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View Poll Results: Is he incarcerated in a different state?
Yes, and it's hard on both of us. 896 80.72%
No, thank goodness! 214 19.28%
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Old 03-13-2011, 03:11 PM
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We are in different states but it's close enough that it's like he's in the next city.
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Old 03-13-2011, 04:28 PM
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My husband is in Texas and I am in Wisconsin I understand... I'm in the same boat. I lived in Texas my whole life and just moved here last year. I am going to visit in June!! Texas only gives you 4 hours for 2 days and then if your there longer you just get regular visit for remainder of the trip. In 2 years I'm moving back so he can parole to our home! What prison is your man in?
Right now he is in Gurney transfer unit at TDC. I will be moving to Texas as well hopefully in time for him to get out on parole.
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Old 03-13-2011, 04:30 PM
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I am in Canada and he is in Texas, thats about 48 hours drive. When will the teleportation machine is going to be invented? Please God make it happen !!!
I hear ya French Tigeress. I am in Ottawa. Where are you located? What makes it even harder is that we don't get phone calls either being in Canada with it being considered an international call and all. Sucks to be here and them there and not even be able to talk on the phone.
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Old 03-13-2011, 04:55 PM
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we are several states away, which sucks. I try to visit once a month.
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Old 03-14-2011, 12:09 AM
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My hubby is in Florida and I am in California. We had been living in Florida for a little over a year when we decided we would move back to where I'm from in Cali. After the holidays he went back to Florida to tie up some loose ends and got locked up . This same thing happened a few years back and it is sooooooooo frustrating. Neither here nor there I love him like crazy and as soon as he is out of county I hope will be able to visit. Unfortunately, I am with the other women on here in the expenses, time, and sadness. Hopefully he will be home soon!
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Old 03-14-2011, 12:41 AM
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My baby is in Georgia and I am in California I try to visit every other month! I got an extra part time job so I can pay for the trip expenses but its so worth it! If u have tickets throught hotwire.com its not that expensive my ticket is 319 including taxes and its round trip so my part time job pays for it!
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Old 03-14-2011, 12:53 AM
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Yes im in Cali hes in AZ, although its just another state away, he doesnt have two visiting days in a row. I would have to bring our son with us n paying all tht money to go out there just for 2 hrs wouldnt work especially with me living check to check. N it wouldnt be contact visit. He's hoping to transfer to cali after he gets sentenced. I hope so too at least it be contact visits n would be way cheaper for us to c him. He doesnt want us coming to see him in there anyways til he transfers out. Im just hoping tht day would come SOOONNN!!!!
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Old 03-15-2011, 12:48 AM
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I feel very fortunate to have my husband so close to me. When I look at the stories of the women who have to go through so much to see their loved ones, I feel a little spoiled. My husband is approximately 30 minutes from me. I can make the drive in 20 minutes if I go a little over the speed limit or if traffic isn't backed up. So I get the chance to see him every weekend and on all holidays. I admire all of you for standing by your men and loving them enough to make sacrifices and real journeys for them.
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My man is in Maryland and I'm in Scotland, nearly 6000miles between us.
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Old 03-24-2011, 12:47 PM
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I go between south dakota and wisconsin and Chris is in Florida. He lived in wisconsin before hand and i plan on moving to florida in a couple years.
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Old 03-31-2011, 06:55 AM
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Me and his family live in Cali, he is in Texas. I haven't been able to go see him yet but planning a trip very soon
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Old 03-31-2011, 12:21 PM
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We're both in Ohio. At the moment he's down the street, but it's where I used to work so can't see him His parent insitution is now about 100 miles away, and we're both hoping I get visits. I can't wait!
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Old 03-31-2011, 12:21 PM
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He is in WV and I'm in NC, between 6 and 7 hours drive, but I love the open road I've found some places to stay that are between $70 and FREE so that's made it a lot easier to visit. However, if gas keeps going up, we're definitely not going to be able to have as many visits
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I feel so lucky reading all these posts, my husband is only 20 minutes from our home. We got lucky, he could have been sent far away, I get to see him every Sunday.
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Old 03-31-2011, 12:51 PM
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I am in IL and he is in IN. It's about a 6hr dive for me to go see him. I usually try to go every 3 or 4 months but like the other lady said with gas prices that may have to change.
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He is in aother state for now. Were working on changing that...
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No tha boo is in tha same state and i am so glad cuz i dont think i could take it if he wasnt
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Old 04-01-2011, 07:15 PM
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Hello all well my man is in Georgia and I am in Virginia and I go as often as I can which is about 1 weekend a month and I pay about 500 dollars per weekend but its a good thing that I lived there and have my daughter grandparents there and then his family is there and the only reason I came back to Va was so that my parents could spend time with my baby girl and because he was locked up. I miss him so much when I am not with him the drive takes me about 6 and a half hours and the prison is about and hour away from where his mother them live. I would do anything for that man because I love him so much.
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I am in Georgia and my man is in Nebraska. He got caught up making bad choices while out there working. I plan on flying out to visit him in June, which I can't wait to see him. He's parole eligible in Sept., so I'm praying they let him come home.
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My husband is in Springfield, South Dakota and i live in Michigan. I am visiting for the first time this weekend. It was very nice to see him yesterday. I am interested in finding anyone who is interested in carpooling so that i may visit again soon.
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Mine is 8 hrs away in another state, waiting for him to get sentenced as he picked up new charges down there, then extradited up here & sentenced up here
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Old 04-02-2011, 10:09 PM
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We are both in VA, but he is a 8hr drive, so I don't make the trip too often. When I do make the trip it ends up being a full 24hr day of driving, visit, driving home.
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I'm in New Mexico, he is in Georgia. He is originally from Texas and we are praying he will be transferred back to this area in December. But I hear FCI sometimes send them further away. Praying this doesn't happen.
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My husband is in ny and im in pa. Its about 3-3 1/2 and a 6 hr visit so i drive up ther once a week but depends on money and work. Reading everyone else's drive i thank god that he isnt further dont know what i would do if that were to happen.
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im 6 hours away from my babe but i take that ride every two weeks we have 5months left of this ride
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