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View Poll Results: Pick One Is Needed More For This Life We Live And State Why If You Like
Strong Minded 30 56.60%
Strong Hearted 23 43.40%
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Old 09-08-2018, 12:18 AM
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This is a hard one for me I go back and forth between the two because it is for both that this lifestyle really requires of you to be but if I had to choose between the two I would say for myself Strong Minded because for me I can control my emotions more so with my mind than my heart and if I get too over the top my mind can keep me balanced and not too over the top .. So share your thoughts and why you choose one or the other this is just for fun nothing serious ....
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Personally I would say strong minded because if I wouldn't want it I wouldn't do it.
A a strong heart is part of the equation in my book. But it takes strength, perseverance and a certain degree of "bullheadedness" to sit here and wait and deal with all the prison shit and whatever comes with it...
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Definitely for me, it's being

STRONG-MINDED, period... That es numero uno por,
(number one for me)siempre...(always) definitely.It works for this strong mujer...

I've empowered many for years, with being how i am and a quite of few regularly here, and for years i am completely able to control each emotion with minimal effort,

and able to demonstrate and assist others for a long time in doing same,where prior they were not able to,

and now since i have done so they are able to do it!I love that feelin and chica, great thread... Hola.(OCEAN...) again great thread this weekend..."


Enjoy your weekend to all at PTO today and manana.(tomorrow...)

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This is a hard one for me I go back and forth between the two because it is for both that this lifestyle really requires of you to be but if I had to choose between the two I would say for myself Strong Minded because for me I can control my emotions more so with my mind than my heart and if I get too over the top my mind can keep me balanced and not too over the top .. So share your thoughts and why you choose one or the other this is just for fun nothing serious ....
Iíd definitely choose strong minded. Iíd rather think with my mind than the heart. The heart will have you doing things that arenít rationing because your working with feelings. When your strong minded your strong willed so itís not easy to break. Iíve mad so many mistakes because I was thinking with my heart even when knowing right from wrong! So Iíve definitely grown to be strong minded
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Honestly while doing the husband in prison stuff I don't believe I was using my brain!!! I was on auto pilot and had I really thought out what I was doing I would have walked away. Now that he's gone I have gotten perspective that I didn't have back then. Don't get me wrong I was very much in love and never thought of leaving him, but at the time I was to close to see what the reality was.
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The first half of my relationship I was strong hearted.. The second half definitely strong minded
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They come hand in hand in my opinion.
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I would have to say strong minded. If you set your mind your heart will follow
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