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View Poll Results: how long have you been waiting for you man to get home?
1month-1yr 729 34.50%
1-3yrs 652 30.86%
3-6yrs 326 15.43%
6 or more years 406 19.21%
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Old 11-13-2004, 12:53 AM
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I'm curious to hear some of your input as to how you've been by your man's side? And how long is too long for you?

This is my second time going through this. What he's been in for is stuff he's done before I met him (college days). He was honest about everything, and a year after we met, they locked him up. Got out once and then sent him back for another charge he had before I met him..ugh..I love him unconditionaly, and will wait for as long as it takes until he gets home. So far we've been in this situation for a total of 4 years and have 2 1/2 to go.
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Old 11-13-2004, 01:01 AM
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I have been with Marc for over 2 years....he has been in the "system" for 5 months and we have 39 more to go....i think...my counter show up at the bottom so that is how much time "we" have to serve. I love my baby more than life....we have been through so much in our life together and I am lucky enough to say that I have met and will soon marry my soulmate....we are one heart......I do all that I can for him, just as he does everything he can for me. I am gonna take care of him through all of this and will continue to take care of him til the day we grow old and gray and die together.....honestly I have known since the first week we met that this is the man I will spend the rest of my life with and there are no bars and no time that will ever take away the love I have for him!!!!!!!!! Sorry that was a little long...I got carried away....just a warning....if I sat and talked about how much Marc and I love each other I would still be talking in 10 years!!! But the answer to your question....every second we are apart is too long....but not too long for me to wait on the love of my life!
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Old 11-13-2004, 01:32 AM
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I've been with him a lot less time than he's been in...he's been on death row for 21 years...I plan to be with him as long as the state will afford us. HUGE prayers that we will have forever...
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Old 11-13-2004, 01:36 AM
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I'll wait as long as it takes........he's worth it and more
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Old 11-13-2004, 03:43 AM
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Herb and I were married before he went in. He has been in a total of 5 months and if he doesn't get parole then we have 16 months left to go, then we get to pray about florida. I will wait till the end of time for my husband because that man is my life
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Old 11-13-2004, 03:53 AM
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Glad to see others are having a sleepless night! I don't feel alone, now!

LOVE-AJ and Marcsbaby, you both seem very committed to your men, and Marcsbaby...whoa, girl you are tough! He is so lucky to have you for the long haul!

BlueSparkles, you are another tough cookie, and I admire your determination and love.

How long will I wait? I love Waa like nothing else, and I hope to be by his side for as long as WE can stand one another! It gets overwhelming, if I may be honest, when I think he could be away from his family for many, many years! He has been in 5 years, has 8 years in another state and has to face 3 more detainers! Who knows, I did not know him when he committed his crimes, but when your in love with someone, what's a girl to do??
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Old 11-13-2004, 06:40 AM
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I've been waiting since June of this year. If he is granted parole when he's first eligible, I'll have been waiting at that time for 7 1/2 years. His sentence is for 15 years and I'll wait every step of the way for him if that's what it takes. He's so worth it!

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Old 11-13-2004, 07:03 AM
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I have been with Phil for almost 4 yrs. I met hom while he was in. He is eligible for parole in 2008 and I will wait as long as I have to. I am with him forever.
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Old 11-13-2004, 07:23 AM
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I will wait for my man forever. I can't imagine him, not being in my life. I've known him for 30 yrs. We've been a couple since April 2002 Engaged since May 2004 He got in trouble in Dec 2003. He has been in the county jail for 6 months, just got transferred to reception. His sentence is 2.5yrs to 30yrs
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Old 11-13-2004, 07:53 AM
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G is my soulmate. I will wait for how ever long it takes. This time could end as early as 2007 but could be as far off as 2012. I'm his forever! I think it's so worth it! He's worth it!
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Old 11-13-2004, 08:43 AM
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I also am committed to my man and to wait as long as I have to wait. I met him while he was incarcerated, some of you might know but just a little update, I was working at the facility he was in and we fell in love. He has served 2 years with a max of 22 months to go, but hopefully with time cuts he will be out the end of 2005 or beginning of 2006.

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Old 11-13-2004, 09:02 AM
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i been waiting for long time
We been together on and off since he went in
and thats been 13 years
I will wait for however long it takes
Only one in the world i ever want near me again
we been together this time for about a year steady this time
been married goin on 4 months
so i will wait however it takes
lost him once
and was lucky that i got another shot
and will not blow it this time
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Old 11-13-2004, 09:03 AM
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I've been with my guy for a little over 3 years now and we have 11 more to go before he's home. Our love is strong enough to make it through this. So I'll be at his side for as long as it takes.
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Old 11-13-2004, 09:06 AM
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I have only been waiting 2 years and 11 months so far but according to the website I have 9 more to wait. That I truly don't believe it will be that long because that's his max time. But if it comes down to it, I'll wait FOREVER!!! He has shown me more love in those 2 years and 11 months than I've had in a lifetime.


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Old 11-13-2004, 10:37 AM
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i have been with my husband for almost 7 years and i will wait till whenever they decide to release him...till death do us part right? i take my vows very seriously....i love him with all my heart, body and soul and i would never leave him during this time in his life.
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I'd wait until the Lord comes down to take all his people home....then I know we will be together, just thank god! I wont have to wait that long

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I have been with Josh for almost a year (November 22nd, will be one year). He is serving a Life w/o Parole sentence, and that is very hard at times. He is going through appeals right now so all I can hope for is a sentence reduction. I will wait as long as I have too, our love supercedes time.
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Old 11-13-2004, 11:29 AM
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I have been waiting a little over a yr and have a little under a yr to wait. I love J and we have been thru hell with each other since about 1998. I pray each night for the Lord to bring him home to me and I also pray for strength--I will be waiting til the Lord decides its time for us to be together again.

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I'll wait for as long as it takes. I know he is worth the time and wait.I have between eight and ten.
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Old 11-13-2004, 01:07 PM
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I've been in Jason's life for 5 1/2 years and he's been in the system for about 5 years. This last time that he's been incarcerated so far has been 2 years and he has 2 1/2 left. I hate it and don't ever want to go thru this again but for him I would wait forever....

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I've been waiting since March of this year and waiting till March of 2006(if he gets out) if not then I will be waiting till March of 2009...so either way I am waiting for him...
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Old 11-13-2004, 03:15 PM
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my man is on death row, and we plan to get married soon, so we'll be together till death do us part..... literally.
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I'll wait on my baby for as long as it takes. He went in from Aug. 2003 until December 2003. Was out on bond and had to serve a two year sentence with time served on June 1, 2004. So I have been waiting for about 10 months and we have 14 more to go.
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I was with him the day they got him. Its been 7 years and 2 months and I haven't left his side. We still have 2 1/2 years to go. I will always be there for him no matter how long it takes. He is the love of my life.
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my man is on death row, and we plan to get married soon, so we'll be together till death do us part..... literally.
RegisSweetness I think I might have said this already but I really admire you. I look at the devotion that you have to your man and it makes me realize that no matter how much time you have to be away from the one you love, it doesn't take that love away. I think you are one of the strongest women I have ever "met" You know what I mean....I pray that a miracle will happen and your man will be home one day!
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