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View Poll Results: Is he incarcerated in a different state?
Yes, and it's hard on both of us. 896 80.72%
No, thank goodness! 214 19.28%
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Old 05-31-2011, 07:32 PM
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my baby is in oklahoma and im in california....we both are from cali and they moved him way out there which makes it so dam hard to have that money to make the trips...im hopeing by august i will be able to go visit my love!!
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Old 05-31-2011, 09:13 PM
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love of my life is 300 mi away i try to go twice a month for now but i dont know how long i can afford that he is still in county waiting for transfer i can not wait for the first contact visit.
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Old 05-31-2011, 11:27 PM
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my man is in california and i am in idaho.
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Old 06-01-2011, 12:46 AM
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My babe is in Mi and I'm in Tx. Abt 1000 miles and a 300$ plane ticket.
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Old 06-01-2011, 02:25 AM
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I live in Seattle he is in Eastern Oregon ... 4 hours there and 4 hours back! so we're neighbors (hee hee)
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Old 06-01-2011, 11:47 AM
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I'm in Nevada and he's in Arizona. I wish he could get transferred up here but it seems all odds are against us!
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Old 06-01-2011, 02:31 PM
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Over the past 13 yrs, my fiance has remained in the same st8. He has been transferred to @ least 4 different prisons. The farthest he's been away from me was probably 8 hrs away. I could b wrong, @ some point he could've been in a different st8 I don't remember. All I kno is that wen we got back in touch after being apart over 14 yrs, he ends up currently being 3 hrs away from me which isn't bad compared to other prisons he's been @. 3 hours is still pretty far away, so chocking up the $$$ to pay bills, and stuff I need from paycheck which I don't make a whole lot @ all is hard. I have to set money aside wen the time is right to go c my man. Once in awhile ill get a hotel room just to b able to c him both days of the weekend. It's always hard having to leave him, but I kno there's always a next time to c him again. I haven't seen him in over a month & dis has been the longest time I haven't seen him since the last visit. Our tolerance 4 being apart is building up so it's not like we never been apart from each other b4. i've had my days & nights of depression, but all I do to pass time is to stay occupied w/ the things i like to do until that time comes wen I can have a chance to afford to go c him again.
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Old 06-03-2011, 11:53 AM
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My husband was tranaferred to a private Alaska jail that's located in Colorado a few months ago. I haven't seen him since the end of January. He's probably gonna be down there for a few years.  I'm hoping to go see him on our anniversary in July but am waiting to get approved for visiting. If i get approved I'll be seeing him 9 days!! Idk what I'm going to do if they deny me visits. I'm going to be devastated. Not sure how often I'm gonna be able to go see him because it's going to cost me roughly $2500 each time. Not to mention the unpaid time off I have to take from my part time job. At least at my full time job I get paid time off.
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I'm in chicago and my guy is in a Federal prison inTexas in a very small town haven't been able to to visit in over 3 yrs. Before he was transferred he was in Kentucky flight and hotel were cheap when I planned ahead. Also made friends with other inmates wives and would drive down together and split the expenses.

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Old 06-03-2011, 04:46 PM
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I work in CA, he's in PA. Luckily will be moving back to PA in a couple of months.
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Old 06-03-2011, 05:15 PM
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Yes my baby is Ohio & Im in Alaska......probably the most furthest anyone is away cept for someone overseas. I can only visit 2x a year but eventually I will move to Ohio, we have about 8 years left.
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Old 06-03-2011, 05:35 PM
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We're on the same state but its still 3 1/2 hrs away. Wish I owned a private jet
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Old 06-04-2011, 06:17 AM
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I am in West Virginia and my Honey is in St. Thomas. Everything is so expensive there and it takes days just for him to receive a letter. The worst part is none of the time he does there will count toward time he will have to do once he gets home.
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Old 06-04-2011, 10:43 AM
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no, and actually hes not far away at all. but, when he is released next year he has to go back to the state hes from to do his half way house and parole. thats going to be hard, hes out, but so far away!
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Same state...but still an 8+ hour drive
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Old 06-04-2011, 01:10 PM
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Quote:
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I work in CA, he's in PA. Luckily will be moving back to PA in a couple of months.
I'm the same except I live in Ca but he's in SCI camp hill PA plan on flying there in Sept to visit 
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Old 06-13-2011, 10:07 PM
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I live in Utah and hubby is in Texas. I go down twice a year. Once to see him the next spend time with my in laws.
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Old 06-13-2011, 10:43 PM
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My fiance lives in idaho and I live in colorado but I'm having the hardest time finding a family counselor to approve my 5 month old to visit his father
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Old 06-14-2011, 08:09 PM
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My baby is in North Carolina and I'm in Mass.
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Old 06-15-2011, 05:40 AM
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He's in California and I'm in Mass...but he'll be home July 8th!! This has been hell I'll tell ya!!
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Old 06-24-2011, 10:38 PM
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I live in Montana and he's in North Dakota. It's about 700 miles each way to visit. The guards at JRCC where my hubby is are actually pretty cool. They allow me to visit on days that wouldn't be regular visiting days for my hubby and approve extended hours for the week so I can visit every day and make the most out of my trip. Hopefully he will be paroled in November and I wont have to make the trip again!
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Old 06-24-2011, 10:41 PM
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He's not in another state but a few hours away, & its still hard. When I get his phone calls, I think that he's just down the street. Hang in there ladies if your man is in another state.
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Old 06-24-2011, 10:55 PM
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My hunney is in SC and I'm in Florida. I try to visit once a month. Its a six hour drive, but he's worth it.
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Old 06-24-2011, 11:33 PM
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Mine is in Kentucky and I am in upstate NY. Its about 8 to 10 hr drive. I havent been there yet. And wont because my visitation was denied. If I could I would every month or couple months.
I would cross this entire planet to see him if I could.
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