend where i wouldnt be able to have kids when he got home, then i would do it, because he and i both want kids but i would have to be set financially!
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Old 07-17-2007, 06:25 PM
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Yes, yes absolutely Yes... either way. I would love to have his baby now or later......I've been a single Mom and know I am perfectly capable of doing it so sure I would do it again.
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Old 07-17-2007, 06:33 PM
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I wouldn't get pregnant even if he was there for life. I wouldnt want to go through a pregnancy by myself, that is something that both parents should share together. I would be too stressed out and sad. Not only that, it would be unfair to my kids who would have to understand that their father is in jail for life. So...I say no.
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Old 07-17-2007, 06:47 PM
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I didnt answer you're poll b/c I have already gotten pregnant while he is in prison. I am 4 months pregnant with twins and I have told him and he seems to be ok with it at least in the way he talks in his letters! He knows my past with my first pregnancy and looks at this pregnancy as a gift from God, another chance to try and bring a life into this world! Anyways, I think if you are a person that has tried so long to have a child and the chance finally comes to you for it to happen even though your man is incarcerated, I believe that is a sign from God and you should take it!! Now I'm not preaching or anything like that b/c I am by no means a religious person, but I do believe that he does everything for a reason. So have at it and take the chance if you can!
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I dont know..
If I didn't have any other kids by him.. or he was able to come home I might consider it.

But more than likely.. probably not.. thats just more stress and hetic I would not want to deal with..
but it would be fun making it.. lol
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Old 07-18-2007, 05:28 PM
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No, well not if he was in for a long time but when he gets home its a possibility.
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Old 07-20-2007, 12:31 AM
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no i wouldnt. but we do want to have one when he comes home, and looking forward to doing that!!! i have 2 daughters from a previous marriage and he has a daughter w an ex gf. so we are looking forward to having one of our own!!!!
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Old 07-20-2007, 08:44 PM
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ABSOLUTELY NOT! That would be doing everyone involved a diservice; my child my man and myself of course. Life is hard without my man and to add being pregnant and alone would be emotional SUICIDE. When I was pregnant and my man and I would go to our OB Visits and we would see girls all alone it would make me so sad for her and even he would say; DAMN that messed up that she's alone! I couldn't handle that. Pregnancy is an emotional state for any woman and having your partner with you makes it a lot easier. Things happen that are out of our control but to go into that situation knowing how bad it would be is just not for me!
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Old 07-26-2007, 03:00 PM
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No I wouldn't. I have raised one child by myself with no help emotionally or financially, don't want to go through that a second time alone.
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Old 07-29-2007, 08:02 PM
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I voted YES! I do not care that my husband is incarcerated. We both love and want kids and it does not matter to me if he is on lock or free.
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Old 07-30-2007, 08:15 AM
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I got pregnant before he went to prison so my situation is different. This pregnancy was extremely hard and I won't do this again without him beside me. I was on bedrest and couldn't work so there was no money coming in. I went thru my savings and with 2 other kids to support I felt like I was going crazy.

I finally got a job and moved in with my mother-in-law so that I can save some $$$ and be able to take care of my children on my own. This experience has made me a stronger person.

Being alone and pregnant is not something I will ever do again!
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Old 07-30-2007, 07:44 PM
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Hell No.
No excuses or fairy tale blah blah blah.
Hell No.
Nuf said.
Don't ge me started....that's a whole new chapter.
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Old 08-03-2007, 01:10 AM
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I would, there are lot's of single mom's and dad's in the world and if you want a child, I say go for it and dont let none stop you. If you stay with ur hubby who is spending life, and you want a child you should. I know for myself if I didn't have a child I dont think I would even want to be here in this world, but that is just me. I have 1 child and want so much to have one more and my bio. is ticking! He better come home soon or eles
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Old 08-12-2007, 06:46 AM
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this isn't serious...how on earth is he going to give me his sperm? But yes...if I can fall pregnant from him I will.
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Old 08-20-2007, 06:54 PM
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I guess it really depends on how long he is going to be in. As of right now we don't even know that much...we are still going through the preliminaries. I don't think I could do it by myself not to mention I would really want him here to witness it all.
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Old 08-20-2007, 07:29 PM
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First off, If he was a lifer i wouldnt be on this site; i give it up to all th women that will stick by them , but me i wouldnt have his baby if he had life and i surely as hell wouldnt be with him! i guess cuz im only 23 and im trying to live my life not waste it! i would definitely stick by him and bve his friend and probably would give up the booty if we had the chance but to make a baby nope i wouldnt.. but luckily he only has 8 more months and besides i have two gurls already i dont need to add nothing elkse to my headache lol!
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I guess it would depend on the situation. I don't think I would. Why spend your pregnancy and delivery alone? It would be to depressing in my eyes.
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Old 08-21-2007, 11:19 PM
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i Will Love To Give My Man His First Baby, I Have A Baby Which Is Not His But He Treat My Little Boy Like His.Every time i go over to visit and he sees kids around him he'll say i want one of those. He wants a little girl since we already a boy.
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We've talked about it and at one time he wanted that but only because he wanted to tie me down. Now that he will be coming home he said lets not because he doesn't want a baby stoping us from doing the things we have missed out on
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