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Loving a Long-term Sentenced Offender For those whose loved one is serving 10+ years.

View Poll Results: Waiting
How many of you will wait the sentence full term? 215 88.84%
Have you cheated? 9 3.72%
Are you thinking of about to cheat? 10 4.13%
Do you already have someone? 8 3.31%
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Old 12-05-2017, 05:57 PM
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I canít speak for anybody but myself and my relationship!! We have known each other for a long time and we have been through a lot together even though neither of us said anything to each other about taking it any further than being friends simply because of the person we met through! Neither of us wanted to her that person which was my son! He is my sons best friend and one of the only people that has showed he is true to my son as a friend! I didnít expect for this to happen and neither did he! But like I said we have been through a lot together and we couldnít help falling in Love simply because of who we are meaning who we are as far as being a human being and being real and true! I guess the bed way to put it is he is himself and I am myself! I also want to say I had my son when I was 20 and my man is 10 years older than my son! But anyway when we finally talked about how we felt about each other and admitted our feelings we didnít act on it right away and we agonized over it for some time! We did decide to be together but like I said we talked about it a lot and then I talked to my son about it alone and then he did the same! My son said he wanted him to be happy and he wanted me to be happy and he knew we want him to be happy too! So it worked out and we have been together ever since and we will be together forever! My childrenís dad and I were together since we were in high school and he had passed away before my son and my husband met! Iíve been asked out and hit on a lot by men and I would decline! I just never met anybody that I was interested in and in my experience most men just didnít act right or even go about asking me out the right way! They were married men which those men that had the balls to be married and proposition me did not like my response! Other men just acted like arrogant douche bags or simply just werenít my type and that includes who they were as a person and how they acted! Some people donít find real love even once in their life! Iíve been lucky enough to find it twice! And I know my dead husband would want me to be happy just like I would want him to be happy if I were the one that passed away! So why I wait for my husband is because we are totally and truly in love!! We tell each other how we are just getting all of the bad and hard painful out of the way with him being locked up! And when he gets to walk out those doors and to me it will be time for all of our happy life and happy times and happy memories! We will mar it through this and we will make it through anything and everything!!! We belong together and even though we are being kept apart we will be together forever!!!!
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Youre either down... Or not.. Im down for my husband til death.. No matter what happens.
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Me and my husband are RIDE OR DIE!!!!
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Congrats on your marriage! My lifer proposed to me.. We haven't set a date yet but soon! We have been together 3 years..... It was LOVE at first sight.... I saw him on television and I just had to write him. It has been great ever since.

Saw him on televison? Sounds like a good love story....
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I canít speak for anybody but myself and my relationship!! We have known each other for a long time and we have been through a lot together even though neither of us said anything to each other about taking it any further than being friends simply because of the person we met through! Neither of us wanted to her that person which was my son! He is my sons best friend and one of the only people that has showed he is true to my son as a friend! I didnít expect for this to happen and neither did he! But like I said we have been through a lot together and we couldnít help falling in Love simply because of who we are meaning who we are as far as being a human being and being real and true! I guess the bed way to put it is he is himself and I am myself! I also want to say I had my son when I was 20 and my man is 10 years older than my son! But anyway when we finally talked about how we felt about each other and admitted our feelings we didnít act on it right away and we agonized over it for some time! We did decide to be together but like I said we talked about it a lot and then I talked to my son about it alone and then he did the same! My son said he wanted him to be happy and he wanted me to be happy and he knew we want him to be happy too! So it worked out and we have been together ever since and we will be together forever! My childrenís dad and I were together since we were in high school and he had passed away before my son and my husband met! Iíve been asked out and hit on a lot by men and I would decline! I just never met anybody that I was interested in and in my experience most men just didnít act right or even go about asking me out the right way! They were married men which those men that had the balls to be married and proposition me did not like my response! Other men just acted like arrogant douche bags or simply just werenít my type and that includes who they were as a person and how they acted! Some people donít find real love even once in their life! Iíve been lucky enough to find it twice! And I know my dead husband would want me to be happy just like I would want him to be happy if I were the one that passed away! So why I wait for my husband is because we are totally and truly in love!! We tell each other how we are just getting all of the bad and hard painful out of the way with him being locked up! And when he gets to walk out those doors and to me it will be time for all of our happy life and happy times and happy memories! We will mar it through this and we will make it through anything and everything!!! We belong together and even though we are being kept apart we will be together forever!!!!

If you don't mind me asking, what time after you started talking to your partner did you decide to have that conversation about your feelings?
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Wives & Longtime Girlfriends: I would like to know some feedback on "WHY" do we wait for these men? What does this say about us as women and as our character? Why do we often hide that are husband or long time boyfriend is in prison? What makes us wait?

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Seriously!?? What does that say about OUR character? Ok, I won't be offended because 1, you wrote this a LONG time ago...and 2, I understand why you ask that. Yeah boo, I used to think what is wrong with me for loving a man in prison. But it's not about where the man is at, but about your relationship with him and where his heart is at for you. Now, if you have an issue with being in love with an incarcerated man, then go find you a man who is in free society. I say that respectfully. There is no need for you to feel some kind of way for sticking with a locked up dude if you are resenting it.
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