Hi u guys I just wanted I guess some opinions on my situtation. You know how you have that one guy friend that's always there to help u out with your bf issues and stuff..and you know he would like to be with u but u just dont feel that way?..well that was my situtation untill he got locked up..then i started to miss him..and think about him more and more..and now I'm falling for him..and he knows it and he feels the same way..he has about a yr to go..and when he gets out i want us to be togethere..but im kind of scared..i mean he's a guy..he's gonna have needs..u think it'll be possible to work?..i'm sure other people will want to see him..I dont know if i should continue with this or just avoid the heartache that might come..any suggestions??..he says he wants to be w/ me when he gets out..but i mean he donesnt know what its going to be like when he's out..
If you wanna be with him I say take the chance. Sometimes you just have to let your heart lead. Cause its better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all. And you would be left wondering What If......
I must agree with Willsgirl, it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Since he still has a year left to go instead of worrying about what will happen when he comes home, why don't you concentrate on how you feel now. If you guys are really into each other and that makes you both feel good, then go with that. Continue getting to know each other, writing each other about how you feel and since life does offer us no guarentees, that must transend to love. Meaning if you don't give it a chance, it stands no chance. I would live for the moment. Enjoy each day and let tomorrow take care of itself.
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thanx so much u guys..i had doubts but you guys made me realize that if i don't let myself go for it i'll never know..and if it doesn't turn out the way i like.. it's still gonna be worth it..he's worth it..i guess it's just been awhile since i felt this way..=)..thannxx soo much<3
dOwN tO RiDeTiLL tHe vErY eNd jUsT mE-&-mY bOyFriEnD <333
I think you should definitely go for it!!! My husband and I were friends, then best friends before we fell in love and got together, and WHILE we were best friends is when we began falling in love, and then we finally told each other how we felt. (Actually my baby told me first how he felt, but he already knew by then I was pretty crazy about him ) I am smiling so big right now just thinking about it! Good luck and this could possibly be the beginning of something very awesome!
my thought on this is pretty simple... If I had avoided every POSSIBLE heartache.... I would have NEVER been in a relationship and NEVER experienced love and affection....
EVERY relationship has potential for heartache.... but if you don't take that chance, how are you ever going to have joy??
By all means, take things slow.... and use your head as well as your heart..... Build a strong foundation to give any relationship the best chance of being stable.....