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Old 08-20-2019, 01:31 AM
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Default I havenít heard from my boyfriend for days.

im new to this soo i dont really know where to start or what im really posting for but my boyfriend recently got arrested about a month ago and they transferred him to a different county but he always calls me once a day everyday & it has been 6 days that i havent heard from him and im not really sure what to think //:
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Old 08-20-2019, 03:08 AM
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Hi I have changed your title so members can search your post. There are several reasons he may not be able to contact you. He could be being moved. The phones may be out of order . He could be on lockdown or he could be in the hole. I am sure he will call you when he can. Try and keep busy. Look after yourself and do some things you enjoy. Sadly prison is all about patience itís a tough lesson we all have to learn.
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im new to this soo i dont really know where to start or what im really posting for but my boyfriend recently got arrested about a month ago and they transferred him to a different county but he always calls me once a day everyday & it has been 6 days that i havent heard from him and im not really sure what to think //:
Search for the county where he has moved to if you know the name, and look him up on their website, most county jails have a inmate lookup tool. If he was moved to a TDCJ facility it will be over a week before you even know where he is at. Good luck, hope you hear from him soon.
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Welcome to Prison Talk. There are many possible reasons why he is unable to call you from his new prison/jail. He will contact you when they let him, I hope it's soon.
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Old 08-26-2019, 09:26 AM
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Hi anahi86, I moved your post to husbands and boyfriends in prison.
I would have moved it to the texas forums but was not sure that was the info you might want. If so, you could check out the Texas forums
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Since he's a recent arrival it may be that he does not have access to phones yet.
Hope you hear soon.
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I haven’t talked to mine for 2 weeks and won’t possibly get to for another 30-60 days as I was advised by the Garza West CO that inmate processing that’s that long. I have been writing him letters but I have not heard anything from him! He has not written or called me!
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My man wasn't calling me sometimes. Sometimes no jpay email either. He told me why. He works and sometimes just can't get to the phone during tge allotted time because others are in line before him. Ask your man why.
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I haven't heard from mine in 5 days. Not sure what is going on. He usually emails first thing in the morning and every night. He only calls once a week so not so worried about that part but the no emails has me worried. That is not like him. Hopefully I will hear from him soon.
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Old 09-17-2019, 07:47 AM
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I'm jealous of y'all that get emails from your guys. Where mine is, they don't have email.

But for the most part, no calls could be a lockdown, unable to get phone time, phones could not be working, etc... Don't stress too hard. He'll call when he's able to.
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I don't get emails and I don't get daily calls and it's fine. I do get worried but I know where he is and what he does and on top of it we have a time-difference of 6 hours. So first thing you need to learn is to relax
Doesn't always feel good and it's not easy but fill you days with stuff that makes you feel good - besides having him in your ear or inbox
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I'm positive my boyfriend has never sent and email in his entire life. Lol. He isn't a writer either. He calls daily if possible.
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Old 09-17-2019, 05:22 PM
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I'm positive my boyfriend has never sent and email in his entire life. Lol. He isn't a writer either. He calls daily if possible.
Mine has never sent a text message it's going to be quite interesting when he gets out. I have an old iPhone for him to use.
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Mine has never sent a text message it's going to be quite interesting when he gets out. I have an old iPhone for him to use.
Lol. I never even thought about that. I'm going to ask him if he has ever text. I said something about snapchat the other night. He was so confused.
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Finally got a letter! He said he got 2 of my 10 letters that I wrote!
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Old 09-17-2019, 07:36 PM
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Lol. I never even thought about that. I'm going to ask him if he has ever text. I said something about snapchat the other night. He was so confused.
Oh God I hadn't even thought about Snapchat or Instagram. He at least knows about Facebook. Although I'm pretty sure MySpace was still the big thing when he went in.
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Oh God I hadn't even thought about Snapchat or Instagram. He at least knows about Facebook. Although I'm pretty sure MySpace was still the big thing when he went in.
My husband has been in since before social media was a thing. Livejournal and Xanga weren't even around.
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My husband has been in since before social media was a thing. Livejournal and Xanga weren't even around.
I was talking to him today and we were talking about football. He mentioned that his team was playing the Browns or something and I was all wait let me check. I can get on the internet AND talk to you at the same time with my fancy ass cell phone. And he was all seriously?!

He's gonna be so shocked at what phones can do. He was surprised that Google made phones now. (I have a Google phone)
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