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Old 09-29-2017, 07:12 AM
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first of all I would like to thank everyone & anyone affiliated with this site for the support & just being here to help people cope with these situations. This forum has been a such a good source of comfort. i received my phone call to tell me the bad news I was expecting about my brother knowing he was rapidly declining. I live out of state so things are going to be unsettled for awhile, but I am bringing his body home to CT. regardless of the cost. USMC deserves the best. Thank You Prison forum....for all that you do.
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I am so very sorry I hope you were able to make the trip for visit a few times since you're first visit in July. Take care of yourself and let us know how you're doing....the grieving process can be brutal. We've got big shoulders and will be here when you need us.


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That's terribly sad, bevy. I hope you were still talking and writing for as long as possible. He knew he was loved.
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I am terribly sorry for your lost. May he, and your family, find peace.
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I'm so sorry you lost your brother, I'll keep you in my thoughts.
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I am incredibly sorry to hear this, Bevy.

It is absolutely gut-wrenching to lose a loved one while they're incarcerated. Beyond what anyone on the outside can even imagine. My heart goes out to you.
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Im so sorry.

Im glad you are bringing him home, and that THAT brings you some comfort.
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When it comes to my brother, this is the thing I fear the most. He's playing the in and out game with a lot of drug involvement (person use quantities these days, and plenty of DUIs). Since we're not getting any younger, I'm assuming that his system may just up and quit one day, or he'll od , or any of the myriad of other things that could happen (he had a colon cancer diagnosis at 36 - if that rears its ugly head again, and he's doing time inside...).

Anyway, I can't imagine what you are going through, OP. Jus know that my thoughts are with you and I wish you strength, love, and peace.
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I am so very sorry for your loss. ....
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