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View Poll Results: Is your sex life all you expected?
Yes! He wants sex more than I can stand. 44 24.18%
Yes. It's not overwhelming but there are no complaints. 79 43.41%
Eh...we would fall somewhere in the middle/average area. 35 19.23%
No. Sex is scarce to non-existent in our lives. 24 13.19%
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Old 02-15-2008, 02:58 PM
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You hear it everywhere. The theory that when he gets home you will be having so much sex you won't know what to do. Is that really the truth though? Does being away for an extented time lessen his libido?

Has your sex life been more on the side of "too much to handle" or do you find yourself wondering when you'll get laid just as much as when he was gone?

I'm also wondering if the amount of time served effects this more. Please let me know how long your guy was gone.
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He was in for 13 years and we had heard the stories too. We became worried for awhile but when it finally happened it was just wonderful. We clicked totally... and then some
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When my ex came home it was pretty average,we had had a good sex life before and it continued to be good.I wouldn't say it was too much to handle nor was it scarce it was just average like a few times a week I guess (been a long time I don't recall lol)
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It's been average....not what i thought it would be...i was wanting it 3-4 times a day and him only once....however it's averaged out though...now that i'm preggos i'm to tired most of the time...hehe...i really thought it would be more in the start though....dont get me wrong it is wonderful when it does happen. We co-sleep with our 3 y/o so i think that has alot to do with it.
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Sex is like drugs, the more you have it the more you want it, so ... it may take a minute to get off the ground but I have found that usually it's pretty often at first and it settles down to normal after a minute. In the real world there is work that gets in the way of laying on your back all day.
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I THOUGHT THE SAME THING! I THOUGHT THAT AFTER BEING AWAY 32 MONTHS THAT HE WOULD WANT IT EVERYDAY ALL DAY LIKE ME
BUT UNFORTUNATLY HE DOESNT, HE WANTS IT ABOUT EVERY TWO DAYS. HE IS WORKING FULL TIME THOUGH AND I KNOW HE HAS TO GET USED TO THAT ALL OVER AGAIN. BUT HE DOES MAKE SURE THAT HE AT LEAST SATISFIES ME 3-4 TIMES A WEEK AND ITS GOOD, GETTING BETTER SO I CANT COMPLAIN. ONLY PROB IS THAT EVERYTIME WE LIE NEXT TO EACH OTHER AND I TOUCH HIS WARM BODY IM INSTANTLY READY- HE SAYS IM JUST A FREAK I LOVE THIS MAN SO MUCH. LAST NIGHT WAS SO SWEET.. WE MADE LOVE OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND THEN AT ONE POINT AS I WAS LYING THERE RESTING HE WAS STROKING MY HAIR AND EYEBROWS AND SINGING A SONG TO ME AND TELLING ME HOW BEAUTIFUL I AM AND SO MANY SWEET THINGS
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I think ours is average. When he first came home it was a little above average but we both wanted it bad . I am also pregnant and he works nights so its a little hard to sync our schedule.. But I am not complaining we average about 4 times a week :P
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Ours is def above average I intially thought that I was around average but after reading previous posts, above average is more appropriate term. We are MWI so everything was brand new sexual experience with eachother. When he first came home it was like 3 times a day. Now he's been home for almost 3 months and we average about 5 times a week...
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no complaints but I chase him down most of the time, and I swore it would be the opposite when he came home....HA!
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I cant keep my hands off of him and he doesnt mind one bit . Hes only been home a week now and I just got my monthly visit thats ok though , it will give MY leg muscles time to stop being so damn sore !!!!!
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i'm so jealous my baby won't be home for at least 18 months if not longer
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If I'm close enough to touch, he's trying to get it..and he's been home over a year now!!

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Me and Woody were always at it when he first came home, and I guess we just have this drive that is crazy cause up until he started working nights, we had a more than average sex life, now, it is more like friday, sat, sunday, but if we cross paths during the week, it is on and popping, and praying he is not late for work. LMAO.
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when my guy got out a few months ago from his prison term, we were average..i thought it woulda been more. most of the time i wanted it more than he did. then he went back in 5 months ago, now he says he wishes we'd done it more, but he thought we had forever and didnt know he'd end up going bac. we'll see when he gets out this next time i guess
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Ok Im back in this thread 2 months later . I am happy to say that my man and I are way above average . Neither of us can keep our hands off of eachother. We average about 2 times a day . The instant he touches me I feel electricity run through my body . All I have to do is lay in our bed (or anywhere) next to him and his blood gets rushing . More news from us is that we got married 2 weeks after his release so now I carry his last name , the next thing I pray to carry is his baby.
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It was much sex but not more than I can stand. Its always been like that for us, sex all the time, everywhere, so there was no change from before to after incarcerated
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The first time he came home to me was the first time we had sex as we had MWI'd. The second time he came home to me we'd been together of course. Both times same scenario, AMAZING sex life we share, this is one area where neither of us have any complaints!

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WOW!!! Sex...do you suppose they will still be having sex in 2020? I hope so, I'm looking forward!!
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mrsa.gray i believe i would have a hard time also, but i guess u just have to imagine you are somewhere else, dont be worried about the facts just worry about u and him...do things to take his mind off of it *hint hiny* I dont get conjugal visits oh but if i did trust me he'd be giving it to me
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