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View Poll Results: Anyone trying to have a baby
yes 275 48.50%
yes, but in the future not right now 217 38.27%
no, we have enough children 47 8.29%
no, don't want kids 28 4.94%
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Old 06-25-2006, 03:11 PM
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We talk a lot about it. I have three kids, two are his. He missed the baby years with his kids. He wants another baby. I really don't know if that is what I want. But I understand his need to want other children. We'll see. For those of you who are wanting to get pregnant, good luck.
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I want a baby by my husband. asap
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I already have a daughter who is 7, and he can't have kids. I would love to have a baby with him, but that's out of our hands, and as long as I have my daughter and him-that's all I need. Congrats and good luck!!
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He will be home soon and if I get pregnant I get pregnant. I want one more and he wants three more. He always tell me that im going to stay pregnant when he comes home.
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Old 07-11-2006, 03:20 PM
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Neither one of us have children, so we will definitely be trying.
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Old 07-15-2006, 03:23 PM
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hes home and we are actively trying
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Old 07-16-2006, 03:13 PM
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Old 07-22-2006, 07:38 PM
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It's been awhile since I've been on here but as some of you know my husband came home on Jan. 3rd. We already have 6 girls the oldest is 13. On oct. 16 we are finally having a boy!!! God sure works in funny ways =)
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Old 07-22-2006, 08:56 PM
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I am 21, and Joe came home about 10 months ago. We have no intentions on getting pregnant right away although, we had some scares. I am a bit selfish at this point, and want to enjoy Joe - all to myself. I have a lot of goals, and want to be married. So, we are waiting for a little bit.

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Old 07-25-2006, 07:44 AM
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I will be turning 23 in Sept and my husband will turn 31. He has 4 kids, one with me, 2 daughters and a 13 year old son that he didnt know he had until last year. Which selfishly, I dont really consider him Jeremys son , just kind of a sperm donor. Jeremy had nothing to do with him. My husband didnt want anymore kids before my son because the others kept his daughters from him and used them to trick him, get him back, hurt him and all types of things. He was scared that I would do the same thing. Im not that type of person and I wont use my own son against him. I let him come to the idea of having another baby. He wrote me about it. We dont want to have a baby right off the bat, but in the future we will have another one. I know it will be a girl. Hes kind of excited about it!
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Old 08-02-2006, 02:26 PM
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Me and Rex got preggo around New Years...found out mid February. Then he got put in mid March so he really was only there for the pregnancy like a month. We just started to get contact visits in June so the only ways he really experienced the pregnancy up to that point is through my letters and pictures. I will probably have Landen end of mid-end of September and I have a Family visit end of October and another one probably January but I told him I dont want to get pregnant again until after he is out that way he is there for the entire pregnancy (he gets released in March). It is hard being pregnant with them away! Least I have lots of family who will get me my cravings whenever I want them He wants to get pregnant again soon after Landen is born because he wants out kids close in age...and he really wants a girl so she can be a little "daddys girl" lol. So we shall see what happens!
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we are trying agaim last i was pg. but the stress made me lose it
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Congrats to those who are pregnant and good luck to those who will try. My man unfortunately has six more years to go so when he gets out we will definately be trying. So until then I will have to hold everyone elses little miracle
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Old 08-03-2006, 06:25 PM
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Definitely! lol I want to have a baby when he comes home. We both do. I honestly cant wait! We both dont have any kids so we're both anticipating the day! I'm truly ready. Like a few of you said...he wants to wait until hes got his life fully together. Which is great! But honestly i dont think its going to happen like that. We will try our best though. But we both want to have a baby 100%! We've got names picked out and everything lol He writes the names at the end of every letter he sends. I wish you all the best! & i guess we'll see what happens!
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Old 08-04-2006, 08:48 AM
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My baby really wants me pregnant as soon as he comes home but, I think we should wait at least until he is employed and we have some savings. I just want to be stable, this will be my 1st child, but i wish everyone else the best luck!
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WE HAVE BOTH CAME TO AN AGREEMENT ON HAVING OUR FIRST CHILD TOGETHER WHEN WE GET MARRIED. HE KEEPS TALKING ABOUT GETTING ENGAGED TO ME RIGHT WHEN HE GET'S OUT AND IS WORKING A DEPENDABLE AND STABLE JOB. AND PROVE TO ME THAT HE WON'T GO BACK IN... I HAVE FAITH IN HIM, HE WANTS TO GET ENGAGED NOW BUT HE WANT'S IT TO BE AN ROMANTIC PLACE OUTSIDE OF THE PRISON WORLD...
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Old 08-06-2006, 03:06 PM
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we plan on not doing the baby thing right away, we just can't for so many reasons, but I sure would love a babY! I have condoms here so no excuses....
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Old 08-08-2006, 06:52 PM
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He has 1 child and I have 3. His only girl is 13, my youngest is 10,my second is 16,and my eldest is going off to college in the next few weeks is 18. We have enough to contend with with.No Doubt, we will not plan on a new one to our family,however,we will not prevent a new one.
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Old 08-20-2006, 04:29 PM
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We have 2 girls.....14 and 3. We want to do soo much when he comes home and we know having another right away would get in the way of our dreams. So we're going to enjoy the 2 we have, enjoy life for a few years and then try for a little boy.
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i just got pregnant the night before he got locked back up...hes getting out in October ((if bailed out)) and has trial for another case in November. So hopefully everyone will pray that he doesnt get locked up again so he can be there for our babie =]

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We initially planned on having them right away, right after we got married, even with him inside, but with all that has gone on it was just too much for us and we thought it might be better just to wait, wait and try maybe after he is settled and has employment, although when he gets here, there is no telling what may happen and I would be so excited, I cannot wait! It will be our first child - for both of us!
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Jen, we've wrestled with waiting vs. right away too. You know what I've decided? There will never be a "perfect" time when everything is just right - we both want kids, and know what we are getting into. . . . I don't want to wait until things are "perfect" because that day may never come.
Jen I think your plans are very smart. One of the best things parents can do for their child to give it a good start is to bring it into a stable rather than unstable environment. That's part of "the child comes first" thing because for me, "first" begins before conception. I agree with Rodeo that there is no perfect time to have a child but I do feel there is such a thing as "a good time to have a child, and a bad time to have a child."

Fresh out I agree with you Jen in him finding his place in society out here and beside you. Also, because too many of these men "change their mind" about the marriage/relationship after their release, regrets of at least wishing you had waited a year could come should your man turn out to be one of those who after a short period "changes his mind" about the marriage/relationship.

I really would be fine with having the baby immediately or right away if the numbers were flipped to reflect 90% of these relationships surviving beyond incarceration. But with the numbers reflecting 90% fail, I really do believe you're doing the right thing.

Me and my husband had planned to have our first a year after his release. But because he went back 7 months later, we never made a year. And then when he came home again, he went back, and then again, he went back. At this point he's messed up his chance of becoming a father. That's not my fault -- he did it to himself. So ladies, if he's an "in and outter", please be careful because with a history like that, giving him some time to see if he'll stay out could save you alot of heartache and heartbreak, not to mention heartburn (because you get heartburn when you're pregnant).
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Well we are planning on adding to our family ASAP. Probably like on the way home or something. So I'm with you Rodeo, if we wait until everything is perfect that day may never come. I have all the confidence in the world in my relationship and our capability to deal with the addition of a little one. So good luck to everyone who is trying regardless if you try immediately or plan to wait.
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We do plan on having a baby. But I want to wait until I'm done with school which will be in 2 years. (Oh and we're getting married first too.)
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I am 20. and I dont have any kids.. he has 2 daughters from previous relationships [4& 1 1/2] The 4 year old is more like a daughter to me cause the mom doesnt really want nethin to do with her, so i play with her and stuff.. and it really made me see that i want a baby. my BF and I have talked about it AL0T.. but we dont intend to have one as soon as he gets out.. we want to wait until we get married and are for about a year and are stable.. and im done with school.. got 8 months left and got a decent job and he's working so we can provide for the baby and have a great family.. but we plan on having a little boy anytime between a year and so.. but he still has 15 months until hes out so well see what happens! but congrats to all that are pregnant and are plannin on doin it when ur man's out..

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Ha! We're definitely waiting for a couple of years until we are both ready to commit ourselves to such a huge responsibility. I want to make sure that we both have stable jobs, then get married, and then have a baby....that means hopefully before 30 (I'm 24). I still need some ME time lol.
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