My guy came close to losing me once. Finding out the reason he's in there, and finding out what happened that weekend. HE hurt me and that just about KILLED him :\. He KNOWS now that he cant live without me. So thats what makes me keep going. IF I EVER found out he was with a CO, itd be over. HE knows this. He wouldnt take the chance of thinking about it, let alone doing it or getting caught.
- i love my baby
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Yes my man has slept with a correctional officer, this was before I came along come to find out not only was she sleeping with him also another inmate as well, well she ended up getting busted for it and got fired.But for all fairness Look at him..I would lust too over him..lol thats why I WOULDN'T WORK in a prison..lol
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There are plenty C.O's sleeping around with inmates, and please believe very few guys give up the oppurtunity to get ish brought in, u and ur man must be the tightest of the tight, or they (inmates) will pluck em' for a purpose, do doubt! To say that C.O.'s have families and mates at home so dont need no inmates, PLEASE, (no disrespect intended) they the main ones uckin inmates, the married ones, no lie! Would my man do it? hell NO? Why? Our money good,Sex (phone)is awesome, and he good, no purpose! One thing a wifey or main squeeze can count on is the Man will not leave u for the CO, they use them for there jail purpose. Sad but true, now it's unfair to say all men would do it, of course not, but it happens all to often, look it up online bout CO's getting fired for sleeping with inmates, and bringing ish in...ALOT!!!
i know one thing for sure is that my man is smart enough NOT to get involved with a CO. when i asked him if he'd ever thought once getting with a CO he said hell no. Not just cause of the fact that he'll be cheating on me but cause who knows who else that CO is creepin around with
COs come onto my man all the time but I know that my baby wouldn't do that to me. He loves me too much and know that our future is much more important then sleeping with a CO for free stuff etc. I trust him with my heart and soul or I wouldn't be with him
well there wasnt an answer for me, but i answered that no i dont think so.. although it really is no i KNOW he would never do that to me, he wouldnt cheat with anyone or anything so thats that
No way! He has to much respect for me and himself. When Ken decided to get married - he knew he would be with the same woman the rest of his life. That is the way he was raised to not cheat on his wife.
I know that mine did it on his first bid. CO's, nurses you name it. But he was only 19 and unattached. Our family and future are everything to him now. He was raised that you take marriage seriously. Don't marry her if you can't say you can be with only her for the rest of your life. He married me, I have no doubt that he would turn down any offer presented.