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View Poll Results: Is he incarcerated in a different state?
Yes, and it's hard on both of us. 896 80.72%
No, thank goodness! 214 19.28%
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Old 06-25-2011, 12:00 AM
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My husband was tranaferred to a private Alaska jail that's located in Colorado a few months ago. I haven't seen him since the end of January. He's probably gonna be down there for a few years.  I'm hoping to go see him on our anniversary in July but am waiting to get approved for visiting. If i get approved I'll be seeing him 9 days!! Idk what I'm going to do if they deny me visits. I'm going to be devastated. Not sure how often I'm gonna be able to go see him because it's going to cost me roughly $2500 each time. Not to mention the unpaid time off I have to take from my part time job. At least at my full time job I get paid time off.

Hey Im Tia amd I live in Anch....my honey is in Ohio so I know what your going through somewhat.....if you wana chat let me know.....my email is (Email removed per PTO policy, please PM member).
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Old 06-25-2011, 08:56 AM
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Old 06-25-2011, 09:14 AM
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Hello, I'm new to "Prison Talk" and I know this forum is a couple months old, but I wanted to respond. I feel each and every last one of you. My husband was originally locked up in Michigan Milan to be exact before being shipped to Allenwood correctional facility in PA. Before leaving Michigan the kids and I would visit him every week. Then finally he was shipped out of state more than a year ago. Last year I visit him twice. Once in June and October. I always plan a stay for a weekend so that we can visit for 3days. I try to make the stay affordable due to money issues I never look for luxuary*spellcheck* places to stay yet nice and affordable. I always make sure that I'm able to find things around town to do with the girls so I can make the trip fun. Believe me its been one helluva journey. I'm not gonna lie I'll be glad when its over :-) I do believe absence make my heart grow fonder of him daily With that being said, my husband was approved for federal camp which I'm very happy about because this means he's closer to hohis family. I wanna say Thanks ladies for your stories it has been an encouragement.
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Old 06-26-2011, 01:20 PM
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I am in CA and my husband has been transfered out of state twice, this has been extremely hard on our family especially since we used to visit every weekend. I still go where he is and visit not as much as i would like but i make sure to go. The kids cant go because it is way to costly plus i've noticed that both places did not have a family/kids section and i very much doubt the youngest can handle sitting on a chair for that period of time not being able to play or hug daddy all day like before. The kids have to suffer the most and that is not right they should keep the inmates in the same state they were sentenced in unless they request a transfer and i can tell you my husband didnt request the first and surly not the second which took him to the east coast. We put letters and everything but that didnt matter, and they lied the second time and said he was being transfer to a different facility but the same state hundreds of miles later east coast-
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Old 06-28-2011, 02:47 PM
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Im in Maryland and he's in West Virginia. 3hours way. Last time he was 5hours+ away.
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Old 06-28-2011, 07:01 PM
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Im in NY and he's in Maryland. Its so hard cause i dont drive and i dont want my friend to feel obligated to always make that drive cause i always want to see him but soon as I get my license which im hoping to do very soon im goinsg to try and visit him as much as i could but right now i cant and i sucks and hurt me to my heart but he always tells me to take care of home and myself first I just miss him like crazy
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Old 10-06-2011, 03:04 PM
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My fiance has only been down for a couple months but its hard , especially with two kids and a full time job. He is in Georgia doing a four year bid for a non- violent drug crime. This is his first offense ever in 35 years so i am praying that georgia parole will grant him clemency.
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Old 10-06-2011, 05:02 PM
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My fiance has only been down for a couple months but its hard , especially with two kids and a full time job. He is in Georgia doing a four year bid for a non- violent drug crime. This is his first offense ever in 35 years so i am praying that georgia parole will grant him clemency.
Good luck with that. My fiancée is in georgia doing a two year bid for a first offense. We thought for sure he'd get paroled out, but he is maxing out (10-27-11!!). I'm in SC though, so I feel your pain!

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Old 10-06-2011, 05:22 PM
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I'm going to go visit my husband at tutwiler, Mississipi. I need any info anybody can provide. For example any hotels or has anybody been there before? thank you
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Old 10-07-2011, 10:12 AM
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My baby is in LA and I am in CA. I have never been to see him. I am planning a trip up there in december, and that will probably be the last time I see him till he gets moved back to california. I am in the middle of a divorce (long story) and money is really tight. Man this just made me really sad.
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Old 10-07-2011, 10:39 AM
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My fiance is in Texas and I'm in Minnesota. It sux and I really miss him.
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Old 10-07-2011, 10:46 AM
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My boyfriend is only an hour away thank God and am lucky enough to see him on a regular basis but I think saying goodbye each time never gets easy! I can't imagine being in another state! I have cried even before he was moved further away! Originally he was 20 min away! I don't cry in front of him though! It upset him so much that he said he can't bear to see me cry and rather me not come if it was going to upset me! So I stay strong with a smile my time with him and then cry later!
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Old 10-07-2011, 11:16 AM
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My husband in kansas now was in hawaii but just got transferred and now I'm in ohio and he been away from us for three months now and have 6 years to go I'm hoping he will get parolled
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Old 10-07-2011, 01:41 PM
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My love is in Oregon & I am in Southern California...sucks!! I wish I could just jump in my car & visit him on a regular basis, I love & miss him so much...hopefully we'll celebrate our 1st Thanksgiving together<3
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Old 10-07-2011, 05:20 PM
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no we are in the same state we are just in different towns like 20 to 25 mintues away
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Old 10-07-2011, 05:49 PM
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Yes. I'm in Wisconsin and he is in Illinois. 3 1/2 hours each way
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Old 10-07-2011, 06:04 PM
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My Baby is in Indiana n i'm in England...we spend a lot of time writing letters to each other...he phones when he can n uses jpay too...I always stand by the quote "actions speak louder than words" and yesterday i just finished payin for my first trip to go see him next year...i want him to know how much he does mean to me and i can't wait to physically be in his arms..look into his eyes and tell him I Love Him
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My baby is in northern Cali & I live in southern Nevada. About a 12 hour drive (one way). BUT I'm visiting him this weekend!! YAY!

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Old 10-07-2011, 09:54 PM
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My soon to be husband is in California right now, and I am in Florida... How I got to the other side of the country is beyond my understanding. I will be going home soon enough to marry him only took us 9 years and a million fights later to realize this is where we belong I love him with all my heart and if he didn't call everyday I would have lost my cool a long time ago...
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Old 10-07-2011, 10:39 PM
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Im in NJ hes in PA.Its not easy to visit him but its better then before when I was in Poland
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I"m in Georgia and he is in NY.
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He is in PA, I am in NJ (he is 4 hours away)
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He's a CA inmate that is physically in MS. I live in OK. He's about 6 hrs away.

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I am in NC and he is in IL. It is a 14 to 16 hour drive (depending on who you ask, lol!) I am flying up there for my first visit in June. I will be taking all 5 of his visits for that month and hoping for extended visits for some if not all of the days! I am excited but I know it is going to be really hard to leave on the last day.
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He is in NY.... I am in TX!
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