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View Poll Results: Has your man owned up to what he was convicted of?
Yes, he has owned up to all of it. Guilty as charged. 257 70.03%
Sort of, he has owned up to parts of it. 63 17.17%
No, but I have a feeling that he did it. 7 1.91%
No, and I really don't think that he did it. 12 3.27%
No, and I know for a fact that he didn't do it. He's innocent! 28 7.63%
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Old 10-18-2005, 02:40 PM
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Yes he is guilty of the original charge that put him in there but he went back 11 years ago for being late to parole officer and that was bogus. The parole office and him had a personality conflict from day one. He owns his own business and was very successful and I think the PO thought he was not entitled to make more money than him. We laugh about it and when he comes home next year we are keeping a low profile as far as fiances go.
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Old 10-18-2005, 02:54 PM
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not only does he finally own up to what he did, he had a damn hard time denying it cause he was doing it around me until i got pregnant. he went down for dealing and at first he pissed and moaned but now he says i did the crime i'll do the time. and i am glad hes accepting responsibility for his actions.
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Old 10-18-2005, 03:15 PM
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My man never once tried to cover or offer an excuse. I did it, I got caught, I was stupid for doing it. I learned a lesson. Gotta be proud of a man who can admit when he messed up no matter the cost.The truth makes it easier to love him. My daddy always said a man shows his true colors when times get rough. I have to say.......I love my husbands colors (smile).
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Old 11-14-2005, 05:06 PM
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My mans accident was definitly his fault...he was drinking and driving...at first he didnt want to admit it, but after he found recovery he came clean and told me that he took full responsibility for his actions and on the day of the sentencing told the court that he was so sorry and would speak out against drunk driving when he returned home from prison...My baby is such a good man.
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Old 11-15-2005, 05:48 PM
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yeah my man did it. And they caught him read handed, but to lessen his sentence he said he was a user not a dealer, but they did not buy it. he had to much stuff on him so instead of getting a 365( one year) they gave him a 3flat for trying to be slick
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Old 11-15-2005, 05:51 PM
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My man told me everything that happened and he knew he was wrong!
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Old 11-15-2005, 07:20 PM
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I know for an absolute fact that my hubby is inocent, but to put it in his words he did enough stuff in his younger years that he should have been caught for and done time for that Karma just caught up with him. And i would like to add at this point that prison has been GOOD for our relationship. It got him clean and sober and gave him the clarity to realize what was really important in life. SOOO sometimes GOD really does do things in strange ways.
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Old 11-20-2005, 09:26 PM
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yeah my man did it and they caught him on tape he say s he is guilty and he sorry but that dont cut it or make it right but yes he is owning up to itlike a good boy
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Old 06-16-2006, 08:08 AM
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Yes he knows that he alone put himself where he is. I think at first he was quick to blame others but he has since matured in his way of thinking and completely realizes that the blame is all on him.
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Old 06-16-2006, 08:50 AM
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yes he has - he told me from day one what happened....i recently had the opportunity to see his court documents and everything he said was in there!
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Old 06-16-2006, 09:43 AM
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Mine didn't have to tell me, I already knew. We had lost touch for like 8 years and I just happen to be looking online for something and decided to enter his name in Yahoo Search and sure enough his appeal case came up. So when I finally spoke to him, he said how did you know and I told him and asked him exactly what happened and he told me the truth.
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Old 06-16-2006, 11:48 AM
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One of my friends owns up to it completely. Another says he didn't do what he is currently incarcerated for. I don't think he did that because he wasn't even in the same town that it happened at, but it is probably all the dirt that he did do and got away from him coming back to haunt him.
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Old 06-16-2006, 03:45 PM
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I've known what he did from the beginning but that and what he pled to are two different things. The charge did not match the crime.
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Old 06-16-2006, 06:39 PM
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My guy owns up to what he did. He got pulled over with his friends and they had a couple guns. One of which was his and with him being a felon, they arrested him. But he's never lied or denied anything.
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Old 06-16-2006, 07:00 PM
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My baby is guilty and admits to it. I sometimes catch him trying to make excuses or blaming some parts of his crime on someone else, but he takes credit for most of it
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Old 06-16-2006, 08:12 PM
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I was on the phone with him when he was pulled over. He couldn't tell me every thing that was going on and I really couldn't hear. But when he didn't call me for our usual morning "chat", I knew he had been arrested. And yes he did tell me every thing that happeded as soon as he could call me. I wasn't upset, and to this day I still don't know why I haven't laid into him for all of this!
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Old 06-22-2006, 05:39 PM
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Mine is innocent of what he is in for, no doubt in my mind or anyone else's that really knows him.

However, he was no saint on the streets, so he felt the need to share with me everything else he was doing before he was locked up that was wrong...so I know every little sordid detail of his past (which I never asked).

He keeps saying that even though he didn't do what he is serving time for, he probably would have wound up doing some time anyway, but for rather minor offenses...nothing like what he has on his record now.
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My guy not only owns up to what he did but he almost planned on getting arrested. You see his oldest son had gotten arrested just a month before and my guy basically wanted to get busted so he could be with his son and take care of him.

Well his plan didn't work as well as he thought - they are in different prisons and his son only had to do 6 months. My guy got two years. He really sees how much his actions effected the rest of the family and in the long run, didn't help his son much at all.
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I was arround when nathan was charged i know the whole story of how what and why it all happened so he really never had to admit anything to me. i think his charge is very unfair but i love him anyways
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From the moment he commited the crime he owned up. He has nothing to hide from me or our families about this. He handed himself into police as soon as he commited his crime and realized what he had done.
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Old 06-27-2006, 08:55 AM
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From day one, my man has admitted that he was guilty. I think that accountability is one of the things that I love the most about him. I don't think that he should've caught as much time as he did, but we only have a year left, so we're almost there.
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Old 07-06-2006, 09:22 PM
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Yeah He Owns Up To It All.... He Says He Knew He Was Wrong And He Cant Be Bitter About His Time Cause He Was Guilty. Part Of Me Loves Him So Much Cause He Takes Full Responsibilty For His Actions.he Never Trys To Put It Off On Any Addictions Or Anything Like That ( No Offense To Anyone Else Man) He Was Being Stupid And Did Something Stupid And Now He Will Owe The State 10yrs Cause Of His Stupidity. But Yeah He Takes Responsobility......... He Is Sorry For His Crime But He Does Thank God He Is There And Not Dead Cause It Could Have Been That Way!!!!
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Old 07-06-2006, 09:24 PM
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From the get go my husband owned up to everything he did that landed him where he is... Never tried to alter the story so that it wasn't his fault or anything.

It wasn't until we started talking about getting married and the idea that he could actually have a 'normal' life with someone who loved him that he actually realized how bad he messed up and actually decided to try and get on the right path. He calls me his saving grace. So while he fessed up to everything it wasn't till a year and a half ago that it actually impacted his life. If that makes sense.
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