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View Poll Results: Is he incarcerated in a different state?
Yes, and it's hard on both of us. 935 81.16%
No, thank goodness! 217 18.84%
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Old 09-05-2013, 10:32 AM
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I'm in MA and my husband is in LA don't get to visit that often
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Old 09-06-2013, 03:47 PM
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Well I am in a different country, in Europe, and he is in Illinois. So that our visits are not so often. I am going to see him soon, will be the 2nd time, my last visit was a year ago. So, once a year and if we are lucky twice, will be the most we can visit. Good thing is we get extended visits, so 4 hours a day times 4 for each of the 2 months, that's not all that bad then :-)
Where are you located? I am in Norway. My man is in oregon
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Old 09-06-2013, 04:02 PM
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he was 5 hours away in another state for the first 4 years... now he is a short train ride away... still hard but much better
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Old 09-07-2013, 09:31 PM
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Yes I'm in Alaska and he is in Oregon.. I get to see him next week.. So excited..
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Old 09-07-2013, 10:34 PM
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Yes, my man is in Arizona and I'm in Nevada. I hope to be going to visit in the next few months. My fingers and toes are crossed.
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Old 09-25-2013, 11:20 AM
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We are in different states a little over 5 hours each way!!! It's a haul for sure!!!
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Old 09-25-2013, 12:48 PM
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Yes. I had to move to a new state 3 weeks after he was arrested and we are hoping he can make it out here right away. If not, I'll be going back to our state. We are 2500 miles away from each other now, and I haven't been able to visit since the day before I left, which was 4 months ago.
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Old 09-27-2013, 08:13 PM
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Yes. I'm in California and he's in Nebraska.
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Old 09-28-2013, 08:48 PM
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No we're both in the same state, about 1 hr. 45 minutes away.
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Old 09-28-2013, 09:24 PM
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my man is in the same state so we have been able to visit but he is going to a federal prison once he is sentenced and from what i hear they can send him anywhere
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Old 10-12-2013, 02:30 PM
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Hey ladies, guess I'm kinda lucky! Being from the UK the courts will try & put offenders in prisons closest to their loved ones! I'm from Cardiff & my man is in Bridgend which is about 20-30 min drive! I sometimes get the urge to camp outside prison just be that little bit closer haha xx
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Old 10-14-2013, 11:55 PM
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Mine is in New Hampshire and I am waaaaay down here in Texas lol so yeah may be a while before I can go see him unless he transfers to Texas which he cant until next summer sooooo
I feel your pain. My baby is in New Hampshire while I sit here in Missouri (Missery). UGH!!!
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I am in Florida and my hubby is in NY, I go every 3 weeks to see him. I wish I could go every weekend but this will have to do I have 6 1/2 yrs to go... What you do for love!!!! I told him that I am so mad at him for getting in trouble in NY 18 yrs ago, if he was going to get introuble why couldnt it be in Florida where we lived lol
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Old 11-13-2013, 01:17 PM
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My honey bunch is in Texas and I'm in Arizona. Miss him so much!!
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Old 11-13-2013, 06:29 PM
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My Man is in Mississippi and I'm in Miami,Fl but I'm planning to visit him for the first time with our 2 year old daughter sometime around Christmas..I can't wait...I MISS HIM SOOOO MUCH
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Old 11-13-2013, 11:04 PM
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Old 11-14-2013, 07:03 PM
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I'm in New Hampshire & my baby is in California but I'm moving to California soon!!
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Old 11-14-2013, 07:12 PM
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drive to Detroit park your car at the airport, get an airline ticket thru spirit airline , go see your love one.rental car $24.oo a day a cheap hotel you will be okay.
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Old 11-15-2013, 09:32 AM
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My man is in Texas, I'm in Oregon. I wish I could afford to visit, but I'm working full time and going to college. We write daily, and talk one a week on the phone. He's finally (hopefully) catching chain this week since he signed over a month ago. Texas is horrible about transfers and the prisons are very overcrowded. He was sentenced to 6 years for a probation violation, and credit for the first 14 months he did. It's now been 4 months since I saw his adorable smile, but he is well worth every second I have to wait for him to come home.
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Old 11-18-2013, 07:28 PM
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My baby is in Idaho and I'm stuck in Illinois. It sucks. I'm on his visiting list and it's so difficult to visit him. I know that our time will come soon to see each other. Be patient ladies! You will see your man soon
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Old 02-24-2014, 03:38 PM
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I'm in NC and my babe is in AL..
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Old 02-24-2014, 05:54 PM
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he's in the same state but still 4 hours away...on the border of texas and arkansas...but he's still in Arkansas thank goodness =]
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Old 02-27-2014, 11:24 AM
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Im in Kansas hes in Tucson, Az 2000 miles away suks..havent seen him since he left here a yr ago....17 mo to go!!
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Old 03-09-2014, 07:40 AM
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I live in Ohio and my fiancée is in Atlanta. I'm traveling down there next month and I'm so excited. He's trying to get transferred closer to home so me and the kids can visit every weekend. We still have 5 more years until he is back in my arms. Its no fun planning a wedding without him here. I'm praying the remaining time he has left flies by.
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Old 03-09-2014, 07:50 PM
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My babes is in Florida and I live in Massachusetts. We both grew up in Michigan and lost contact until about 2 years ago now. I have driven the 19 hour trip once to see him and it was hell, the second time I flew and was blessed to have the friendship and company of a fellow PTO' survivor to make the trip easier and more affordable. It's hell being so far away, we are starting the process for marriage and will then put in transfer request to have him moved here.fingers crossed it will come through
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