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View Poll Results: Does your man every cry to you?
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Old 01-29-2009, 05:07 PM
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my man cried once in visitation but because he was so heated that he couldnt see straight.. someone sent me a letter from inside and it wasnt him, when i confronted him about the content he was livid... went back to the dorm and let everyone know that if he finds out who it was there was going to be some real problems.
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Old 02-15-2009, 10:01 PM
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My boyfriend pretends he's going to cry whenever we argue, jail or no jail, my boyfriend just seems to not know how to cry. He's a terrible actor and when we look back at it, we both like to laugh.
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Old 03-19-2010, 04:35 AM
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My husband cried the day he was gonna be takin into the INS detention center in Arizona he told me that he felt like a mess and it hurt me to see him cry, it hurt because i couldnt do anything to help him, but now were just praying that he comes home with the help of his lawyer.
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Old 03-19-2010, 05:58 AM
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The last time my man cried for me was when I went to a concert with my friends & he had told me not to go. But hey i wanted to have some fun! Can't us ladys have some fun!? but n e ways he was crying about that.
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Old 03-19-2010, 06:01 AM
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My guy has never cried, but im not sure because you cant tell in a letter...but he think it sucks and its so boring, he is sad too but crying...I dont think he does that.
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He has cried because he said he just got fed up with being in there,,,we were on the phone and he just got MAD about the food, sleeping in the cold, being hungry, being made to feel like less of a man,,,at hiat point he got FED UP!!! He cried till the phone hung up,,,called me back about 15 or 20 minutes later,,,, he said he had to just go fall to his knees and PRAY for Strength and Help. He sounded much better. but to anwser your question,,,,Yes.
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Old 03-19-2010, 01:27 PM
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He's both he's a hard ass and the biggest softie in the world. He hasn't cried on the phone with me or at visits but he has in front of me before all of this. He's admitted to me several times that he's cried from many things while he's in there. We try and keep our calls, letters and visits upbeat. If there is a touch or hard or emotional subject we deal with them but i think we want so much to be able to enjoy every minute of (especially our visits and calls)it that we try not to let stuff get to us. I'm really bad, once I start crying it's hard to stop and I can't talk or anything so the last thing I want is to have a visit like that lol. We've got a marriage seminar coming up and will be able to spend 3 days together and the whole seminar I'm sure will be very emotional but I'm looking forward to it.
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Just wanted to clarify, he knows what he did was wrong and he's not saying he shouldn't be paying for it but I don't think it's harsh to offer support and a shoulder for him. I mean he does it for me, why shouldn't I for him? Besides, it's not what he's crying over it's the fact that he is and I can't do a thing to help him out. He is human after all..
It really is okay to cry.Many men won't allow themselves.I'm sure it is really hard when he is in there and for many reasons he can't let the other guys see him tear up.I'm glad you are there for him!
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Old 03-20-2010, 02:26 AM
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No, My guy never cries to me and I'm glad he doesn't because it woukd kill me. I would feel so helpless and useless on the other end of the phone line, but besides he doesn't need to cty, I do enough crying for the both of us..........
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Old 03-20-2010, 09:35 AM
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He has shut down a lot of his emotions, he can not show weakness, especially in front of other men. Instinctively I know he hurts inside.
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Old 03-20-2010, 09:36 AM
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No, My guy never cries to me and I'm glad he doesn't because it woukd kill me. I would feel so helpless and useless on the other end of the phone line, but besides he doesn't need to cty, I do enough crying for the both of us..........
Thank You dear, I've cried a river of tears.
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First time i heard my husband cried is when he called me from jail and found out the minimum sentence he might get is 10 years. he was so terrified he didn't expect it to be that long. We were both crying on the phone.
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im a crier..i cried every day till a couple weeks ago, i got a letter from him saying he was crying over me which made me feel bad. ive seen him cry once. dealing with my own pain and then thinking about his is very hard.
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My man he is a big baby too me...but to everyone else he is a big tough guy...J is such a big baby i love him so damn much... i got a letter the other day that said baby make sure my brother doesnt open my letters to you because i pour my heart out to you and you know the whole tough .... i couldnt believe that he said that about himself because thats how i thing of him...when we are together he cries in my arms... the last time I heard him cry was when I told him I was pregnant... but when i had to tell him that I lost our second angel i konw he cried because he was looking forward to being a father
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My baby ONLY cries when it has sumthin to do wid me. he will pour his heart out to me and tell me things that he will no one else. he doesn't cry about anything involving where hes at or any prison type stuff just the fact that we have found true love and we know that we are each others soulmate and our love is locked down at least for another 18mths. He a really tough dude....built like a greek god but his heart is big pile of mush and I LOVE THIS MAN TO DEATH and have already given him my life.
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Yes, my baby has done this, it was especially hard when it happened at the end of our visitation when I had to come back to Tennessee. He's in Florida. It's truly heartbreaking!
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My fiancee is a VERY strong person, but his soft spot is his mother. Their relationship needs a lot of repair. On a visit one day, he got kinda teary-eyed when he talked about her because deep down inside he misses her a lot. It was one of the most beautiful things I ever saw from him.
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Ditto. Mine hasn't cried to me. I know that he has come close to it, but no he hasn't cried. I can barely get him to blow me kisses on the phone cause he someone may here him and it may mess up his swagger . But if he did cry, it would kill me.

I know two people who went thru the shock program in NY and its no joke. That program sucks big time. But tell him to just hold on. It wont be too long till he is out of there.

You know why the call it 'shock'? For the shock and awe factor.
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He has shut down a lot of his emotions, he can not show weakness, especially in front of other men. Instinctively I know he hurts inside.
Yup my man the same way he shut down all his emotions except with me but he does not and can not show any weakness in the outside world but especially not in prison. That's just the way he is but I love him for that. I know he hurts inside but I really admire his strength
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