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Old 04-25-2012, 03:23 AM
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10 Weeks with no letter?? Have you talked to him? I would be freaking out too! I hope you hear from him soon. Keep your head up and think positives thoughts
Thank you for your kind words!
No, I haven't been able to talk to him. I'm living in Europe and have no possibility to visit right now. I also couldn't figure out how to get a phone account which isn't too expensive. It's hard not to know what is going on...
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Old 04-25-2012, 06:37 AM
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Thank you for your kind words!
No, I haven't been able to talk to him. I'm living in Europe and have no possibility to visit right now. I also couldn't figure out how to get a phone account which isn't too expensive. It's hard not to know what is going on...
I would check the inmate locator and see if he is still at the same prison.
Hang in there,sometimes it is as simple as them going to the hole and having none of their supplies follow them.
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Old 04-25-2012, 07:01 AM
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I would check the inmate locator and see if he is still at the same prison.
Hang in there,sometimes it is as simple as them going to the hole and having none of their supplies follow them.
Thank you for the hint!! I checked with the inmate locator, location hasn't changed.
Do they forward letters if they move to another yard or cell? He should have received by now 3 letters and a number if postcards.
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Old 04-25-2012, 07:35 AM
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Thank you for the hint!! I checked with the inmate locator, location hasn't changed.
Do they forward letters if they move to another yard or cell? He should have received by now 3 letters and a number if postcards.
They do forward them and it can take sometime. Hopefully mail will come soon.
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Old 04-25-2012, 07:43 AM
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Ok just got an update on J, he is at Northwest Reception Center Annex in Chipley, FL. He is still on Closed Management, but once he moves from Northwest he will be at a different level. I think it will be either max or medium. He will also go to a different facility too as his home camp. I am hoping he will move to his home camp within the next two weeks. Better yet I hope it is close to his mom near Tampa, FL. I just hope I hear from him today, and I hope his mail in general will not take forever and a day to reach him!(and vise versa!!)
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Old 04-25-2012, 07:45 AM
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I hope so. But to ask in person it's such a large question. I'm not sure I have the guts. I asked my son he says "it means you like me mom"
You are a strong woman! You can do it! If you don't ask him you will never know!
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Old 04-25-2012, 09:04 AM
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Ok just got an update on J, he is at Northwest Reception Center Annex in Chipley, FL. He is still on Closed Management, but once he moves from Northwest he will be at a different level. I think it will be either max or medium. He will also go to a different facility too as his home camp. I am hoping he will move to his home camp within the next two weeks. Better yet I hope it is close to his mom near Tampa, FL. I just hope I hear from him today, and I hope his mail in general will not take forever and a day to reach him!(and vise versa!!)
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You are a strong woman! You can do it! If you don't ask him you will never know!
I know. He had such a great answer when he said what he meant by it when he told me. He's trying to get our in person relationship as deep as our letter one. It's safe in letters. Hello my name is wimp.
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I know. He had such a great answer when he said what he meant by it when he told me. He's trying to get our in person relationship as deep as our letter one. It's safe in letters. Hello my name is wimp.
And he is so right about that. Me and my boyfriend have REALLY opened up to each other...but mostly through letters. I'm actually afraid to talk to him because Idk how to let all those words I wrote come out of my mouth.Meanwhile, he's super excited.LOL. But soon we will be talking and I'm just gonna open my mouth and let my heart speak for me
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Old 04-25-2012, 11:52 AM
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Ok just got an update on J, he is at Northwest Reception Center Annex in Chipley, FL. He is still on Closed Management, but once he moves from Northwest he will be at a different level. I think it will be either max or medium. He will also go to a different facility too as his home camp. I am hoping he will move to his home camp within the next two weeks. Better yet I hope it is close to his mom near Tampa, FL. I just hope I hear from him today, and I hope his mail in general will not take forever and a day to reach him!(and vise versa!!)
Yay! Fingers crossed for you. Keep on mind hearing from him may take some time now.
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No letter from J today.......
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No letter from J today.......
Same here. But Thursday's are my guaranteed mail days*fingers crossed* .if nothing tomorrow ===> :'(
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Old 04-25-2012, 02:25 PM
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I think why I am not getting any mail is because J moved facilities. I am hoping by Saturday I get something from him. I would be happy with Babe I am fine they moved me. I love you. Atleast I would know he is ok and he loves me!
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Old 04-25-2012, 03:06 PM
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And he is so right about that. Me and my boyfriend have REALLY opened up to each other...but mostly through letters. I'm actually afraid to talk to him because Idk how to let all those words I wrote come out of my mouth.Meanwhile, he's super excited.LOL. But soon we will be talking and I'm just gonna open my mouth and let my heart speak for me
We have done it all though letters because we didn't have contact visits until jan. I don't know how to say the things I write in person. But he blushes too so it's sweet and cute.
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Old 04-25-2012, 04:05 PM
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I think why I am not getting any mail is because J moved facilities. I am hoping by Saturday I get something from him. I would be happy with Babe I am fine they moved me. I love you. Atleast I would know he is ok and he loves me!
Yea that would definitely cause a delay. I think it took about a week to hear from my boyfriend when he got moved. He only had one sheet of paper at the time so His letter was on a piece of paper he tore in half. One half for me and one for his mom. He used the top half for me ) lol *blushes*I'm so weird. Anyways you should be hearing from him soon it just takes a few days for them to get bunked and set up
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We have done it all though letters because we didn't have contact visits until jan. I don't know how to say the things I write in person. But he blushes too so it's sweet and cute.
Yea its soooo much easier through letters. The next step is over the phone. I can't even imagine saying it in person. I am still kinda shy around him. He says when I'm quiet he thinks I'm plotting or up to something LOL. Hopefully I can just open and let go with him. *fingers crossed*
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Old 04-25-2012, 04:30 PM
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She didn't flake. She went from 10:30 to 1pm when he said he had to leave. I'm only strong because I believe and trust him and know nothing she says or does is trustworthy. He wrote and said that she brought gossip and he said not to mention his name to anyone. She also reported she is seeing some guy. Truthfully I doubt it unless he's on drugs or she's paying him. (mean side of me) She's too much of a freak. I trust my guy. We are still in the "dating" stage but if we enter into full on relationship status I'd rather she not visit. I feel like I can't completely ask for that yet but I could then. Maybe I can now. Either way she isn't a threat to me. As far as he goes, just to me in the town I live in since no one knows I see him.

Now I have to figure out how to talk to him at visit about the love comment. That's hard for me, I'm shy. I fear rejection.
Hmmm i understand how you feel about the whole rejection....i fear it too but you will never know unless you give it a try
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Yea that would definitely cause a delay. I think it took about a week to hear from my boyfriend when he got moved. He only had one sheet of paper at the time so His letter was on a piece of paper he tore in half. One half for me and one for his mom. He used the top half for me ) lol *blushes*I'm so weird. Anyways you should be hearing from him soon it just takes a few days for them to get bunked and set up
It was a week or so when my guy moved. But I check the locator and I knew he was gone and was already calling to get his address. No moss on this girl. hopefully he can contact you soon.
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Hmmm i understand how you feel about the whole rejection....i fear it too but you will never know unless you give it a try
My friends all say that too. He said that he needs to me take what he says at face value and I do. So. Will be brave and look at the floor and try to learn to be comfortable talking about feelings in person. I guess if he wasn't willing to say something decent he'd have answered in the letter not said lets do it in person. Right?
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Yea its soooo much easier through letters. The next step is over the phone. I can't even imagine saying it in person. I am still kinda shy around him. He says when I'm quiet he thinks I'm plotting or up to something LOL. Hopefully I can just open and let go with him. *fingers crossed*
Okay I could do the phone too but we barely have had one call so in person we will figure it out. We spend about 4.5hrs every sat together. When I'm quiet he says I'm having a problem because I talk way too much. Except I don't talk about our feelings for each other. I could say oh I'd feel this way or that if that happened. But I can't say i think of you like this or at that time. I turn bright red.

Okay I will cross fingers that you and I both can open up and be comfortable.
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Old 04-25-2012, 10:31 PM
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My friends all say that too. He said that he needs to me take what he says at face value and I do. So. Will be brave and look at the floor and try to learn to be comfortable talking about feelings in person. I guess if he wasn't willing to say something decent he'd have answered in the letter not said lets do it in person. Right?
Yeah....so true...but do you know him from before he got busted that way you would know what he really wants you get me
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Yeah....so true...but do you know him from before he got busted that way you would know what he really wants you get me
I've known him about 6 yrs now. 5 before this and then the year he's been gone. We didn't date before but I did think he was great. We just happened to have our first date the week before he left. So our second date was our first visit in county. He was shocked to see me. He's actually very open and loves to share with me. Otherwise he's super private. I'm in the "inner circle" not that big of a circle it's really just me then some friends. : ) I know his hopes and dreams and I know his fears. One being that he's lost his hopes and dreams because his sentence is long. We have shared more than my ex husband and I ever did. So weird. I'm kinda nervous and kinda excited about sat visit but I think I may not be brave enough to bring it up or he may disappoint me by saying something vague. Sat is fast approaching...
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still no letter today. ive mailed 4 letters, a packet, and a postcard since the 16th. i hope he got them. the packet had enevlopes, paper, and stamps so he could write back, but so far no letter . the last letter I got from him was last week and he was mad that I haven't been writing. even though I have. I hate the waiting game.

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I go thru this alot cuz neither one of us have much money. Don't know how long u've know each other but all I can say is for me as time has gone on (which is about a year) its not bothering me as much when I don't see the letter in the mailbox cuz I know its coming and I know its hurting him just as much not being able to send one. Before I swear I could actually hear my heart tearing when I heard nothing..now yeah sure I want to see that letter and god do I devour it like I haven't eaten for months-but not the same feeling. I just went thru going without from March 28th to April 18th and theres been longer times than that..than things get better on his end and I'll get a letter every week..up n down..

Make sure he realizes that sumtimes ur letters get hung up in the mail room. Me and mine had a problem with that ..he was thinking I was slowing wayyy down on his letters and then all of a sudden he got buried with 4 at once. We've come to understand that the letters and the emails both sumtimes have time delays that are out of our control. Plus on ur end keep in mind sometimes things happen in there..Mine has told me a couple times "Baby if you don't hear from me for a minute please know that its by force not by choice".

Give it sum more time..u said the 16th? Usually if I'd get myself into a panic about ..oh oh did I say sumthing wrong? ..is he upset with me?.. the letter would show up the next day and then I'd go

ur lucky you get to send him stamps and a packet. I can't send a thing to mine and all I wish was I could send him a book of stamps or even a few...

Hoping u get that letter thats like gold tomorrow..or should I say today..I can't say for sure but I bet cha its comin kimmy
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you made me feel better ! thanks !

im just anxious to know of he's got his release date yet and to make sure he got the letters. I don't want him to think I abandoned him. when he was in county he would get my letters exactly 7 days later. he just got to reception at wasco so i don't know how their mail works yet.

hopefully I get a letter tomorrow or friday *crosses fingers and prays to the mail gods*
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