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View Poll Results: How many pounds have you put on?
5-10 lbs. 167 11.83%
10-20 lbs. 213 15.08%
20-plus 286 20.25%
I actually lost weight 515 36.47%
I weigh the same as when I met him 231 16.36%
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Old 09-14-2017, 12:06 AM
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Default I'm definitely not 100 pounds anymore

When I met my fiancé was back in 2003 he was doing time and my god sons dad hooked us up well I was 90 pounds back then when I was 19 years old. Well we didn't work out and I didn't see him till 2005 I was still tiny then 2009 I saw him for the last time I was 105 2% body fat thanks to the military lol. But I was not ready to get into a relationship so I disappeared on him. Well now 8 years later I found him on cdcr inmate search and we are older so we decided to try again we are doing good but the last time he saw me I was 105 pounds now I'm 145 so I'm nervous to when I see him in 16 days even though is through glass but still
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Old 09-20-2017, 12:31 PM
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I was young when we first got together, like 19 or 20 and I was tiny and in shape. well fast forward 20 plus years and 4 pregnancies, I am a look "thicker" and curvier than I use to be. Meanwhile he is in the BEST shape of his life! He is all about working out and being healthy and has no body fat, blah, blah, blah! LOL! I keep trying to let him know I am not that tiny girl anymore and I have sent him pictures but we will see what happens when I visit and he sees me in person. I'm still waiting to get approved for visitation...
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Old 09-20-2017, 01:45 PM
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We dont worry about our weights.
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Old 09-22-2017, 06:50 PM
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He told me more cushion for the pushing.. be happy and lose weight for you and your health NOT a man
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No! He's not judgmental like that at all and he already told me if I was to pick up weight. He would still love me the same regardless. Which he also said more cushion for the pushing. That's just the type of man he is and he wouldn't make me feel any less if I gain or lose weight. Just as I don't care if he gains weight or lose weight. I'll never be judgmental towards him. That man is fine either way in my book.
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Old 05-23-2019, 12:26 AM
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if he truly loves you, and you gained a few lbs. it shouldn't matter. you have to be satisfied and LOVE you, I lost weight for health reasons. congrats on no drugs😉
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Old 05-23-2019, 12:21 PM
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No not all. I don't have a problem with my weight but he still says even if I gained weight he doesn't care about my external appearance Congratulations on no drugs!!!
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Old 05-23-2019, 03:30 PM
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My husband is the asshole of all these guys then.

Yes, he makes comments about my weight. He can tell when I’ve put some on or when I’ve lost some. He’ll make a statement.

I’m thin / not overweight to begin with but it matters to him. I’m literally the heaviest girl he’s been with and I’m at a healthy / thin weight! It is not some thing that he’d leave me over or get angry but it is definitely some thing he notices. He is just happy I am healthy now but knows my drugs can cause weight gain, so as he says, be proactive.

I’ll be rather blunt : when I go to big cities in Russia, I am shocked at the amount of thin tall beauties. It seems condensed there. He is used to that / seeing that, so even thin, I feel like a house! Oy I look @ the girls following him on IG and I feel three times their size . . . and then I look for cake, cause who really cares. .

I started recreational rhythmic gymnastics [ you know, like ball, ribbon, batons. . ] to get „ more lean ” than just thin. . . and I swear, it is like thud on the floor for me!
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Old 05-28-2019, 10:32 PM
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My husband tells me he wants me to loose weight for my health. He said we're getting older and he doesn't want me to gain too much, but he said he's going to love me regardless. My weight has fluctuated a lot over the years, but I do think he prefers the smaller version of me lol.
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Old 06-01-2019, 01:04 AM
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as long as YOU are healthy, be happy! thick is in.
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Old 06-01-2019, 08:30 AM
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My fiancé has never said anything about my weight. He has seen me at my heaviest and when I told him I wanted to lose weight for my sons wedding in August he told me that I was beautiful just the way I am. It was my decision to lose the weight and I have done just that but it doesn’t matter what size I am he will still love me.
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Old 06-01-2019, 08:57 AM
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Mine keeps telling me I’m getting too thin!
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Old 06-01-2019, 10:25 AM
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Mine keeps telling me I’m getting too thin!
I can only wish I could be too thin lol. When I was in high school I weighed 110 lbs and was told that I was too thin. I'm tall for a women and I will admit I was too thin back then. I like the weight I'm at now and am hoping to maintain. I've always been self conscious when it comes to my weight probably because every person I had been with in the past would tell me I needed to lose weight. It's a nice change of pace to have someone be happy with me as I am and not asking me to change anything.
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Old 06-01-2019, 11:13 AM
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I can only wish I could be too thin lol. When I was in high school I weighed 110 lbs and was told that I was too thin. I'm tall for a women and I will admit I was too thin back then. I like the weight I'm at now and am hoping to maintain. I've always been self conscious when it comes to my weight probably because every person I had been with in the past would tell me I needed to lose weight. It's a nice change of pace to have someone be happy with me as I am and not asking me to change anything.
I agree with you! I love the way he loves me. We were in a horrific car accident before he went back in so I’ve lost weight as a result of my injuries and recovery. Now that time is passing I’m eating regularly again and I’ve gained back most of what I lost (low key I liked being that skinny! But he likes ASS so ass it is!) :-)
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Old 06-02-2019, 06:16 AM
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I agree with you! I love the way he loves me. We were in a horrific car accident before he went back in so I’ve lost weight as a result of my injuries and recovery. Now that time is passing I’m eating regularly again and I’ve gained back most of what I lost (low key I liked being that skinny! But he likes ASS so ass it is!) :-)
So glad you are on the mend! Whatever our men want they get right! Keeping mine happy is a priority for sure since there is not much happiness for them in there.
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Old 06-02-2019, 10:45 AM
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So glad you are on the mend! Whatever our men want they get right! Keeping mine happy is a priority for sure since there is not much happiness for them in there.
Yes, agree 100%
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I can't believe this is a thread. Lol.

Any guy giving a devoted woman holding him down in prison a hard time about her weight needs to be dumped.
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He likes my size. I don't think he'll get upset if I put on a few more pounds, but I'm aiming not to.
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We only discuss weight in a health context. We are currently both losing weight. I am diabetic so I have to be careful and my husband is working out our weight loss in away we can both so it safely. We have the big reveal in September.
I have lost 18 pounds and I am happy it should be 30 pounds by September I am losing about 2 to 3 pounds a week.

I am still going to be curvy and he likes that.
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