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View Poll Results: Erotic Letters to Send or Not?
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03-20-2013, 12:46 PM
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Erotic Prison & Jail Letters
Hey there!
So I have been reading and reading and reading and I can not find any recent threads about sending "erotic" letters!
I thought we were not "SUPPOSED" to send them... but my BF is asking for details on things... and have only been giving him enough to keep his attention peaked because I dont want him to get in trouble for something that I have written (...but I really really really want to answer his questions!)
SO!
Do we send them or not?
How far do you take it?
What can they get "in trouble" for?
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03-20-2013, 02:55 PM
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I send them and my man has not gotten into trouble yet.
I do not know what they can get in trouble for. I thought if I go too far in the letter, they just won't give my man the letter. Maybe I am wrong. He has gotten all mine so far. For the first letter I sent to him, I gave nicknames for body parts because I wasn't sure if I was allowed to write the word in the letter, lol. Now I write a lot more then just the proper name of the body.
So unless someone else has had a different experience, just answer his questions and enjoy.
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03-20-2013, 04:03 PM
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Me and my husband send very explicit, like XXXX rated letters to one another.. they can't do anything about it... besides they can get porno magazines in there, just no nudity pics from home. So to be quite honest you have nothing to worry about. 
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I took parts out of 50 shades of grey && sent them to my man
I highlighted and underlined all the parts that I wanted him to do to me
certainly had his attention
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03-20-2013, 05:06 PM
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I've tried writing that kind of letters but never get more than 5 to 10 lines. I wish I could write a few pages long "erotic" letter... Mhhmm maybe If i read something to use as inspiration. but i feel weird with the firty talking and all that lol ^.^
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Originally Posted by Wonderlandian
I've tried writing that kind of letters but never get more than 5 to 10 lines. I wish I could write a few pages long "erotic" letter... Mhhmm maybe If i read something to use as inspiration. but i feel weird with the firty talking and all that lol ^.^
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Try hoochymail it's fun actually and it asks you random question's and then you choose a story and boom it's your erotic letter
http://hoochymail.com/
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03-20-2013, 08:31 PM
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I just started sending hubby some writings. For me it's easy to just remember scenes from our love life, slightly change the scenarios, put it in words and then send... I discovered that if I let the words flow without second guessing myself it is better. I am too new at this and I become weary if I read my words. So I write, I seal, I send... lol. And then I wait for his reaction. He has yet to write me one of the steamy letters... mainly because he is trying to "think" about it. So I told him to wait until words flow... (might be a while, huh?)
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You can receive and send "erotic" letters with every detail you want to include. They do not get in trouble for these letters. And trust me the more detailed you are the more fascinating it is to him. 
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I send and receive them..  It's his turn. We call them smut letters and they are very explicit. So far, no trouble whatsoever. 
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03-20-2013, 09:14 PM
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I can write pages and have. Many, many 'hot stuff' letters.
No one got in trouble but I got a letter back one time.
Let's just say it was a little too forceful for the mail clerk, I guess. The letter they sent back only said it was too violently graphic. There was not even any whips, chains or blood...just a little force. Okay, a little more than Christian shelled out, but still....
Just be careful you don't waste a stamp.
*yes, I know....just one.more.thing to worry about!
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I have been sending him naughty letters from the beginning and I get them from him all the time. He told me that he doesnt get in trouble for them. But not to start off a letter talking dirty wait till the 2nd page of the letter. You guys should checkout that website. Its really creative I printed one off for him tonight. Ill let u know what he said about it LOL
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it takes me awhile to get it started, i sit there all bashful  but then after i've managed to get a paragraph or so  i sorta get into it and next thing i know i got a smokin page or two! 
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03-21-2013, 01:19 AM
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I sent my first one a week ago in reply to his first one to me. We have said that every Friday is date night so we both write a letter and send it so it should arrive by friday. (I send Jpays so he gets the same night) The letter describes a date we are on and then will end with a sexy fantacy. I'll be writing my second one 2moro. We didn't want every letter to be like that so that it is something to look forward to. Happy writing you will soon get into it 
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03-21-2013, 02:09 AM
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Oh gosh please don't use hoochy mail, oh man I hate that goofy shit. Anything you wrote yourself would be better. I prefer to type my letters on the computer, that way I can illustrate with erotic photos my own and some favs I've located. I own a PSO business, one of my staple items is hardcore writings so its not an issue. Never had any problem with the IDOC, frankly I don't think their deep enough to 'get" it LOL. I'm just sayin'
For anyone having trouble getting started, just remember an especially amazing time the two of you have experienced together and write it exactly as it ocurred. Don't leave anything out, not even the tiniest details. You'll be glad you did. 
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03-21-2013, 05:24 AM
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I did one of them I thought it was hysterical. and he has that kind of sense of humor. I did the funny one. I dont have any trouble writing them or thinking of sceneros to write. Im sure its not for everyone but everynow and then he will get a kick out of it.
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When I wrote them I was very discriptve but tasteful. He enjoyed the letters without me ever using vulgar "super-hoochie" words. It made the letters more exciting. He was loving them. But if your man is the type that like vulgarity have at it. NYDOC didn't have any problem with it. Pictures you had to be more careful with. Have fun with writing these letters! I found a few great websites that helped me out with setting the scene and what we were doing in a very erotic and exotic way.
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03-21-2013, 08:43 AM
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My man and I have written several X-rated letters to one another. It keeps our "sex life" alive... so to speak. We write very naughty scenes to each other that get pretty detailed.
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03-21-2013, 12:15 PM
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Me and my guy send them. He has been hounding me about finishing up the short story I started. We have never got into any trouble for them and we are pretty explicit with it.
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Ive been writting em since i found out i could jus recently i sent hm some pics that i gor sure thought were goin to get sent back but lucky for him they went through guess ill be whippin up a few more... have fun ladies
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I write them all the time and I say exactly how I feel and they all go through..some of them are more tasteful then others but he loves them all! LOL!
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We just exchanged our first letters. Well I received mine today and will be mailing the one I wrote him tomorrow. I can't wait to hear his response. It was a lot easier to write than I anticipated.
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Yes, I send the emails & I haven't had a problem sending or receiving them.
He enjoys them very much & I usually surprise him with an email when he least expects it.
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I have gotten very very specific and erotic letters which go into great details and she has never gotten into trouble over them. She is in a NY Facility
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Originally Posted by JAR11
Hey there!
So I have been reading and reading and reading and I can not find any recent threads about sending "erotic" letters!
I thought we were not "SUPPOSED" to send them... but my BF is asking for details on things... and have only been giving him enough to keep his attention peaked because I dont want him to get in trouble for something that I have written (...but I really really really want to answer his questions!)
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My fiancee is in GA (served 10 years already) and he says they don't "read" the letters, just check them for specific things to ensure they don't contain things that contain drugs etc. Other than that, I've written him "naughty" letters as we call them. I use detail and nothing has ever happened because of it. The only time I had a letter sent back was when I tried to sneak a lock of my hair to him!
If for any reason a letter contains anything prohibited, they send it back. I've never heard of anyone getting in trouble for something an "outsider" has done.
Hope that helps.
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I have sent xxx mail and he's gotten them. I sent some before thru jpay and they didn't deliver it, so I called them. They could see my email and kind of akwardly said well the content might not be able to be sent. I said we are 2 consenting adults, I don't see why he couldn't get the jpay. Two days later he got it but I had hand written it (4pages) and mailed it too. I just did that hoochie mail site. It was cool! I'm gonna print it out for him.  when I write my "nasty letters" I call them lol I just start a scene in my head and write/type it out from beginning to end. 
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