Aww! How sweet it is. What are some of the 'little' things he does for you?

jmecmama · #1 11-23-2009, 11:47 AM

Friday was my birthday. BF is in Oregon, I live in Nevada... & until Friday night I still had a Nevada phone #. It cost $28 for him to call me for 30 minutes! Omg. Rip off much? Yes. I told him DON'T CALL ME AGAIN UNTIL I CHANGE MY # TO A SALEM AREA CODE! Then it should cost about $1.75. I told him that because HE is the one who pays for our phone calls. He will not allow me to send him any money AT ALL. I knew that when he had called me the Friday before, after that call he only had like $35 left on his account until this coming week. I told him don't call again until my # is changed so that he can call his daughter & his mom. (They both live in the area, so it's inexpensive to call them). He agreed not to call again. On Friday I was out to lunch with my sister, nephew, my son & one of our friends & HE CALLED! He told me he had $30 left on his card, but he HAD to talk to me on my birthday.

No one in my personal life understands why that is SUCH a big deal... & really what a sweet gesture it was. It made my day. All I wanted for my birthday was to hear his voice... & I got my wish.

I love hearing all the sweet things these guys do for us... it makes my heart happy. =) Please... will you share the "little" things your man has done for you, the things people who AREN'T in this kind of relationship just wouldn't understand?

Lovelasts · #2 11-23-2009, 12:00 PM

When my girlfriend called me on her birthday from prison, I was waiting and sang "Happy Birthday" to her, she loved it and loved it even more when I said, "Will you marry me?" She said, "Yes, Baby!" now on her birthday, we have two celebrations!

Shine730 · #3 11-23-2009, 01:16 PM

well this may not sound like much... but we do things ''together''. he tells me what shows hes gonna watch in the coming days and tells me to watch them too so he can be doing something with me. we both love the thanksgiving parade so he said he will make sure he is watching that with me and that he will prolly cry because we always watch it together aw

one.four.three · #4 11-23-2009, 01:26 PM

> He waits to have breakfast together when I go to visit every weekend.
> He has gone crqazy tattooing my name, picture on him OMG!!

whoo hoo!!

> wouldn't call this little haha lol
> we have a date every night with Mr. Phone

All in all, this man is one amazing person and I <3 him so, so much more then I can say I use to before. He has shown me his inter side and the love he has for me

coachy1 · #5 11-23-2009, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Lovelasts

When my girlfriend called me on her birthday from prison, I was waiting and sang "Happy Birthday" to her, she loved it and loved it even more when I said, "Will you marry me?" She said, "Yes, Baby!" now on her birthday, we have two celebrations!

That's so sweet.
Congratulations to you both.

My guy called me on Thursday night, which was my birthday, and was singing Happy Birthday down the phone at me. It was great as that was the first time he'd been able to call in almost a year.

esteli · #6 11-23-2009, 01:53 PM

he calls me very early on saturdays when the guard isn't there watching if the phone is being used or not, he calls before he is allowed to use the phone and brings his guitar and then he sings to me a song he has written for me. oh my gawd this man melts me.

SpicaRigel · #7 11-23-2009, 01:59 PM

Happy Birthday darling! that's so cool!
My b/f that was deported, well every once in awhile when he was out scoring crack for himself he'd remember i loved the 99cent big hot dogs from 7/11 and he'd stop and buy me one.

**BooBoo<3** · #8 11-23-2009, 02:26 PM

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Originally Posted by jmecmama

Friday was my birthday. BF is in Oregon, I live in Nevada... & until Friday night I still had a Nevada phone #. It cost $28 for him to call me for 30 minutes! Omg. Rip off much? Yes. I told him DON'T CALL ME AGAIN UNTIL I CHANGE MY # TO A SALEM AREA CODE! Then it should cost about $1.75. I told him that because HE is the one who pays for our phone calls. He will not allow me to send him any money AT ALL. I knew that when he had called me the Friday before, after that call he only had like $35 left on his account until this coming week. I told him don't call again until my # is changed so that he can call his daughter & his mom. (They both live in the area, so it's inexpensive to call them). He agreed not to call again. On Friday I was out to lunch with my sister, nephew, my son & one of our friends & HE CALLED! He told me he had $30 left on his card, but he HAD to talk to me on my birthday.

No one in my personal life understands why that is SUCH a big deal... & really what a sweet gesture it was. It made my day. All I wanted for my birthday was to hear his voice... & I got my wish.

I love hearing all the sweet things these guys do for us... it makes my heart happy. =) Please... will you share the "little" things your man has done for you, the things people who AREN'T in this kind of relationship just wouldn't understand?

How sweet is this?!!!! Happy birthday girl!!..,

well for me...baby is just SUPER sweet...He is always doing "little things" for me...but they mean SO much...My birthday was on tuesday..and he made it a point to make sure we talked before he got transferred!..He actually got a shirt made for me in there....and he was gonna WEAR it at visit...its pink and everything...sort of airbrushed..i havent seen it yet...cause they moved him..but im anxiously waiting for it...Aside from the drawings, cards, love letters, poems...hes constantly reassuring me of his love in creative little ways...sometimes its not so much what he does...but what he says. It warms my heart. And your right..people in this situation WONT understand...they cant understand how excited i get over a soft little cloth he sent me with his cologne rubbed on it...or how i get butterflies when my phone rings....Another cute thing he does....sometimes i cant pick up and accept the calls..so he'll leave a lil message for the recording to say..and if he knows im working..the machine will be like "you have a collect call from...I LOVE YOU BABY!! " hahaha hes too cute...one time he KNEW i was upset..and changed the whole recording to be in spanish...and left me a little spanish message just to make me laugh...that was a good one...lol anyone..i can be on here all day with the "little things"....but they mean soooo much!

HisElizabeth · #9 11-23-2009, 03:07 PM

When my man was earning some money doing work detail and selling his art, he'd send it all home to me, or when his family sent anything extra. I tried to refuse but he wouldn't have it. He always pulls strings to get a Christmas box sent to my house for me and the kids- two years ago he actually made me a DVD where he went into detail about why and how he loves me and how he sees me. I play it on repeat when I miss him really badly.

And today when I went to see him I wanted a sandwhich but the machines were empty so when the worker came in to fill them he literally snatched the card, ran after her, and got her to let him buy one before any one else. LOL It made me laugh really hard to see this macho man chasing after a lady for a sandwhich. Silly but cute at the same time.

mrchapmanswife · #10 11-23-2009, 07:19 PM

i think its so sweet of my hunny when we are at visit and he starts feeding me his snacks

....aww how cute miss him lots

Shine730 · #11 11-23-2009, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by mrchapmanswife

i think its so sweet of my hunny when we are at visit and he starts feeding me his snacks

....aww how cute miss him lots

same here! I can eat whatever, whenever i want, but he always shares his food with me at visits, he wont even eat if i dont!

jeffsbaby · #12 11-23-2009, 08:12 PM

Jeff is always doing really sweet little things for me. Before we got our phone thing figured out to where he could call my cell he could only call me when I got home. I would be sitting at work and his mom would call and say Jeff is on my house phone and wants to let you know that he loves and missed you so much! Awwww. My birthday was in August and he bought me a necklace that says princess on it! Then his parents took me out to lunch and there was a box that said from Jeff I love you. In it was a crystal bowl with skittles in it( when he was out he always bought me skittles.)

The other thing he does is he knows I love the color pink. When he goes to the store he buys starburst and sends me the pink ones in the mail.DAMN I LOVE THAT MAN!!!!!!!!

PEN PAL 2 FEW · #13 11-24-2009, 09:42 AM

My Hubby always makes sure that I get something for the special days, gift cards, baskets, money, etc.
He writes me the most beautiful cards and drawings too! he always puts little messages on the envelopes and he always dedicates a song to me

XBOXPROGURL · #14 11-26-2009, 12:09 AM

Things that he do for me...is just so sweet...lets see...he pays for the phone calls, and he buy all my cell phones he has this thing in his head that every time a new cell phone come out he has to buy it for me...he sending me a $100 for xmas, he write little notes inside the envelopes, he sneaks to call me and even call me back to back....I swear this man is the greatest...it's not about what he buys me, it's about how he treats me and I love it....he does for me and I do for him.....that's why I love him so much.....

noboundries · #15 11-27-2009, 10:10 AM

After i "go off" about something that pissed me off (wheather it be him or something else) he says "My Baby" in the most love-full voice ever

Then I'm all smiles and goo-goo eyes

like...."Baaabbbbe, I'm trying to be mad here

"