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Interracial Relationships & the Prison System For all those involved in an interracial relationship and also dealing with the prison system & experience (past or present). Discussion of unique challenges facing this group.

View Poll Results: Is This Your First Interracial Relationship?
Yes this is my first time ever 32 26.23%
No this is not my first time 66 54.10%
No but this is my first time in a serious interracial relationship 24 19.67%
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Old 07-19-2009, 08:01 AM
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I have dated black men, exclusively, since I was 18. Had I not allowed myself to follow behind racist folks, just to be accepted, during my teenage years, I have no doubt that I would have been with black men my entire life. But, hey, everything happens for a purpose.

And as far as serious relationships go, the relationship I am in now is my first serious one.
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Old 07-25-2009, 12:14 PM
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My friend is puerto rican and I'm the melting pot mutt. both ex husbands were white. so go figure.
Old 07-25-2009, 03:40 PM
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Nope. I've dated all men, I don't discriminate .
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Old 08-04-2009, 12:51 AM
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This is my 1st IRR and only my 2nd boyfriend! I am black and he is white. I am 20 and he is 19.
Old 08-11-2009, 01:54 PM
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Nope not my first time

*I know it's not easy, bein away from tha 1 u luv, some days seem almost unbearable, but b4 u close ur eyes at night, smile cuz ur 1 day closer 2 tha day ur incarcerated 1 will be home*

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Old 08-19-2009, 12:53 PM
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no, I've only dated Asian men so far.
Old 09-02-2009, 01:15 PM
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not my first but it is the best, I now know what people mean when they say "my soulmate" ...I was with my daughters father from the age of 14-21 and he is white.
Can miles truly separate you...? If you want to be with someone you love, aren't you already there?
Old 09-02-2009, 01:26 PM
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Old 09-26-2009, 06:28 PM
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This is my first!!! I love my man!
Old 09-29-2009, 12:45 PM
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This is my second serious relationship. I also have 1 bi-racial daughter. I am white and my first relationship was with an African. This relationship is with a Lakota Sioux Indian. I love my man and race isn't a issue for me.
Old 11-15-2009, 09:48 PM
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This isn't my first irr, I was never fussed about race, just if they were a nice guy.
Old 11-28-2009, 05:06 AM
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This is my first IRR but loving every minute of it.
Old 02-17-2010, 10:03 AM
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this is my first and I am truly in love with this man for who he is not his skin color. He is one awesome guy!!
Old 02-20-2010, 08:07 AM
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Yes this my first interracial relationship. We are working on both age (I am older) and race differences but our love is growing and we each bring something special to the relationship
Old 03-06-2010, 03:13 AM
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this is my first.. but race has never bothered me its not really a big deal here in australia either, not at all..
Old 03-26-2010, 04:19 PM
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I have always been in inter racial relationships. It is natural for me, my parents were always in inter racial relationships as well.

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Old 05-08-2010, 12:23 PM
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Old 08-16-2010, 06:21 AM
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this is my first interracial relationship, although it's not an issue at all. I was with my childhood sweetheart for 4 and a half years before him, he was english and he completely broke my heart, my fiance is kurdish and has shown me more respect and makes me feel more loved than i ever have done before.
Old 08-16-2010, 07:54 AM
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Yes this is my first ir relationship ever and he is the man of my dreams! i never loved any man as much as i love him. there is no other for me he is the one. we are getting married and im so excited and i cant wait to have beautiful children with him.

Old 08-17-2010, 02:03 PM
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my homie is my first! my two ex husbands are white and my homie is hispanic altho i don't really see him as different from me, i just see him the same as me but with a tan lol lol:-)
Old 08-17-2010, 02:11 PM
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This isn't my first interracial relationship. I've only every had 2 serious interracial relationship. Hopefully this will be my last. Wait who am I kidding? This is goin to be my last relationship ever! Lol
Old 08-18-2010, 01:27 PM
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This is my first interracial relationship. I am white and my boyfriend is black. My family is somewhat ok with me dating outside my race but they do not know yet that my man is facing up to 7 years in federal prison. My family lives in Indiana while I live in Florida, which has made it a little easier to keep the detail of him being in prison from them. I'm terrified of what my family will do or say when I tell them. I don't think they will be supportive of my decision to stand by him the whole way through his sentence. I just don't think they will understand. They have never met him but sooner or later they will come to Florida to visit and want to meet him.


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