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View Poll Results: Would you take his last name once married ?
Dont have to ask me twice.....wheres the closest DMV ! 1,596 77.63%
Maybe if he really pushes it.... 31 1.51%
hypnate it, keep mines and add his.... 264 12.84%
I might once he gets out...... 99 4.82%
Probably not ........... 66 3.21%
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Old 06-06-2005, 06:42 AM
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Faster than fast...quicker than quick...swifter than swift I'll get to the DMV and SSA!
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Old 06-07-2005, 12:48 PM
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Its Funny That You'd Ask. I Would Definitely Take His Last Name Because Guess What???? We Have The Same Last Names!!!! Isn't That Cute Or What.....
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OK....I haven't decided if I'm going to wait to marry him ...He's in for 5 years..But we have a little girl together...My delima is this ....Since he was locked up 5 days before she was born I had to give her my last name and do the whole paternity thing so I could get him on the birht certificate...I think I'm going to hyphenate her name Davis-Collins..Since I'm not sure on marrying him until he gets out..I want her to have my last name until at least the time comes...Plus I already have everything under Davis...It's a hard decision..I do want her to have his last name but I'm feeling stingy too because it's my family name. Does anyone think I'm wrong for feeling this way ?? especially since he left me 2 months into my pregnancy because I said NO more "partying"....Now he says it's the biggest mistake and he;'s always loved me but he was scared of being a father etc..I don't know GRRRRR What a dilema!!!!!
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Old 06-13-2005, 11:26 PM
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its so funny that we are on the subject of changing our last names cuz tonite my hun asked me to marry him ASAP!!!! Of course I want to marry him but....I am terrified inside. He's a lifer with 2 appeals going through. So, I have no idea what the outcome would be. But......I know he is my soulmate and he is my whole world. The thought of marrying him terrifies me to death and I dont know why. I love him so much that in our hearts, we are already married. He calls me Mrs. Santiago alot and I love the sound of it! So, yes I would take in his name.
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Old 06-14-2005, 03:18 PM
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I love him but I wouldnt change my last name. I figure theres much more to a marriage then a name and plus i have been a G****** for 22 years of my life its part of my identity and hertiage so even if i did marry him I would change my last name.
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I would take Kev's last name in a heartbeat. He knows it I sign all of my letters the one day Mrs. Kevin S****r. I have already told him nothing would make me prouder than to have his name.
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Old 06-30-2005, 11:35 PM
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I do the same thing.....sign my letters with his last name. We are practically married as it is, its just not legal yet. But yes I would take his name in a heart beat!
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Old 07-24-2005, 06:27 PM
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Mrs. Schurz and proud of it...........

Call me old fashioned, but if you marry, you get a new name. As far as what anyone might think, job, school, society, etc., they can get over it. My husband is on the row and I will stand him beside the free men in this country integrity wise any day. I have a good husband and I consider it an honor to use his name.
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I already use his name except for legal papers. To everyone I am his wife on his letter also. Hopefully we'll get to make it legal if they approve our application anyway.
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Old 08-02-2005, 01:26 AM
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Well, we talked about it getting married all the time. Although i will wait a while after he comes home. Just because i want to make sure he is a changed man and i dont want any other legal surprises come out that i wasn't aware of and have it hit me in the butt b/c im his wife. But, he said he wanted our wedding to be exactly how i want it. That is at night time, underneath the starts with nothing but lights one the sides of the isle. I also want it in the middle of an open field. It will be sooo beautiful. Well anyways, the reason for the post, he wants to take my last name. I am completely ok with that although it's a little odd. But, i get my wedding the way i want it.. so if he wants my last name, he can have it. Boy, do i love him.
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Old 08-13-2005, 06:31 PM
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Well, I'm getting ready to change my last name over but we are waiting for our marriage license to go through. We've already exchanged rings, said our vows, and had our ceremony. All the C.O.s at his prison call me by his last name and have been doing so for months now, even before we got married!!!
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Old 08-15-2005, 01:41 AM
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I would take his last name no question about it. He already writes his last name on my envelops when he sends me mail.
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Old 08-15-2005, 03:38 AM
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No I would not. I would like to keep my name because that is who I am. It is almost like giving up my identity. You will always know who a man is because his name will never change (there are exceptions like if he wants to change it) but if a woman get married each time she does and she changes her last name you never know who anyone is talking about. For example, she was Wendy Laws, got married, then she was Wendy Anderson, got married again, then she became Wendy Jones---it is just to confusing!!
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Old 08-28-2005, 06:58 PM
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We've been married over 3yrs NOW. But initially, he let me make the decision as to whether to carry his last name...To show how serious I was about having his Name, I went to the BMV the very same day of our marriage and changed my lisence picture & name Sabrena
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Old 08-29-2005, 03:52 PM
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Legally, I kept mine and added his so that's what you see on my license but in everyday life I just use his last name.
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Of course I would take his NAME....I already address letters to him as De Anna Ward and he does the same. I am already a WARD and dam proud of it.
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Old 08-31-2005, 06:38 AM
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Yes, yes, yes! When I got married the first time, over twenty-three years ago, I couldn't wait for my last name to become his (but, I should have gone shopping that day, instead of going to the altar - LOL!) So this time, of course I want his last name.

But, we will not get married until after he's released.
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Old 08-31-2005, 06:39 AM
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We already refer to each other as husband and wife and he addresses my mail as Mrs. with his last name I look soooo forward to the day I officially have his last name. Oh how I love him with all my heart and soul.
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Old 09-06-2005, 03:38 PM
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Well I did take on my babies name, and I am PROUD to have it... Matter of fact I have placed it on the front of my truck...
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I would in a heart beat! He already calls me his wife and his last name. He even went as far as to ask me to write it on the mail I send him. I would love too..but I had bought the labels with ur addresses on them (500) and put them on the envoples. I told him when I go to the store..ill pick more up. when I send him cards I put his last name on them.
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In a heartbeat. Even though we aren't legally married I have been using his last name and all my mail is addressed that way. As soon as its legal which will be soon I will change everything.
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Old 09-14-2005, 03:55 PM
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Yes, I definately am...we will be getting married while he's in about Febuary 2006 and I cannot wait to take his last name and I know he wouldnt have it any other way, too.
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I didn't take his last name. We married before he went in. I wasn't ready to tell everyone, and then he got arrested, then I wasn't sure if I was going to stay married to him. Now that I am sure we are going to make it, I don't feel like it's the right time to go and change my name. I will change it once he gets out.
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