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View Poll Results: Did you end an "outside" relationship to be with your "inside" man?
Yes. 205 44.18%
No. 162 34.91%
I still haven't been able to get rid of my "outside" man. 97 20.91%
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Old 10-24-2014, 03:11 PM
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I was in a mentally/emotionally abusive relationship for 3 years with an alcoholic/drug addict/master manipulator. When I met B, he was like a breath of fresh air. We were only innocent friends at first, but he was just so good to me and he opened my eyes (without even knowing he was doing it) to a lot of things and made me realize how awful my relationship was, and basically taught me how I should be treated. Yes, I fell in love with B, but I did Not leave my ex "for" him. Leaving my ex, and getting together with B were two completely separate events, but, I can say that had I not met B, I would still be miserable in that abusive relationship.
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I had been single for a couple years when my guy and I started writing, which was about 3.5 years ago.

Now really struggling, because my first love has come back into my (although he is further away than my guy is.) Will see...
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I didn't end anything for A.
When we first met I've been in a relationship that ended a few years later. But it didn't end because of A. but because I had to move to another city to go back to school and my ex didn't want that long distance thing.
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i have been in an unhappy marriage for years and am currently separated from him, living in another state. I will be with my MWI hopefully this time next year if he makes parole!
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No, I was very much single when we met.
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I was on my way out before I met my MWI, so I'm working on ending it now.
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I only had a FWB kind of relationship with no love involved so it wasn't hard at all to leave that because the sex was bad anyway..
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I only had a FWB kind of relationship with no love involved so it wasn't hard at all to leave that because the sex was bad anyway..
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I was single when we got together I had been dating and I hadnít met anyone who interested me or got my attention like he did. I am a very loyal person if I am in a relationship I am in it. I donít give out signals to others that I am available.
I wasnít looking for love with my penpal now husband it just happened over time fortunately we were both single and it fell into place.
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I've never been the kind of person who goes straight from one relationship to another (not that I'm judging people who do), and I would also never start messing about with someone while still in a relationship with someone else. To each their own and I guess sometimes life puts you in surprising situations...but for me personally I always end a relationship if it's not satisfying/I'm unhappy...and then after being alone for a bit I might consider letting someone new into my life.

Having said that, I'm not a 'relationship person' in general - I have no problem being alone, and had sworn off dating altogether when I met my MWI...I was enjoying single life and had decided to stay alone indefinitely. As silly as it may sound I feel that this is my last relationship, so if we won't work out - hello, single life for the rest of my life I'm 51 so I've seen & experienced enough for a lifetime
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Well, I broke up with the only man I ever dated (we dated for 2.5 years) 8 years ago, so nope
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