If you had to would you go through a strip-search to see your guy?

JR09 · #1 11-06-2009, 11:18 PM

Me and my man where talking the other day about all the dumb visitation rules, and here in VA they can request a visitor to be strip searched (half to do the whole squat and cough thing) if they suspect you. And if you refuse your visits can be suspended for 6 months and they can get thrown in the hole for 30 days. His mom told him that if that happened to her she wont see him for 6 months lol ..he said he has to do it before and after every visit anyways .. i said i don't mind and i would do it FOR SURE if i knew he would go to the hole otherwise, i just feel sorry for the female guards who'd have to look at my naked ass lol

Sooo how about you ladies??? Would you do the whole bend over squat and cough for your guy???

Daywalker · #2 11-07-2009, 12:42 AM

when there was the talk about the pat searches for visitors in TX prisons, I said then, that as infrequently as I got to see my husband, I would have stripped nude, stood on my head and sang "Dixie" for them if it would have gotten me in the door to visit.
All I can say is any guard that would ask me to strip nude, is vision impaired, or retarded.

chainsonmyheart · #3 11-07-2009, 02:58 AM

I'd do it if they wanted me to as long as I got to see him, I'd take a urine test on the spot as well, only thing they are going to find in my system is pepsi and nicotine and maybe some advil lol...I'm squeaky clean

KandValways · #4 11-07-2009, 06:17 AM

He has to go through it to see me, so if I had to go through it to see him;yes I would. Also, I could never have him in the hole because of me. Last time I went to visit, I had to go through no less than 4 pat downs. They pat you down every time you go to the bathroom or enter the room. They usually apologize for having to do it.

only1love · #5 11-07-2009, 11:44 AM

I would do it. Actually, I know a lady who had to do it to see her son. She was the wife of the chief of police!!! They didn't know it, didn't care, she did it. She said it was very humiliating but it was do it or not see her son. BTW, she was randomly selected! Did nothing that she knows of to bring attention to herself 44 yr old, average build, blue jeans and sweatshirt.

coachy1 · #6 11-07-2009, 12:47 PM

I expect I'll be the exception here, but no I wouldn't.

thatwiz · #7 11-07-2009, 02:28 PM

No and hubby would not let me visit if that was the policy.

poolside · #8 11-07-2009, 02:35 PM

Several years ago, when my first husband was in prison, I justed to carpool with a girl who was strip searched every single visit. They went so far as to make her take her tampon out! One day, she got caught smuggling in balloons of pot. I know, stupid!!! Anyway, she had this long, beautiful, lush black hair. She cut it all off, super short and started going in to the prison as her twin sister!!!! Since they were contact visits, I can't believe the guards fell for it!

MrsCetina · #9 11-07-2009, 04:49 PM

babydoll.face · #10 11-07-2009, 05:12 PM

Of course I would.

jeffsbaby · #11 11-07-2009, 06:30 PM

in a heartbeat.

Itsallworthit · #12 11-07-2009, 06:33 PM

I would do anything to get me through that door with him!

stacy2009 · #13 11-07-2009, 06:33 PM

My hubby would not want me to do it.......and if i went through it he would be mad at me for doing it...

**light at end** · #14 11-07-2009, 08:17 PM

I also would not do it. Yes, my husband has to do it after every visit but he was the one who broke the law. I love my husband with all my heart but I would not subject myself to that and he wouldn't allow me to subject myself to it.

kybluebird · #15 11-07-2009, 08:25 PM

He wouldn't like the idea of me doing it, but I would do it in a heartbeat if it meant I would be in the same room with him...