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Old 06-11-2010, 06:57 PM
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Default May 31st Stabbing Death at RJ Donovan Correctional Facility San Diego CA

On May 31st, 2010, my husband was stabbed to death in prison. If anyone has any information on news articles please let me know. I am trying to piece this all together. The man confessed and I am prosecuting even though he is a 25-lifer for murder when he was 21. I appreciate any help anyone can give me.

Ok, I have read several articles and they all say something different. One says Randy died at the prison before the ambulance came. The other two say he was air lifted to UCSD Medical Center where he died 4 hours later.
Who is right? How do I find out? I guess I will call the hospital.

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Old 06-11-2010, 07:04 PM
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I am from Michigan and am so sorry for your loss...I truly pray that you find the answers to all of your questions and I will keep you and your family in my prayers.....
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Old 06-11-2010, 07:45 PM
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Thank you for your prayers. I am going to find out exactly what happened. I need to know.
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I am so very sorry for your loss and cannot even comprehend what you must be going through.

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Old 06-11-2010, 08:09 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. I can not imagine what you are feeling good luck with your fact finding search.. My prayers are with you and your family...
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I am so very sorry for your loss and cannot even comprehend what you must be going through.

All the very best in your fight for justice.
Thanks for your prayers. I can't even comprehend this traumatic event yet. I saw his body on Wednesday and that was undescribable. He will be cremated. It hasn't sunk in yet. In fact, I still write on my computer to him. For 8 years we have been writing to each other everyday...faithfully. He was my life. I lived for him.

This is what I have found out....The hospital has no record of him being admitted there on May 31st. So that news story was incorrect. Who are these journalists and where do they get their information?
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I am so sorry for your loss. Please whatever you do find out all that you can, bug the heck out of them if necessary (the prison). Write any and everyone possible.
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Old 06-11-2010, 10:01 PM
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oh i am sooo very sorry for ur loss, i cannot imagine this that ur going through. i will keep u in my prayers. u fight for justice for ur husband.
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Old 06-12-2010, 04:37 PM
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Im so sorry for your loss my heart breaks for you=( but, I dont understand why they didnt call you when it happened or when they took him to the hospital? My husband is currently in LA County state prison in Lancaster and I found out that he was in the hospital after I just called to check his location but, when I called the hospital they told me he wasint there and there's no record of him being there untill I said he's a inmate and I know he's there! Then they said theyre not allowed to release his information to me even though Im his wife and Im not allowed to visit him in the hospital? I dont understand why not and why they dont contact you and let you know!

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I'm sooooooooo sorry for you loss... I can not even image... My prayers go out to you and his family during this time... May God be with you through it all
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My sincere condloences go out to you. I pray that you get the answers that you seek. I know it can be hard trying to get the prison system to give you straight information tho, just be patient if at all posible cause it is going to be needed. I know that there is a certain protocol the prison follows before they declare an inmate deceased. So you may get conflicting stories until the official report is filed. Good luck, i am so sorry for your loss. Words will never express the pain and nothing can be done to fill the void. Justice will help, i pray. And i will pray for you and yours. Please take care of yourself and be mindful of how much you can handle healthly.
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I am so sorry for you loss! I pray that you find the answers you need, and I pray justice comes your way.
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If anyone knows where I can find this lady please message me I have info for her she will need
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Try sending her a private message (pm)...if she has her notifications turned on, she'll also get it in her email. Then just hope she has the same email address. Click on her user name to send her a pm.
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Thank u I sent her a pm and I really just want her to get her justice and let her know what happened to her husband. People please pray for her she will need it
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Deborah- I pray for peace for you and for those who did this to your husband. Although I trust your husband has already found peace, the ripple of his loss will not go unnoticed whether overtly or covertly. Your husband made a difference in this world. You were the sanctuary he chose to have faith in. Prayers and courage and strength and endurance unto you as you face this next chapter.
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