Having a "no mail" day? Need a mail dance? Drop your vents here and forget 'em!

[Somerset Penpal]

Originally Posted by Somerset Penpal

I'm a little pissed right now and when I say a little I mean a lot
I got a letter from him on Dec. 29th but it was dated 12/20. The delay was on my end b/c I was out of town. In his letter he asked me to do a favor for one of his friends which I did that very next morning. I mailed off my happy new year card on 12/23 and some pictures of our snow storm shortly thereafter. I emailed him on 12/30 a quick 1 line message about one of his cousins. As of today there is no mail in my box!!

I am looking for a reply to my NY card, my pictures, my email about his cousin and my email letting him know that the favor he asked for (not even for him) was done.

Ok.....almost a week later and still no mail
Part of me is pissed (a big part) and part of me is worried that something in wrong
I don't want to be a crazy stalker chick but damn it I want my mail!!!!!

[danamb22]

okay ;. no mail AGAIN..goodnightt all =)

[SickoluvzOD]

I was getting letters everyday so i guess it spoiled me.lol..ive been stalking my postman for the past 2 days for the mail and NOTHING!! im soo sad!! ive been having a rough week & was looking foward to my letters..hopefully tomorrow!

[cpywluv]

No mail since Monday and I'm dying!!!! It usually doesn't take his a$$ this long to get something out to me!!! Better be mail tomorrow!!!!

[SickoluvzOD]

I got mail today!!!! One letter but still..it made my day!! Fiiinally..and i visit sunday!! =) hope all you lovely ladies get mail sooon!!!! Have a great weekend..xo..

[danamb22]

No mail...again... just a lil over 2 weeks =( . so sad. i dont understand =(

[Somerset Penpal]

Originally Posted by Somerset Penpal

Ok.....almost a week later and still no mail
Part of me is pissed (a big part) and part of me is worried that something in wrong
I don't want to be a crazy stalker chick but damn it I want my mail!!!!!

I just wanted to let you all know that I FINALLY got my mail

[DaNewMrsPeoples]

Im new to this and I dont like it. My baby still in recieving and I'm getting worried. I thought they would give him at least one write out. I dont even know if he has gotten the 25 letters I have sent him 2 weeks ago. I want to snatch the mailman's bag and see if he just over looked my letter. My baby use to write me 10 letters a week when he was just in county. This is not fair I need a letter so I can sleep better. Im thinking I should stop writting until I get a letter back. I even have sent him word seach books and have not got a thing. Is it him or that damn facility. I cant take it!

[akaptrosa]

Okay, I'm STILL WAITING on a letter that was mailed on 1-2-2010!!! I've gotten lots of other letters, but still missing this one that has some pics in it! GRRRRRRR!

[stabilo]

Please mail dance for me! I'm feeling so sad, having a bad day. I just travelled a loooooong way to visit my man, spent a lot of money, and told him for the first time that I'll wait for him, and he hasn't written in weeks! He sent two letters after the visits saying how much he loves me, how he sees our future, telling me about stuff going on with him - all beautiful letters... now every day brings no mail, and I am feeling blue. He just moved camps and said he would write as soon as he got there, but hasn't!

What do you do? Can I tell him one letter every three weeks doesn't seem a relationship to me? If we can't touch, can't talk (we can't talk on the phone) - all we have are words. I would like to feel like a team, that he's sharing some time with me, even if it's about boring things, or is just a little note.

I wondered if perhaps we are just 'walking at different paces', and I need to slow down and accept that his pace is slower than mine, but just now I just wonder if he just doesn't think of me between letters. It struck me, perhaps he writes these beautiful, intense letters, but doesn't feel it as deeply as me. I also wonder if his idea of relationships is stuck in teenage years because he has been away for a while. I couldn't blame him for this.

Is it fair to wait until I hear from him, see how his letter is, and let him know how I feel in my reply? I don't want to seem like a crazy intense girlfriend who wants all his time and attention, as it just isn't true. I am a strong believer that there is no such thing as being 'too busy' for a person. Everyone prioritizes and this just means you have prioritized other things over that person. I just want to feel a little love, and that we are keeping this relationship strong until he's out in 3 years 9 months!

Sorry for this huge vent! Ha ha!
Please mail dance for me. I am doing the same for all you lovely ladies! x

[danamb22]

No maiil today ;; 3 weeks I wonder if he had a major violation in december;;maybe this is why its a delay i usally get one,once a week .. idk hopefully something comes this week..

[mcara]

Originally Posted by danamb22

No maiil today ;; 3 weeks I wonder if he had a major violation in december;;maybe this is why its a delay i usally get one,once a week .. idk hopefully something comes this week..

Hi I'm still waiting too it's driving me insane getting to the point I think I've done something wrong or said something stupid. (see that's the paranoid thoughts kicking in)I have been waiting 4 weeks and can't take this anymore Hope everyone gets mail soon and danamb22 i'm sure you're mail will come soon praying for you. dancing too .

[danamb22]

Originally Posted by mcara

Hi I'm still waiting too it's driving me insane getting to the point I think I've done something wrong or said something stupid. (see that's the paranoid thoughts kicking in)I have been waiting 4 weeks and can't take this anymore Hope everyone gets mail soon and danamb22 i'm sure you're mail will come soon praying for you. dancing too .

i hope you get yours this week!!! (=
i know my paranoid has kicked into full swing!
thanks
ill make sure i do some extraa danciing for you..
and some extra extra prayers

[danamb22]

ooo got my letter today !! dum dum me left his # off of envelope OOPS.! think I need prestamped address lol mcara ill be prayiing for yu!!! =) & be danciing awayyyy

[remydarling]

My man and I had been writing for a long while without an inhibition. One night, I lost my keys and on that key ring was my mailbox key. I was broke. I couldn't afford stamps. Everything fell apart all at once. So I can't get my mail, and I can't afford to call and I can't afford to write. I have no idea how that all just fell apart but it did.

I asked my landlord for the back-up key. Landlord goes, "Oh we don't have it. You'll have to call the post office. They're responsible." I call post office. Post office tells me, "Your landlord is responsible." I tell landlord that. Landlord doesn't care. Says the post office doesn't know what they're talking about. Landlord tells me to get a locksmith. Tells me I have to pay for it. I call locksmith. Locksmith charges $100.00 to change the lock.

I cannot afford the locksmith. I can however afford stamps. I start sending him letters. I get sick of not being able to afford a locksmith.

I pick the lock. Seven letters from him there. His last letter was December 20th. His last letter is angry. Sad. Wondering why I haven't written. Thinking that I'm done with him. Like I don't love him anymore. He says it's some fucked up shit, but he wouldn't blame me. It hurt to read those words. Made me cry. As soon as I have stamps, I write--I write more--I write even more. I send him letters galore. I never stop writing. He's getting up to thirteen letters a week. I tell him how much I love him. I tell him how sorry I am. I explain what happened. I tell him about my days. I write with my whole heart. And I wait.

I wait and I wait and I wait.

And nothing.