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Old 05-08-2019, 02:59 AM
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Talking Finally!! He got Minimum I

Just checked his profile and there it is: MINIMUM I..
Oh my gosh... I'm shaking, I want to cry.... I have no clue what'll happen now but I assume he'll be moved to a different facility... I'm so flipping excited and happy and that can only mean good things...

Finally.... he deserves it (and so do I )
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Ahh so happy for you guys I know you have been waiting for a long time and you have had a rough year. Hope it’s the road home for him and a lot more freedoms. So happy for you.
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Ahh so happy for you guys I know you have been waiting for a long time and you have had a rough year. Hope it’s the road home for him and a lot more freedoms. So happy for you.

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I texted his Mom right away and he actually called her this morning so he knows now.

They are all so elated and me of course, too.

25 years in prison and I hope this brings him a lot of peace and hope and happiness. It's a huge step after being sentenced to 2 life-terms...
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Its wonderful news for you all. Hope this is the start of a great future.
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Best news ever!! So freakin' happy for you both - I truly hope things will start easing up and you & him will be able to return to your happy place...even if it is baby steps at first
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Hooray!!! I know you guys have been waiting a long time.
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Thank you ladies, you have no clue how much I appreciate your lines & your support. You are all beyond awesome!! Thank you so much!
I haven't talked to him - hopefully tomorrow.
His Mom has established some good connections with some good people over the past 25+ years and hopefully he'll get the facility he wants to have.
Thank you again, I could cry the whole time, I wish I could be with him... weird stuff
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I haven't talked to him - hopefully tomorrow.
His Mom has established some good connections with some good people over the past 25+ years and hopefully he'll get the facility he wants to have.
Thank you again, I could cry the whole time, I wish I could be with him... weird stuff
It is a highlight and forward movement. Things have been crappy for you guys lately, so it is a rainbow of sorts. I pray he opens up again once he feels safe.

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It might not happen when you want it! But eventually with patient it'll surely happen and things can only continue to get better by the day, weeks, months and years!

Congrats! He deserve it, his family and you as well. Happy for y'all and I'm praying good news continue to be blessed/sent y'all way.
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Hopefully he has a bit more *freedom* in min. security. And more opportunity.
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Just checked his profile and there it is: MINIMUM I..
Oh my gosh... I'm shaking, I want to cry.... I have no clue what'll happen now but I assume he'll be moved to a different facility... I'm so flipping excited and happy and that can only mean good things...

Finally.... he deserves it (and so do I )

EEE. happy for ya chica!

HOLA!(Hi, Mizzy) I just seen this. Awww.

I know your beloved amor, JEFF is as happy,as a kid on a winter's christmas eve night and christmas day!
BOTH of you deserve it.
Happy for ya!
Hugs and blessings to you both, chica.adios.
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You are too sweet - as always
Talked to him for the first time today and his voice sounds so much better, more relaxed and he's happy, still somewhat in shock but happy.
He told me he needs some time to "emotional heal" and I told him to take his time. I think the last 6-8 months were pure hell for him. Everyone was trying to set him up daily plus there were threatening his life. He deserves to be happy and relaxed and I so want that for him.
Really a huge bright light at the end of that fucking (excuse me) tunnel.
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You are too sweet - as always
Talked to him for the first time today and his voice sounds so much better, more relaxed and he's happy, still somewhat in shock but happy.
He told me he needs some time to "emotional heal" and I told him to take his time.

I think the last 6-8 months were pure hell for him. Everyone was trying to set him up daily plus there were threatening his life.

He deserves to be happy and relaxed and I so want that for him.
Really a huge bright light at the end of that fucking (excuse me) tunnel.
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Oh, chica, gracia(thanks) and good morning, mizzy...
I love to read how ur jeff is sentient(aware)of the fact "emotional healing." Yes, that is a good thing, as some men do not "get it."and would not admit that is needed ya know.

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Yes! a huge bright light at the end of the um "f---kin' tunnell ha ha, yes!" lol-
Yes, you KNOW i had to respond, love our pto, but was so busy off here working, building, creating, motivatin' good women, of such maturity and goodness like us, and in law school etc.,recording,writing songs, to other biz stuff ya know, but i am here and just read your update.But, yes, i (sincerely) am so happy for jeff, and you, as i know this is one step closer chica, to (i pray)his release and in your arms. 1 beautiful hug is now closer for you, and your BELOVED Jeff. Please continue to keep me, all of us posted! This truly is great news Miz.
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So pleased for you. I hope it’s the beginning of the end for you both now xxxx
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That's so good he's able to relax better and be more happy! He deserved it and even though it took time for him to get this far! It was all worth it at the end. Sometimes we got to go through a lot of bad, before we can start seeing/receiving the good! I'm so glad he has gotten his GOOD! Praying that it continues. Congrats, once again to him, his family and also to you my dear.
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Oh damn... I'm so happy right now... sorry to put it all on here but the situation has changed for the better and he sounds so good and that makes me feel good :-)
Yesterday he told me that there's no mesh in front of the windows and much less COs and much less noise and crap and I get the impression he's getting much more relaxed by the day... I'm so grateful. I was almost ready to give up...
I'll keep praying and I'll stay optimistic and the most important thing... I need to save for my next visit
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Just a tiny update: yesterday we talked on the phone and like a little kid he told me (he started to work outside) "today I touched a pine tree"...

This is so weird and great at the same time that he - after 25 years behind bars literally - is out there on the fields and in the woods with no fences and only minimal supervision... he said it's like being at home.... I was actually a bit speechless...
We take this all for granted - touching a tree... wow...
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Just a tiny update: yesterday we talked on the phone and like a little kid he told me (he started to work outside) "today I touched a pine tree"...

This is so weird and great at the same time that he - after 25 years behind bars literally - is out there on the fields and in the woods with no fences and only minimal supervision... he said it's like being at home.... I was actually a bit speechless...
We take this all for granted - touching a tree... wow...
How heartbreaking and hopeful all at the same time. I am so glad for you both!
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