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Old 12-06-2017, 11:31 PM
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I don’t have any answers for you but I’ve been thinking about you. I hope something changes and you are able to be with your husband. I can’t inmagine how difficult this must be for you.
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I too hope something changes for you, this seems so unfair on you both.
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Happy Birthday! I'm sorry you are going through this.
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I can't imagine how frustrated and hurt you must be.

I hope that you found some happiness and celebration today for your birthday.
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I am appalled!! Is this really even allowed? You're his legal wife-can she actually cut all communication between you two like this?! Ridiculous! Do speak with a lawyer-this just isn't right. I am so sorry you're having to go through this, but love will prevail, and I know you and he will too!
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Originally Posted by Revenwyn View Post
I don't know anything. I guess neither of you read the posted update at the end of this. They cut off our communication almost two months ago. I'm not allowed to talk to him or even find out anything about him. Because I'm possibly on the autism spectrum, they believe that developmentally I am not capable of consenting to marriage and that he manipulated me into it. This was all decided without even talking to me.

My birthday's tomorrow and I won't be hearing from him.
Unfortunately, any time the govt has any kind of control over someone, they will go crazy over it and use it to control every aspect of that persons life.

That's why it's crucial not to support any group that pushes for more govt, because otherwise, what is affecting you and your spouse, will affect EVERYONE. Sorry, that was off topic.

I think the previous post about getting a lawyer is a good one, although it may be that if you get a psychological evaluation proving your mental competence, then that would be enough to justify your relationship to the authorities. Although, like I said, they are control hungry, so don't be surprised if you did give them the documentation, if they just completely ignored it. Based on what you say here, though, it's more then obvious you are mentally competent.

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Just saw this and I am horrified. I hope you are able to reach a resolution. We are all rooting for you.
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