When the Relationship is Over...This forum is about discussing your thoughts, feelings and issues now that you and your incarcerated (or formerly incarcerated) loved one are no longer together. (This forum is NOT for bashing - please read the rules before posting.)
I am ready to move on with my life. I would never do this again. The brutal truth (and I am sure that everyone will chime in with how perfect their man is) is that even they don't know what they will be like when they come home. Usually its not good.[/font]
You aint ever lying
Its hurting you, but its killing me.....
The Following User Says Thank You to thugwife For This Useful Post:
Sweetie, obviously you are very much remembered. (smile)
Can't believe it's been two years since he was released. I, too, am so sorry to hear that he's not stepped up to the plate. Yours was a relationship I thought would make it and was hoping no news was good news...
You followed your heart and gave this your all and now you don't have to look back and think, what would have happened if I hadn't followed my heart and had given up. Now, you know. You shouldn't have any regrets about that. Take what was great between the two of you and cherish it. Take what wasn't great and learn from it as best you can...and then move on.
When "the one" who deserves a strong, committed, incredible lady comes along...and he will...it will be your time to be treated like the special woman you are...
The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to Critter07 For This Useful Post:
So sorry you're hurting and things didn't work out. I'm grateful you posted your update. For those of us waiting, it's a heartbreaking but important reminder to maintain realistic expectations. Thank you.
I wish you all the best.
The Following User Says Thank You to countryzgirl For This Useful Post:
I do remember you and I'm sorry for what happened. Everything is a learning experience. I'm not sure what happened to cause you to put him out but I'm sure you had a valid reason for doing it. Just remember the way you feel right now when the calls start coming because they always do.
The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to afirsttimer For This Useful Post:
I waited for my hubby for 2 years. He came home in August and by mid October we were about to separate. He got arrested for a PV and he has been back in jail since October. During this time we have talked about all that has gone wrong and what we are gonna do to change things. I never in a million years thought my hubby would come home and act the way he did. He's suppose to be home this month and we are gonna take it slow. I hope it works out, but I really don't know if it will. I wish u the best.
August 26, 2011 My life is Complete again!
The Following User Says Thank You to scorpiolover28 For This Useful Post:
I remember you...so sorry you are going through such heartache (((hugs))) this sucks big time and I wish I had the words that would put your mind and heart at ease. Reality is we must go through the pain and anger to face it and move past it, you deserve so much better and I wish that one day you will see this only as a memory. Remember that forgiving his behavior also plays a very important role in your life, forgiving is not forgetting but it makes it easier to move on....
I love you baby! You and I til the End of our time....
Psalm 46:1 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
The Following User Says Thank You to Jay1 For This Useful Post:
My heart is with you and I do to remember you (we were counting down release dates at the same time) and was hoping to hear the best since I hadn't seen any updates from you in some time. Look within for the strength that carried you through those years, and anchor them in your heart to find the love that's made you the beautiful person you are.
__________________ "Waiting is negative; hoping is positive. so try to wait with hope. This will help you remember that you're on your way to something worth waiting for."
Am not sure if u are religious but Hold onto God,read the bible Have Faith u will see that all will be ok..ive been down this road and time is the healer of all!! The road isnt easy but u will get thru it Believe me!!
And i will never be the same foolish girl that fell for ur words and i will rise from this like never before!
i remember you we were on another prison site together and am very sorry your story ended bad ,i know right now your hurting cause i felt the same way 10yrs down with my exx,but were so lucky to have rid our lives of these boi's i wish you lots of luck
As with many - I remember reading your posts. I am sorry that it ended badly. With or without prison as a catalyst - staying together with another human being is a hard thing. I have always been a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. Continue to move forward, don't change the softness in your heart, the right "one" will come along that can truly love and appreciate the wonderful person that is you. Hugs and prayers going out to you.