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View Poll Results: Anyone trying to have a baby
yes 275 48.50%
yes, but in the future not right now 217 38.27%
no, we have enough children 47 8.29%
no, don't want kids 28 4.94%
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Old 04-14-2015, 02:28 PM
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My fiancé and I want try having other baby but I have my tube tied since 9 years now as I'm 39 year old. I have 3 kids and he have 1 kid. He want having me getting pregnant with his baby first time. I can't waiting have him come home in 17 months to go till his release from the prison. I think if I able trying get pregnant again thru tube tied without looking forward to get tubal ligation reversals. Any suggests?

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Old 04-14-2015, 02:55 PM
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I don't think you can get pregnant intentionally without getting it reversed....You should speak to specialist. Good luck
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Old 04-14-2015, 02:59 PM
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I don't have any babies right now and neither does my man. When he comes home I can't wait to start a family with him. Congratulations to all the mommies.
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Old 04-14-2015, 03:07 PM
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We have 3 girls and our youngest is going to be 7 next month ....Maybe we'll be blessed with a lil boy for a change lol...but either is welcome of course.
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It would be nice but we are in our 40s, so it's very unlikely.
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Yeppers. 5 more months to go, and we will be trying for kids for sure. Ill be 38 when he gets out, ( my birthday is next month) Im starting to get on in the baby making machine side of things, so if we want to have kids, its gunna have to start trying right away. Hes my toyboy being 16 years younger then me So at lest I know hes still got the goods lol.
If it happens we will both be other the moon, but if it doesnt. We will just have to deal with that too.
Ive wanted children since I was 4 years old, or maybe even younger lol. I would always ask Santa for a baby for Christmas lol. I now silly hehe. but being a mother is all I have ever really wanted to be in life. My partner is young, but he loves kids too, and would love to have children, its something we have talked about many times
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Old 05-22-2015, 07:01 PM
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It would be nice but we are in our 40s, so it's very unlikely.
No no no no there is still a chance. There have been some woman who have had children well into their 50s And a male can have kids till a very ripe old age no limit on him hehe. But the older you get the harder it will be. But there is still a good chance you two can have children
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I'm in my mid 30s and my son (not by him) is 20 & he has 3 kids so we would like to spend time with them.....but that subject has come up....If it happens, it happens.....He believes that babies are blessings....
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Yes he and I would like to have a baby within the first year of him being released from prison. He gets out August 2016. I already have two boys ages 18 and 15. He has one son that is 6 years old. He and I both want to have two more kids. I can't wait. I've always wanted more babies but it just never worked out that way. Now I have met someone that I want to spend the rest of my life with and I want kids to be in our future together ������
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My husband and I have a little girl together who's 2 years old. I have 3 older children that he loves as his own. He's an amazing daddy and we'll be adding another when he gets home
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For those planning on having children when their LO gets home are you going to wait until you are confident they won't be reoffending or until you are confident they have changed by seeing action? I'm past being able to have kids but if I weren't I'd want to be sure that I'd be having a baby in a stable environment and personally wouldn't be making those plans while I still had a partner in prison. How can you be certain you won't be raising that child alone? Its not judgement but a serious question if you've discussed this with your mate?
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My boyfriend and I will try within the few months after he is released (December 2017). He is 27 with one child, but I'm 31 and have no kids yet, so I don't have a whole lot of time left! Thankfully, he really wants a few more
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For those planning on having children when their LO gets home are you going to wait until you are confident they won't be reoffending or until you are confident they have changed by seeing action? I'm past being able to have kids but if I weren't I'd want to be sure that I'd be having a baby in a stable environment and personally wouldn't be making those plans while I still had a partner in prison. How can you be certain you won't be raising that child alone? Its not judgement but a serious question if you've discussed this with your mate?
That is a VERY fair question. It would be ideal to wait to make sure. Unfortunately, I'm on the older side of having kids and am not sure how much longer I'm willing to wait. That being said, I'm financially stable and will be fine raising children on my own. Obviously not the dream situation, but I would be okay with it.
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We have one little girl <3 we plan on having a few more but I told him NOT right away, and he agreed. We got pregnant a month after getting married, and he was locked up when she was 4 months old. I said when he gets out it'll be all about us reconnecting and enjoying our little family as is for awhile, and then adding more down the line, and he wants to make sure he can provide for us first as well
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My husband and I will definitely be trying to have a baby and if we are blessed with one then I'm ok with it. If not im ok with that to. We will have fun trying.
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I think everybody's situation is different. I wanted a baby on my wedding night, but he wanted to wait so both of us decided to wait a year after we had been married to start trying. Unfortunately, we divorced but we are now working on our relationship, and possibly trying again. We have discussed the fact that perhaps God knew that wasn't the time for us to have a baby because he wasn't ready to be a husband/father. Now, LO and I are both on board to have a baby once he is released. I wouldn't get pregnant right away but I think 6 months+ post-release or somewhere around there, I would be open to conceiving. This is something I have always wanted with him, and now that he is in agreement, and knowing that we may have another chance, and I'm getting older and already finished school, I would be happy if we did. Sometimes I think God knew what was going to happen and so He protected me from getting pregnant during the marriage so that way I would not go through my pregnancy alone (since now he is in prison). I think both of our families would be happy. His mom and grandma love me. My mom wants another grandchild. Timing is everything. Only God knows the future.

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We will try, eventually. I think a year from now would be a good time frame.
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