Welcome to the Prison Talk Online Community! Take a Minute and Sign Up Today!






Go Back   Prison Talk > FOR FAMILY & FRIENDS > Husbands & Boyfriends in Prison
Register Entertainment FAQ Calendar Mark Forums Read

Husbands & Boyfriends in Prison For everyone who has a husband, boyfriend or male partner incarcerated.

View Poll Results: How do you cope (outside PTO and your relationship with your prisoner)
I've statred college 158 24.16%
I work two jobs now 124 18.96%
I go to church and/or pray a lot more 174 26.61%
I spend more time with the kids 248 37.92%
I go out with friends 177 27.06%
I kick it with guy friends (sex not necessarily included) 30 4.59%
I lay in bed and cry most of the time 143 21.87%
I use drugs and alcohol to numb the pain 57 8.72%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 654. You may not vote on this poll

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #26  
Old 05-18-2005, 12:00 PM
kayos-grl kayos-grl is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: May 2005
Location: Northern VA
Posts: 476
Thanks: 0
Thanked 4 Times in 2 Posts
Default

I do what ever I can do to stay busy. I ask my self can I do this for 25 more years, but my man is wonderful. I do the things I am doing now for our future. I know when he comes home after 30 years things are going to be rough, but i have faith that everything will be fine.
__________________
Kayos-grl

MEMBER #2 of the INDEPENDENT WOMEN CLUB!

Member# 11 of the Fabulous And Thick Club
Reply With Quote
Sponsored Links
  #27  
Old 05-18-2005, 01:05 PM
CougarsGrl4Ever CougarsGrl4Ever is offline
Matthews Wife
 

Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Me:Louisiana / Him:Arkansas
Posts: 207
Thanks: 0
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
Default

I have read many posts on this myself,,,and in all honesty,,,there really isn't anything in particular I do. I live my life day to day, WAITING!!! I have a deadend job, kids that drive me nuts at times, family that, well do the same ,lol,,,,,but in the midst of it all I do alot of praying and BEGGING with God to somehow someway bring my husband home. My life is in such shambles right now, trying to get moved with NO money to do it with, waiting on my husband to get a $$$ job (in work release)so he can help me, trying to deal with the everyday depression of having to be away from him, I have one friend (finally after having NO ONE) that I can spend some time with, which is so nice, but it's also hard . I feel so guilty when I go out and have "fun" because my husband is in jail,,,,so then I have to deal with the guilt of that,,,,it's a never ending chaotic life that I have NO control over.....SO I deal with everything as it occures and deal with the after effects as they come,,,,,COPE???? I guess thats what you can call it,,,,,,Sorry just a bad day to answer this question I guess.......
__________________



Reply With Quote
  #28  
Old 05-18-2005, 01:50 PM
marisol1477 marisol1477 is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: new york
Posts: 27
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default

It's extremely hard but I've learned to take it day by day. There are days that I feel like dying and then there are days when everythings ok. I don't do much hanging out cause the so-called friends I have can't understand why i'm waiting and they're always trying to convince me to meet someone...which won't happen cause I've made a commitment to my husband and i love him dearly. The girls that i've met going up to see him help alot too since we can relate...we're eachothers support system right now. I work fulltime so that keeps my days busy but my nights are spent thinking about him and our future. I do know that I won't feel complete till he's home by my side. I just keep praying and leave it in Gods hands...like my baby says; This is only gonna make us stronger.

Last edited by marisol1477; 05-18-2005 at 01:52 PM..
Reply With Quote
  #29  
Old 05-18-2005, 03:36 PM
countrysonglove's Avatar
countrysonglove countrysonglove is offline
brandon's baby girl
 

Join Date: May 2005
Location: California usa
Posts: 72
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by jeffsprincess
I think we have no choice but to learn to cope. I have children and I have to keep it together for them.

I have realized that I can sit and bed and be depressed all I want, but that is not going to bring him home any sooner, and it only ends up making me miserable, so I deal
i agree.. i have to keep it together for my kids. i miss my man terribly but our boys miss thier daddy too.. we all need to help eachother
__________________
Teresa
<script language="JavaScript" src="http://webapps.nerdsonsite.com/utility/countdown.cgi?year=2005&month=12&day=8&offset=offset"></script> more days








Id wait forever if it took that long

understanding...
faith...
love...

I LOVE MY SUPERMAN!
Reply With Quote
  #30  
Old 05-18-2005, 05:07 PM
shiva65's Avatar
shiva65 shiva65 is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: new england
Posts: 2,873
Thanks: 4
Thanked 11 Times in 11 Posts
Default

OKAY.. what don't i do!! ))
Susan.. your post made me sad... and almost cry too.. Ditto..i feel the same way.
I keep myself busy by working,,, taking care of myself,,, visitng w/ friend s hanging out..
Doing activities that bring me spritual happiness... and of course throughout my days.. i do think of him.. Actually every hour there is a fleeting thought.. but i feel i am very involved in his life also, by visiting and talking on the phone and writing...

In the beginning i was lost.. and all i could do was just obssess.. about him and what was not going on in our lives.. then came somewhat of a balance.. there is other people in my life (son and others friends) who have kept me quite busy and who have needed my attention also.. so that has been huge!

Donna
__________________
Happy 2008!!!

Reply With Quote
  #31  
Old 05-19-2005, 08:04 AM
Jillian Jillian is offline
Registered User
Donation Award 
 

Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: T.E.X.A.S.
Posts: 22,321
Thanks: 3,737
Thanked 5,590 Times in 2,182 Posts
Default

Mines have been in since i was 3wks preg. So i am raising our lil one alone. I have support from my family. I live with my mom and she watches her only when i am at school but nonetheless we have a roof over our heads and food in our belly. I do appreciate wht she does for us. I spend alot of time going to the zoo and the mall and playdates with her cousins. I try to do that now cuz once i start my radiography program next year i will be a full time student and all the classes will be during the day and somewill be 8hrs at a time. Instead of nite classes i have now. I believe that being that busy it will also help me cope with being apart.

My husband and i also have a very open and honest relationship so when things are on our minds we tell each other. No matter what it is this way the other can help the other get thru it .

Last edited by Jillian; 05-19-2005 at 08:05 AM..
Reply With Quote
  #32  
Old 05-19-2005, 12:52 PM
monirock's Avatar
monirock monirock is offline
i love you, danny.
 

Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: nj, usa
Posts: 136
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Red face

i'm trying to take as many classes as i possibly can, work as many hrs as i can and sleep as many hrs as i can. my best friend has been helping me deal and i with her man troubles, plus going to the city to just get out of nj and the sims2 game too. and i know it said the drugs option..i've pretty much always toked so i'm not just using it as an escape but i have been to relax when i am stressed.
__________________



Reply With Quote
  #33  
Old 05-19-2005, 02:02 PM
stilvng_u stilvng_u is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: May 2005
Location: Ca Usa...My teddy's heart
Posts: 193
Thanks: 0
Thanked 3 Times in 3 Posts
Default

To tell you the truth I don't really cope with it. I just deal with the situation that I have been handed. I've tried keeping busy, I've tried drinking, and I've tried going out.....but it all brings me back to missing my baby.

For me it's like loosing a limb. I can never replace the emptiness or loss that I feel no matter what I do. But I still have to keep walking and living life.

I will not be completly whole until my husband is here with me and I can look into his eyes and tell him that I love him everyday and every moment<333333
Reply With Quote
  #34  
Old 05-19-2005, 02:22 PM
CTemen-Mojica's Avatar
CTemen-Mojica CTemen-Mojica is offline
CTemen-Mojica
 

Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: yonkers, ny
Posts: 115
Thanks: 0
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Default

I try to keep myself busy at all times, but it is not easy when i'm laying in that big bed of mine all by myself at night with no one by my side. I go to school full time and I have two kids, but every second that is not occupied all i do is think about him. I write him every day and go to see him almost every weekend. it is hard the ride from my house is hell i live in yonkers new york and i have to leave my house at 11 p.m. to take a bus then a train and then a van to get up to see him at 830 a.m. the next day.
Reply With Quote
  #35  
Old 05-19-2005, 09:02 PM
B.G's Avatar
B.G B.G is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Apr 2005
Location: NY, USA
Posts: 1,364
Thanks: 1
Thanked 11 Times in 7 Posts
Default

I voted: started college. Even though I went straight to college after high school, I chose to take some time off. Almost 2 years to be exact. But through this time, I've returned. College has been a sort of crutch. The education I'm earning, the experiences I'm going through, the friends I've making, the career path I'm choosing. All these things are pushing me and keep me very busy, sometimes I feel like I'm neglecting my husband. But he understands...its for both of us!

B.G
__________________
No one knows how to love me quite like you do
Reply With Quote
  #36  
Old 06-02-2005, 10:02 AM
BKLYNDOLLXO BKLYNDOLLXO is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: NY,USA
Posts: 6
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default

I have to admit my mind used to be totally overcome with thoughts of him when he 1st went away, I had no choice but to pull myself up from the black hole i felt I was in...I didn't eat, sleeping was a rarity & I was programmed to cry at the littlest thing! It didn't help my daughter to see me that way. The anxiety attacks have lessened (thank God). I have also realized that no matter how I feel it wont bring him home sooner.I work full time,& work in a catering hall some weekends which is a great escape cause theres no time to sit & be depressed Cant wait to see him this saturday! I need to give him the biggest kiss! Havent seen him since April so Im excited! I'm also in the process of moving into another apartment thats a job in itself! only the strong survive a situation like this & I intend to be as strong as I can for as long as I can. My heart is with you all
__________________
J~~

<img border="0" src="http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt/d/4;53;0/st/20080226/e/I+pick+up+my+baby%21/k/8f5d/event.png"></a>
Reply With Quote
  #37  
Old 06-02-2005, 10:06 AM
missingmyhubie's Avatar
missingmyhubie missingmyhubie is offline
I miss him so much!!!
 

Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Somewhere out here!
Posts: 449
Thanks: 0
Thanked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Default

One day at a time is all I can handle.
__________________
Reply With Quote
  #38  
Old 06-02-2005, 03:53 PM
Smokelady Smokelady is offline
Banned
 

Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: Miami, Florida
Posts: 328
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default

I have learned that this is a part of my life and I have adjusted to it. Plus I work and I have 4 daughters. Then I spend alot of time to my sisters house which is always exciting. Also during the day and night I talk to my husband alot. By the time I know it it is time for me to get to bed. So I am alright with what is happening now. I would really be fine when he comes home. LOL
Reply With Quote
  #39  
Old 06-02-2005, 05:32 PM
suzyq661 suzyq661 is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Mar 2005
Location: Michigan, usa
Posts: 144
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default

I'm not sure coping is a good word, there isn't a minute that i'm not thinking of him and what he's dealing with. I guess i just decided that i needed to stay strong for the both of us. I try and look at the future and what we will have when he get's out and not dwell on present circumstances to much. Not a day goes by that i don't miss him or want him home with me, It's a hard road we've choosen, and it's damn hard to "cope", but I take each day as it comes as i have no other choice except to leave him, and that i can't do! PTO has helped alot, just knowing there are other's going through the same thing, helps me be strong. All i can say is keep busy and try and remember why you've made the choice you have, to be with him.
Reply With Quote
  #40  
Old 06-03-2005, 10:26 PM
jblovesdb's Avatar
jblovesdb jblovesdb is offline
Wishing you were here...
Donation Award 
 

Join Date: May 2004
Location: NJ, USA
Posts: 7,565
Thanks: 232
Thanked 289 Times in 226 Posts
Default

Well...I don't know what I do to "cope"...as some have said...I just live day by day...trying to make it to the end of this long road!! I do work...I sit on the computer...I write him...I talk to A friend (that I met b/c of PTO)...and just try to keep my head up. To be honest...I do drink way too much...way to often. But I still get my lazy a** up and go to work. I don't do anything special...just try to make it!! I gott keep my head up...and just keep it moving. As Suzanne said...I don't try to hide from my man that I am depressed...he knows it....but I just gotta keep it together!! So I don't know how well I "cope"...but I just live everyday waiting for the day he gets his butt outta there! Hugs
-Jackie
__________________
I love this crazy tragic,
sometimes almost magic,
awful beautiful life...
Reply With Quote
  #41  
Old 06-03-2005, 10:49 PM
j2sq's Avatar
j2sq j2sq is offline
Home since 9/29/05! Yes!!
 

Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Buffalo, N.Y.
Posts: 5,274
Thanks: 0
Thanked 6 Times in 5 Posts
Default

I work all the time... school is out for the summer (*THANK GOD*) but that has kept me occupied. friends, family, getting out every once in a while.

ya kinda just get used to it...... count down to the visits.

everyday is different... some days are so easy, and others are so hard... but the journey will be over soon for me, so I am thankful for that!
Reply With Quote
  #42  
Old 06-03-2005, 11:02 PM
SATIN2505 SATIN2505 is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Feb 2005
Location: MONAHANS, TEXAS
Posts: 15
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Lightbulb Working Two Jobs

I drown myself in the two jobs just to try to keep my mind off my boo not being home. Children also play a big part because now they are my leaning post right now. Plus, I look to god to be my number one provider. I still go through those days where I just lay in bed and cry but I think about who is relying on me and make myself get up.
__________________
Terri Loves Issac

:love:






Reply With Quote
  #43  
Old 06-04-2005, 06:45 AM
hisotherhalf hisotherhalf is offline
The Mrs
 

Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: pa, usa
Posts: 168
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default

I picked work 2 jobs but I increased the hours when things got really rough. I was working 70 hours a week at one point. That wasn't healthy at all and Boo wasn't happy to hear about that either. I talk to him really. I read books, pray, and talk to my friends but basically talking to him about it is what gets me through. I have no problems whatsoever telling him "Baby I miss you", or "Baby I'm lonely, this is depressing". That helps so much.
__________________

I must give all praises and thanks to Allah. The all knowing, all seeing, the orchestrator of my man's release and the author of our relationship. He is the one that made all of this, and only to Him do I owe my gratitude.




Is it time for football yet? Go EAGLES!!!!
Reply With Quote
  #44  
Old 06-04-2005, 10:34 AM
MsChiku's Avatar
MsChiku MsChiku is offline
Prayerful Ohio Member
Donation Award 
 

Join Date: Jul 2003
Location: Ohio, USA
Posts: 5,437
Thanks: 31
Thanked 82 Times in 47 Posts
Default

I didn't vote but I guess I simply go with the flow. One day at a time says it best for me. I work one job but it's very stressful and I'm usually exhausted or brain dead by the time I get home. My daughter who's mentally handicap, requires most of my time at home. I have to take her to appts. etc... We do almost everything together. I usually stay awake longer than I should because I just can't relax. I miss my husband more than words can express. I write him about everything that's going on out in the so-called, "free world." I attend immediate family functions ONLY if I muster up enough energy. He's been in for 11yrs. I've been waiting with him for over 9yrs. I have no desire for anyone but him. And I really don't put myself in any position that would compromise our marriage. I would have to agree with IrishyEyes about letting your Man know when you're hurting and when your feeling good too. Because this definitely isn't a piece of cake! Yet I know that Rodney is the air that I desperately need to breath. So for the most part I re-iterate to my spirit that "this too shall pass." Sabrena
__________________
~Sabrena~


"...for this too shall pass..."
Reply With Quote
  #45  
Old 06-07-2005, 01:22 AM
lil_mom2002 lil_mom2002 is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Kentucky
Posts: 3
Thanks: 0
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
Default

I try to cope as best as possible. I am surrounded by people that is against anyone that is put in jail for any reason and not there to help support their family financially. They criticize him all the time. They criticize me for still waiting for him. Yes, he is in there for his own faults, but I love him with all my heart and soul. I feel we are soul-mates. I never thought there was a such thing. But HE is my soul-mate and I strongly believe there is a person for everyone out there. Our children gets me through it. I think of who would be there for them or if anyone would let them visit their dad if I went off the deep end over it all. At first I couldn't stop crying over any little thing that made me think of him. I've moved 6 times since he has been in jail. He has been in jail for 2yrs. and 23 days now. Just to be closer to him. But now we are 2 and a half hrs. away from each other and no car to get there. This is the 3rd time he has been moved for no reason they tell him. I get depressed now alot, I even go weeks without writing him. Cause it hurts so much to think I can't go see him or even touch him now. I don't even know how to adjust to him comin back home after 2 1/2 years of being apart.
Reply With Quote
  #46  
Old 06-07-2005, 01:35 AM
tiggerslilmama's Avatar
tiggerslilmama tiggerslilmama is offline
missing you and holdin on
 

Join Date: May 2005
Location: pc florida usa
Posts: 382
Thanks: 2
Thanked 9 Times in 6 Posts
Default

it has been very hard for me he has been in county for 4 months and in prison almost a month so it has been hard but i wake up everyday and take care of my son and work i just tell myself its only time and after five years with someone its easyier. i miss him with all of my heart but he will be home in less than a year so we wont be apart long
__________________



MY LIFE WILL REBEGIN AUGUST 9TH, 2009
Reply With Quote
  #47  
Old 06-07-2005, 01:47 AM
LadyMusicSoul3 LadyMusicSoul3 is offline
Always in his corner
 

Join Date: May 2005
Location: Texas, USA
Posts: 69
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Wink

Well my baby went in in January, got out a couple of weeks ago, though I didn't get to see him because we're in two different states, then went right back in. I'm heart-broken but we haven't spoken since he went back in so I don't know what's going on yet and that's driving me nutso too!

But, I spend my time trying to raise our 4 month old son (born the week that his Daddy went in ), trying to get back in school, and trying to get my body back! I was also working for a while. Also, right now I'm trying to move back to New Orleans then I could see and talk to my man more often! I'm excited about that and I hope everything goes smoothly. More than that I hope he gets out soon (he's a perpetual jailbird, my poor man) because I'm ready to settle down and get married and have another little one! <Looks a my flabby belly> Well, scratch the another little one part lol!
__________________
Im Ivonne and Im 21.

My little son JWill was born 1-29-05. We live in dreamland together. He's a "daddy's baby"!

I'm missing...

My son's daddy, and my Love, at Hunt in Louisiana

My lil cousin Bullet in TDCJ
Reply With Quote
  #48  
Old 09-24-2005, 02:43 PM
BAUGH_AMANDA BAUGH_AMANDA is offline
Registered User
 

Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: hobbs nm usa
Posts: 7
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default

the first time i was strong for my kids but this time he was only out for 2 months and now i have to go through this nightmare i have no car now no house in two days and no job for the past month no one helps me and i am falling apart i just cant breathe without him and i dont even want to go on.
Reply With Quote
  #49  
Old 09-25-2005, 11:41 PM
babygirl350 babygirl350 is offline
Peaceful
Donation Award 
 

Join Date: Oct 2003
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 11,508
Thanks: 1,056
Thanked 1,081 Times in 567 Posts
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by BAUGH_AMANDA
the first time i was strong for my kids but this time he was only out for 2 months and now i have to go through this nightmare i have no car now no house in two days and no job for the past month no one helps me and i am falling apart i just cant breathe without him and i dont even want to go on.
I am sorry to hear it is so rough for you Amanda. I would hope that perhaps some family or friends could be of some assistance to you.

Have you tried to seek Federal Housing. You can get that without a job as long as you do not have a felony record.

There is alot of assistance out there for children as well.

If you have a Crisis Center, I would urge you to call them and let them give you some referrals that perhaps can be of some assistance to you.

All of my best to you. Know that we are here for you.
__________________
Our dear friend Rosa passed away on 7 November 2014.
She was a kind, gentle soul who always took the time to welcome newcomers with an encouraging post and helping hand.
She made our forum a better place.
May she rest in peace.

~ PTO Administrators and Staff

Reply With Quote
  #50  
Old 09-26-2005, 12:25 AM
Niecey & Dave's Avatar
Niecey & Dave Niecey & Dave is offline
Niecey Colette
 

Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: Cheektowaga, New York
Posts: 28
Thanks: 0
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Default

I decided to post an answer here because this is where my problems lye. I have 3 small children, 5 years old, 20 months old, and 5 months old. At the time Dave left I was 4 months pregnant, so I wasn't working or anything. While the kids are alot of work I still find that emptiness. Why? Well even though I am trying to find some work I have no transportation. Shortly after Dave left I had to take the van off the road because I couldn't afford an inspection, and the repairs, and insurance, and registration and all of that. His parent's don't want to be bothered. They never call me or come by. My parents are disappointed and don't want to help. So basically what I'm saying is that me and my kids spend the majority of our lives in this apartment, or trying to walk some place, and we get so tired. I don't really have any supports. I have no family that tries to help me cope. They think Dave s a piece of shit, and a loser and a criminal. They all hurt me with what they say. I have nowhere to turn. I am so lonely, and don't know what to do sometimes to cope. If only I had some friends ..........other single moms in my area who were going through this same situation, and would be able to understand the emptiness and the depressing moments I feel, and the anger, and the hurt and the resentment that I feel I think this would be alot more manageable.
Some days like today in fact it just felt like me and my kids were on the outside of the world looking in. Sometimes people seem like they don't even know that we exist. I was crying off and on because I am so alone at times. We need to be involved in some groups and activities, and it's really hard when you don't have a car to get around to the places that you need to and want get to. It's hard depending on people for rides because alot of times they really don't want to give you the ride, or they may disappoint you and not be able to take you where you need to go. That happened to me last weekend. 9/18. Two people told me that they were going to the prison to see their loved one and that they would be going that week. No one returned my calls to let me know that they weren't going. Finally one of the women E-mailed me and she said she couldn't get a car because her car was having problems she needed to borrow someone's. I could go on and on with this, but I don't want to write a book here. My point was just that it's a sad, hard knock life when you don't have the love, friendship and support of others. I have tried contacting a few churches in the area as that's always what people tell you......the church, the church, the church. Ok I tried that called a few times, and no calls back. I have no idea what else I can do to better my life. I am trying but there seems to be nothing working out for me. I guess the only advice I can give to myself is to take one day at a time. The days seem like months as I wait for his time to pass so he can come back home. I know that I will have to have myself together when he get's back home. I want to, and I will cause he's going to need to come home to a strong person. It's just getting there that's the problem. My weekends and holidays are just blank blocks of time. My 5 year old complains because she said that everyone (In her eyes) has their daddy at home, and they can take their kids to the park, or walk them to the bus stop in the morning or just spend time with them other than "Mommy". There's no way to ignore that. Kids know and aren't stupid. They go to school with people who have it the normal way. She'll say mommy why did Dave have to do that? Now we have no daddy. I try to console her, but I don't know why he did what he did either. And she's too young to truly understand details. So anyhow.......I guess to sum this up??? I cope as best as I can. Just stuck in the house trying to find local friends on the internet, single moms who are looking for friends and activities, trying to find some local support groups to join, I try to become active but my problems are always no babysitters and no transportation. It's a rough life. I have no answers I am very depressed because of this life I am forced to live. I was completely taken off guard with what has happened to this family. Dave was just remanded right away because we didn't have money to bail him out. In a way that's good cause he had time in. But it was hell when it first happened because our household lost half it's income. I am barely making it. I have checked into many situations to make it better, but right now there's nothing that I can do. Right now our apartment is in Dave's name, and I can't get help from social services to move because my name isn't on the lease. I can't add my name because they will do a credit check and I will fail it and then they will want me to move. Isn't that insane? I tried low income housing (applying) the credit is a problem. So I'm stuck. Plus I have no money for security deposit, first and last months rent and for movers. So what do I do? I'll have to keep struggling along the way that I am and wait for Dave to come home. I'm doing the best that I can out here. But I will end on this note in this experience I do see what a mean, cold world this is. No one cares about anyone these days and there is no help at all out here for the families and children of those left behind when a person is taken out of a household and incarcerated. There is just no such help. So what are we to do? Ok people I'm sorry for this book. I will spare your eyes. Just venting.
Niecey Colette
__________________
Niecey Colette Cheektowaga, New York
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Forum Jump


All times are GMT -6. The time now is 05:11 AM.
Copyright © 2001- 2017 Prison Talk Online
Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.7.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Website Design & Custom vBulletin Skins by: Relivo Media
Message Board Statistics