My husband has a daughter who's 5 yrs old ,, him & the mother of his child dont really get along... Shes stubborn cause he's moved on. . . She recently let her visit her dad now, but she doesnt really know him && that hurts his feelings. . I just know ill be everything + more, a wife, mother and all to him.. I can show OUR child the love me and my husband didnt recieve from our parents. . I also think a child would help me through this time, I have my step daughter but. . I dont always have her. . . I know I gotta wait but ughh, y we didnt make one before he left :[
Sometimes children make it harder. My 5 year old asked everyday when her daddy is coming home & our 19 month old doesn't remember him. It hurts me...& it really hurts him. We don't get to visit him very often & it's behind a plastic window that has mesh in it....you can't even see each other! I'm just hoping and praying that he gets paroled by 2014
I want a baby too , but do u want him to miss out on your growing belly and all those important moments? I used to take my goddaughter to see her dad when she was small and now her mom takes her and shes about to be 3 , it breAks my heart to see her cry when she has to leave and says bye papi i love u she walks around carrying his pics with her in visit. And i kno it breaks him down alot knowing he missed out on so much and hell never get that back.