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Old 05-20-2019, 03:02 PM
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Default Need advice - how to tell my mom that I'm with my incarcerated boyfriend

Hi, Iím new to this message board but glad I have found people I can relate to since most people in my life think Iím crazy for giving my boyfriend that I love so much another chance after getting sent to prison. I didnít talk to him the first couple months after getting arrested because I was in shock but I decided that heís the one I want to be with & so Iíve been back with him for over 9 months. Iíve told most people in my life except for my mom because sheís the most judgmental and Iím afraid of her reaction. Well, Iíve decided to tell her tonight because he comes home in about 4 months! Does anyone have any advice or encouragement about this? Iím really scared to tell her but I know itís time. Has anyone had experience with this and it turned out well? Would appreciate any feedback. Thank you so much!
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My mother supports me and she believe everyone deserve a 2nd chance. My mother can be a hard cookie when it comes to getting on her good side. But somehow he was able to get on her good side without any problems. He can joke with her, laugh with her and talk to her about anything. At the end she wouldn't judge him. She cares about him and want to see him do good.

I hope your mother will be supportive of your relationship. Just continue to be strong and go with what makes you happy inside/out. Not everyone you love and care about going to be supportive. This your life and this what you want. I wish you good luck on telling your mother. I hope this goes well for you.
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They have every right to their feelings. If it was your child, you would probably feel the same way. Time is the only thing that can heal this situation. Do t push for others to accept your choices. Live your life and show them that you're happy. Hopefully with time they will.come around.

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